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I am an intelligent Dominant Alpha Male who comes to D/s through the spiritual portal. I understand that many others focus on the physicality of it, but for me it starts with the spiritual, then goes to the mental, then to the emotional and only if those are in alignment does it progress to the physical realm. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy some of the physical aspects of BDSM; but it is ALWAYS about the understanding that what you do to others, how you treat others, shall be done to you.
Since I have done much inner work on myself, the special woman that I am seeking has likewise worked on her demons and has a clear understanding of who she is, why she is "here", and where she is going. She understands the confluence of D/s and service. She understands that the highest level of unfoldment is in the complete surrender of self through service as a means of movement towards unconditional love.
If she is more enamored with whips, chains, welts, severe forms of needles, cutting etc. I am not the right one. If you are into bring "bratty", insolent, topping from the bottom or other passive-aggressive methods of testing your Dom, I am not the right one. If however you have dreamed of a Dominant Man with wisdom, spiritual awareness, knowledge, understanding, compassion, who is fully in touch with his kinky side (see SSC), then perhaps we should talk.
While I would much prefer someone close by for r/t, I am open to accepting a female sub for training long distance with the understanding that it will progress towards r/t.
I might also be open to mentoring or teaching the right female submissive.
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