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Thank you for stopping by and checking out my profile. I am a unattached (uncollared, single, never married) hetro-flexible male, with an interest in cross dressing. That portion of my kink list can be defined as costuming, role-play, and service. My favorite scenarios are being transformed to fill the desires of a domme. Whether its her lesbian gurlfriend, maid play, or other shared fantasies. As I am further and further between a partners who shares these interests, this scenario is becoming more fantasy than reality. Joy is my fem persona, my submissive fantasy persona, my occasional bratty persona Joy is not someone who I feel like all of the time. I only recently starting playing with others after a 5-7 year break from doing anything kink related. I recently started shooting withAliceinBondageland, and to say that I have been bit by the kink bug, is an understatement. Its sort of a re-discovery of who Joy is, I guess I really do miss sharing Joy.

On my rediscovery, something that is becoming more and more clear to me is that I am at heart an eager and willing submissive. In my heart I do want to work hard to meet the goals we set out for ourselves, almost to a point where I hyper-focus in on that vision and try to set up personal goals to help achieve the bigger goal at the end. Also Joy is definitely in love with bondage! After enduring a 2+hour adventure mummified and locked into a cell to help keep me from falling, my first thought was more bondage please! I dont think that I am going to lose my love of bondage anytime soon!

Call me old fashioned, or a hopeless romantic I believe a lifetime relationship can only be forged from a good relationship, and good relationships are forged from friendship. So for the time being I am looking for friends if we click beyond friends who knows where itll lead. Would love to find the One to be a lifetime partner and collar me, but thats the thing about lifetime relationships, they often take a lifetime to build.

Outside of kinky life, you would find me to be a perfectly normal person, perhaps a bit on the geeky side. I follow my local sport teams,Go Giants, Go Sharks, Go Niners!, I watch my favorite television showsBig Bang Theory, Once Upon a Time, Mythbusters. I love tabletop miniature games, as well as board and roleplaying games (though I lack a steady group to enjoy that currently). I play mmosocial games with my family and friends to help relax and keep up with their lives. I work within a small sushi catering company, working for companies like E-bay, Intel, Seagate, Lockheed Martin, and Ericson.

Ideal date nights range from dinner, and quietly snuggling up while we enjoy a movie and each other. Or more activities like pool, bowling, perhaps a walk hike through scenic areas. Of course scenes (bondage, cross dressing, cross dressing while tied) are also fun and welcome additions to a date night, but far from necessary to having a successful date.Again, just to be clear, I am very much in the market for a person who shares most of my vanilla interests and wants to incorporate kink as a part of our relationship. Do such people exist, I believe they do, but I just havent found her

I am not a real party person.Things like barhopping clubbing does little for meI dont drink, smoke or do drugs.I do request that during a scene that my partner(s) refrain from those activities as well.

I am an introvert.I find large group settings draining. Also, it can take awhile to get me to open up to you. Once I do start talking, it maybe difficult to shut me up.I hear gags might be a means to help with that....

I care deeply for my family and those that I can call my friends.

8/14/2023 3:18:42 PM

It has been a year since last update. 
14 of you ignored my request for more than a 'hi' 'hello' aspect. Simple one liner intro letter. 14 added to the blockled list. Meanwhile I have been to a few play parties a private movie viewing with Crossdresser friends, and a monthly munch. 

8/9/2022 5:46:41 PM

Zero effort intro or greeting messages suck. They take more time to open and prune than it takes you to copy paste it. New policy, if I don't see an reason that you like my profile over the next guy in the message you're getting blocked.
Seperate policy, if you are not a resident of the SF Bay Area or within a reasonable drive of me, most likely you're getting ignored. I have zero plans to move and zero capability to host. So if those are deal breakers move on. Too many attempt both empty emails and aren't even in the same country let alone state. If you are traveling or moving to be a local, make sure that's apparen in your introduction letter. 

3/6/2022 1:25:45 AM

March 5, 2022 - My first play party of the year. Less than a dozen of us all triple vaxxed, no non kink related masks just lots of sleep sacks and mummification. Lots of fun, things actually felt a bit closer to normal today. On my end 3.5 hours in a sleep sack, even manag to tak a brief nap. {#emotions_dlg.tongue_out}

11/9/2021 7:44:08 AM

Not into Total Power Exchange!  Dont offer me any such arrangement, you will be blocked. I find that behavior gross. 
Do not offer me blackmail material, you will be instantly blocked, that is gross behavior. 
Do not offer to move in or offer a place to stay unsolicited, it is both not welcome and and will lead to getting blocked. 

10/21/2021 9:23:21 AM

Went back to my first munch post pandemic. Was great, really is a wonderful place to meet kinky people, even from the dating sites- cause if the other party flakes, you will at least still have a chance to meet someone new and interested in similar kinks. 

11/16/2015 10:10:07 PM
The Most amazing week, True Desires!  If you don't know what this is, look it up!  Full on immersion of a lifestyle submissive.  You'll go through the basics in protocol, you'll interact and get to bond with really wonderful Mistresses.  You'll discover ALOT about yourself, and have an opportunity to safely try new and scary things with people who will CARE, TRUST, and be RESPECTFUL of you; since through the week, they'll be given the opportunity to get to KNOW YOU, on a real deep level.  A MUST, for those who have a TRUE DESIRE to serve.  (Male subs only)

1/27/2015 12:37:55 AM

== Results from

100% Bondage Receiver
100% Experimentalist
96% Submissive
94% Brat
85% Degradation Receiver
80% Masochist
66% Voyeur
63% Exhibitionist
63% Girl/Boy
63% Slave
56% Primal (Prey)
54% Non-monogamist
47% Primal (Predator)
41% Bondage Giver
35% Brat Tamer
34% Switch
25% Daddy/Mommy
22% Pervert
21% Dominant
13% Vanilla
8% Degradation Giver
8% Master/Mistress
4% All-Rounder
4% Sadist
See my results


1/18/2015 11:23:30 PM

On this site looking for play partners in the form of tops/ switches / possibly subs.  Would love to meet others who share vanilla likes as well as my kinks, yeah it's a tall wish list.  If the partner is willing, would like to go to kinky events together i.e. rope lessons.  Please be within an hour's drive of San Jose/ Santa Clara area, as that is where I spend most of my time.  (SF / Gilroy / Santa Cruz / Fremont)  and anywhere in between should give you an idea of reasonable distance.  Should go without saying, but I am mostly interested in MEETING people, so if you're looking for virtual games, please move on.  



10/29/2013 12:05:28 AM

Starting to notice a trend on people contacting me.  Blank profiles were one thing, but hidden profiles... and then demanding that I join another site to contact you? ...  Sorry move on find some other victim to prey upon "he" isn't me.

 Age: 25
 United Kingdom