I am also well educated, creative, polite and articulate. I am also adventurous and I look after myself- that does not mean I am obsesses with the gym either. I prefer my subs to be likewise.
I dont dress up in silly costumes, for me the DS relationship is more about the mental power play than anything else and its not about punishment but reward. The sub longs to feel the force of her dom, longs to feel the pain and pleasure of his touch.
I am discrete and wont do anything illegal, unhygienic, criminal or unhealthy. Total respect and trust are given and expected in return.