Aworkman

I'm educated, humorous, and sarcastic—but highly tolerant. I'm attracted to people who are different -- different races or ages, with large or small bodies, unusual features, and so on. I even enjoy spending time with people who differ politically, so long as they think for themselves rather than parrot cable news.

I enjoy power exchanges. I learned from a wise partner that kink is meant to be a balancing activity. Because I'm naturally dominant in my vanilla life, I sometimes like to sublimate that nature. In doing so, I do not submit so much as I surrender. (With a strong-willed partner, I surrender completely. I don’t top from the bottom – I endure.) Nonetheless, I prefer expressing my dominant side in kink, primarily sadistically and especially alongside another dom/domme.

This is why I identified myself as a “fetishist” rather than according to a role. I abandon my intellectual self in the presence of my fetish triggers. If you are dominant and so inclined, you can use this to your advantage. If you are submissive, you may fall victim to them. (Generally SSC, but RACK on occasion.)