Collarspace.com

Hello. I am a professional intelligent dominant adult who is looking for someone to complete myself. I have long endured a desire to force pleasure on a partner; the nature of this pleasure is a rare combination of forcing one's will over another yet at the same time exercising knowledge, compassion and a strength of purpose in the relationship. In such a relationship, as in life in general, the definitions are not so clear cut: I will dominate, decide and define aspects of the relationship yet I need guidance and feedback from that partner. Though I would assume the dominant role I am in fact a very sensitive person. I rely heavily on the input and feedback of the person I am working with in order to achieve the goals of the relationship. I short I need to establish an excellent communication with my partner if both are to be happy, for truly I suck at guessing games. I doubt I would be appropriate for many who seek a wild ride from and internet hookup - not my cup o' tea. I have been married (currently divorcing), I have kids, I have nothing to prove. I can entertain my fantasy of finding a like minded partner without falling for a false need of unfulfilled desire. I can and will be picky. In the end I benefit from the knowledge that I know what I want and I'm pretty sure there's someone out there who wants the same...
MissVain
 
 Age: 31
  California