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I'm looking for a monogamous LTR with a dominant woman who seeks a man to be her slave. I was previously married and played BDSM games with my wife but I have always longed for a Mistress/slave relationship.

I am a well adjusted male and I recognize that being submissive does not mean I am weak or less of a man. I am successful in a profession that requires an aggressive personality; however, in my personal life I long to be collared and owned by the woman that I can trust with my mind, body and heart. I would especially enjoy spending my time with someone who shares vanilla interests with me. I hope, beyond being a slave, that I will also fill the role of friend and companion for her.

My ideal Mistress would test and expand my limits as she trains me to serve her particular needs. I'm not just looking for a casual encounter but a relationship full of meaning for both of us. I crave the
psychological and emotional connection of being owned by a woman whom I passionately trust and long to serve. I will gladly send a photo on request.

6/14/2008 12:08:29 PM

LOVE  I believe it is an essential ingredient for a passionate, intmate D/s relationship.  I know it must be at the center of any D/s relationship I have.  I suppose that is what separates genuine subs/slaves from those who just want to have a sexual fantasy fulfilled and engage in D/s for the sexual gratification they desire. 

6/12/2008 10:09:34 AM
I have always been wired to be submissive.  I can vividly recall these desires from the time I was a pre-teen, just reaching the age of puberty.  I suppressed those desires for a long time throughout my marriage.  Our love for each other was strong and our relationship was passionate.  In later years it included some femdom play, but I always wished my wife took her role as Mistress seriously.  My wife is gone now. As I begin this new chapter in my life, I have chosen to embark on a quest to meet a dominant woman who will share my interest for a 24/7 D/s relationship.  I want to experience passionate love again, but this time a love with a woman who is dominant and has a passion of her own to be served and obeyed.