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aydan13

Female Submissive, 40, Vancouver
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About aydan13

I am 100% Dom. Arrogant, yes. Egotistical, definitely. Self-centered… of course, well at least 75% of the time (My sub would say 99% of the time but then she likes spankings so…) But with all that comes totally charming, caring, and playful. Oh yes, I should mention a wickedly dry sense of humor and a killer set of dimples.

I have a collared alpha sub (My wife Shylark) but am looking for a second sub to join us in a poly-relationship. I don’t expect a doormat. I do however expect you to make a concerted effort to get along with my alpha sub. You must be able to handle children. We have several, and while they may deserve it, I refuse to have them euthanized. I expect honesty, I can forgive most things but a lie destroys trust, and trust is a must in any relationship.

One last Item: (in case you didn’t get it already) Shylark came first, and will stay first. If you think you can change this, go find some other Dom to attempt to change and good luck with that endeavor.

As I said earlier, I am the Dom. I don't change, you do.

been married since july 11, never dreamed being married could feel this right. My shylark is everything to Me.
just a word of advise to other Doms....Do not go with your bride to be shopping for a wedding dress UNLESS you have sufficiant meds for the migrane that you will get from watching all these women twisting and fawning over dresses lol
*yawn* a so-called slave sent me a three word messege . it said "what a joke"
 normaly I would not even give a "slave" the satisfaction of replying to it,However I have dealt with this slave wannabee in the past so, I tried to reply. she blocked Me before I could reply. I don't know what her game is but, if it takes sending stupid messeges to make her feel like she is superior then she is more pathetic then I thought.
  You know who you are. get over yourself, you tried to take my alpha slaves place even after being told that you would NEVER be number one in My life. you lost, I almost feel sorry for any Master that trys to take you as His/Her slave
seems there is a "slave" choke choke.. on here that likes to send stupid messeges and then blocks you so you can't reply. all i can say is GROW UP!!!!!
i just read a "slaves" journal entry and had to laugh. This "slave" is saying she admits to making mistakes. Please, I know first hand she blames every one else except herself for her mistakes. Good luck if You are unlucky enough to get involved with her
I wish subs and slaves would remember even the best Masters make mistakes
Merry Christmas to all Dom/mes,subs,switches and slaves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well its been a while since I felt the need to express my self here, but over the last few days there has been a rather nice development in my life. I have placed a collar of consideration on a slave. Shy seems to accept the new situation well, but then who truly knows what goes on in the fickle mind of a female. The only resistance to the new addition to the mix actually came from an unexpected source, one of my young pre-teen girls. She is growing up much more rapidly than expected and like most children seems to enjoy thinking and acting unexpectedly. If the female mind is a convoluted, tricky maze of contradictions adding the hormones of a child going through puberty to the mix is like adding an additional layer of smoky fog that reduces visibility to nil while trying to navigate that maze.

I personally would like to present two separate thoughts.

The first is simply this: To be on this site you should be over the age of consent, yet for some reason very few people take the time to write in complete, well thought out, and correctly spelled sentences. Honestly, how hard is it to use a spell checker. They even make an add-on for Internet Explorer that will spell check anything you type in your browser.

The second thought is this: It seems that while listing themselves as slaves many list "limits" and/or "hard rules". While I agree that each person should be encouraged to remain safe, I find that these terms do not fit with the image of a slave. I put forth that setting anything as a limit is somewhat like wearing a large red cape on a windy day into the pasture containing several large angry bulls.

As I personally believe Master/slave relationships are developed not simply jumped into, it seems to me an understanding of what is acceptable will also develop and change as time passes.

Well enough of my ramblings for one day.

 

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