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Pan Transgender Submissive, 42,  Saratoga, California
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aznfun79

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Thank you for stopping by and checking out my profile. I am a unattached (uncollared, single, never married) hetro-flexible male, with an interest in cross dressing. That portion of my kink list can be defined as costuming, role-play, and service. My favorite scenarios are being transformed to fill the desires of a domme. Whether its her lesbian gurlfriend, maid play, or other shared fantasies. As I am further and further between a partners who shares these interests, this scenario is becoming more fantasy than reality. Joy is my fem persona, my submissive fantasy persona, my occasional bratty persona Joy is not someone who I feel like all of the time. I only recently starting playing with others after a 5-7 year break from doing anything kink related. I recently started shooting withAliceinBondageland, and to say that I have been bit by the kink bug, is an understatement. Its sort of a re-discovery of who Joy is, I guess I really do miss sharing Joy.

On my rediscovery, something that is becoming more and more clear to me is that I am at heart an eager and willing submissive. In my heart I do want to work hard to meet the goals we set out for ourselves, almost to a point where I hyper-focus in on that vision and try to set up personal goals to help achieve the bigger goal at the end. Also Joy is definitely in love with bondage! After enduring a 2+hour adventure mummified and locked into a cell to help keep me from falling, my first thought was more bondage please! I dont think that I am going to lose my love of bondage anytime soon!

Call me old fashioned, or a hopeless romantic I believe a lifetime relationship can only be forged from a good relationship, and good relationships are forged from friendship. So for the time being I am looking for friends if we click beyond friends who knows where itll lead. Would love to find the One to be a lifetime partner and collar me, but thats the thing about lifetime relationships, they often take a lifetime to build.


Outside of kinky life, you would find me to be a perfectly normal person, perhaps a bit on the geeky side. I follow my local sport teams,Go Giants, Go Sharks, Go Niners!, I watch my favorite television showsBig Bang Theory, Once Upon a Time, Mythbusters. I love tabletop miniature games, as well as board and roleplaying games (though I lack a steady group to enjoy that currently). I play mmosocial games with my family and friends to help relax and keep up with their lives. I work within a small sushi catering company, working for companies like E-bay, Intel, Seagate, Lockheed Martin, and Ericson.

Ideal date nights range from dinner, and quietly snuggling up while we enjoy a movie and each other. Or more activities like pool, bowling, perhaps a walk hike through scenic areas. Of course scenes (bondage, cross dressing, cross dressing while tied) are also fun and welcome additions to a date night, but far from necessary to having a successful date.Again, just to be clear, I am very much in the market for a person who shares most of my vanilla interests and wants to incorporate kink as a part of our relationship. Do such people exist, I believe they do, but I just havent found her

I am not a real party person.Things like barhopping clubbing does little for meI dont drink, smoke or do drugs.I do request that during a scene that my partner(s) refrain from those activities as well.

I am an introvert.I find large group settings draining. Also, it can take awhile to get me to open up to you. Once I do start talking, it maybe difficult to shut me up.I hear gags might be a means to help with that....

I care deeply for my family and those that I can call my friends.










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 aznfun79

 Submissive Transgender

 Saratoga 

 California

 5' 6"

 155 lbs

 42

 Pan

 Asian

 02/11/13

 

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Switch Women

Switch Male

Friends

 Lives For:

 Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Sensory Deprivation

 Strap-Ons

 Loves:

 Movies

 Museums

 Musical Theater

 Travel

 Walking

 Anal Play

 Blindfolds

 Collars

 Crossdressing (Beginner)

 Being Massaged

 Gags

 Hoods

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 TV Sports

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining

 Fishing

 Local BDSM Community

 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling

 Leashes

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving)

 Objectification

 Clothing Selection

 Maid / Butler Service

 Oral Service (Beginner)

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Shibari

 Spanking

 Stockings

 Vibrators

 Wax Play (Beginner)

 Arcade Games

 MMORPGs

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing

 Karaoke

 Liberal Politics

 Female Supremacy

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Tolerates:

 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching

 Gambling

 Enemas

 Exhibitionism

 Humiliation

 Mental Bondage

 Tickling

 TV News

 Curious About:

 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Renaissance Faires

 Shopping

 Volunteerism

 Begging

 Body Worship

 Cages (Beginner)

 Cane / Crop Discipline

 Chastity (Beginner)

 Corsetry

 Diapers

 Dilation

 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Domestic Service

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fisting

 Gas Masks

 Housework Service

 Medical Play

 Munches

 Orgasm Control

 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish

 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Whips

 Drawing (Beginner)

 Photography (Beginner)

 Dislikes:

 Bar Hopping

 Raves

 Corner Time

 Conservative Politics

 Hates:

 Clubbing

 Hard Limits:

 Fire Play

 Knife Play

 Watersports

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Journal Entries:
3/6/2022 1:25:45 AM

March 5, 2022 - My first play party of the year. Less than a dozen of us all triple vaxxed, no non kink related masks just lots of sleep sacks and mummification. Lots of fun, things actually felt a bit closer to normal today. On my end 3.5 hours in a sleep sack, even manag to tak a brief nap. {#emotions_dlg.tongue_out}


11/9/2021 7:44:08 AM

Not into Total Power Exchange!  Dont offer me any such arrangement, you will be blocked. I find that behavior gross. 
Do not offer me blackmail material, you will be instantly blocked, that is gross behavior. 
Do not offer to move in or offer a place to stay unsolicited, it is both not welcome and and will lead to getting blocked. 


10/21/2021 9:23:21 AM

Went back to my first munch post pandemic. Was great, really is a wonderful place to meet kinky people, even from the dating sites- cause if the other party flakes, you will at least still have a chance to meet someone new and interested in similar kinks. 


11/16/2015 10:10:07 PM
The Most amazing week, True Desires!  If you don't know what this is, look it up!  Full on immersion of a lifestyle submissive.  You'll go through the basics in protocol, you'll interact and get to bond with really wonderful Mistresses.  You'll discover ALOT about yourself, and have an opportunity to safely try new and scary things with people who will CARE, TRUST, and be RESPECTFUL of you; since through the week, they'll be given the opportunity to get to KNOW YOU, on a real deep level.  A MUST, for those who have a TRUE DESIRE to serve.  (Male subs only)



1/27/2015 12:37:55 AM

== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/

 ==
100% Bondage Receiver
100% Experimentalist
96% Submissive
94% Brat
85% Degradation Receiver
80% Masochist
66% Voyeur
63% Exhibitionist
63% Girl/Boy
63% Slave
56% Primal (Prey)
54% Non-monogamist
47% Primal (Predator)
41% Bondage Giver
35% Brat Tamer
34% Switch
25% Daddy/Mommy
22% Pervert
21% Dominant
13% Vanilla
8% Degradation Giver
8% Master/Mistress
4% All-Rounder
4% Sadist
See my results


 


1/18/2015 11:23:30 PM

On this site looking for play partners in the form of tops/ switches / possibly subs.  Would love to meet others who share vanilla likes as well as my kinks, yeah it's a tall wish list.  If the partner is willing, would like to go to kinky events together i.e. rope lessons.  Please be within an hour's drive of San Jose/ Santa Clara area, as that is where I spend most of my time.  (SF / Gilroy / Santa Cruz / Fremont)  and anywhere in between should give you an idea of reasonable distance.  Should go without saying, but I am mostly interested in MEETING people, so if you're looking for virtual games, please move on.  

 

 


10/29/2013 12:05:28 AM

Starting to notice a trend on people contacting me.  Blank profiles were one thing, but hidden profiles... and then demanding that I join another site to contact you? ...  Sorry move on find some other victim to prey upon "he" isn't me.


9/3/2013 12:42:55 AM

Cheap plug for my tumblr account :  http://yoursissyjoy.tumblr.com

mostly it's stuff that turn me on, or give me ideas.  just passed 300 followers


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