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Female Dominant, 50, ny, Georgia
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About awetslit
heya!!!!
im here looking to learn more about the lifestyle and learn about becoming a slave. i am submissive, i have had a Dom in the past, but i crave more. i want to journey further into this wicked fun little rabbit hole. and i want to find a good man to lead me.
yes my id is an attention grabber, i realize this. but lets face it - if you're submissive, and have slave tendencies it's hard to deny that being used and controlled doesn't get the kitty wet. ;)
i'm very interested in an ALPHA, 1950's style relationship. i think that the traditional relationship has been lost in the U.S. and should be brought back. Men are natural leaders, and women are naturally caregivers and submissive. If a woman denies that - they are not being honest with themselves.
i realize i am young, and new to this, and i know i have a lot to learn, and that i need to be safe about the way i go about finding the right man to be my Alpha. So i do have criteria to go about my search with. And EVERY email i receive will be gone over following this criteria. But to inform all of you of the basics -
- be between 22 and 45.
- be healthy and in shape.
- be employed ( i am employed and i expect the same)
- have goals and successful accomplishments (doesn't have to be anything major, just things you are proud of)
- be an ALPHA (a man's man)
- Don't be married ( i don't wish to be the OTHER woman)
- Be caring
- Sane
- Wish to protect your property and not bring harm to it
- Don't be rude (if you wouldn't to say it to a woman on the street, don't say it in my box to get my attention)
- Know the difference between violence, abuse, and rough play (i enjoy things extremely rough, but i don't want to be abused)
- You can not desire to share me (i want a one-on-one relationship) NO POLY in any form. (all couple messages are routed directly to my bulk at this point now that i figured it out)
- Want something real, not just online play.
as i say in my list, i am employed, i enjoy my job, but i am willing to relocate given the right circumstances. And i can do so with my own funds. i am open to hosting visits, once i know someone so that we can have time together offline, and get to know each-other in person, but this does NOT mean i will play immediately nor should you expect me to submit after one get together.
i play safely - that said, a local friend of mine who knows i am in the lifestyle is aware of my search, and i make him aware of who i meet, when, and where. He is a friend, nothing more, it is just to keep myself safe. If you can not handle that, then we probably shouldn't talk.
i love the idea of like minded friends so if you are a sub and want another friend and to share your journey with someone in the same boat, let me know, and we can chat!!!
that was a lot to read, huh?
glad you made it this far! Send me a message if you liked what you read. or just to say hi. whatevah!
~ kitten ~
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So it is news to me that wanting a traditional relationship is a thing of the past and should be given up on and I should just ACCEPT and be in a poly relationship. Does no one believe in monogamy anymore? Sad that in a alternative lifestyle, even those who want a 50's relationship are outcasts ...
Maybe I do need to wake up and accept that traditional values and relationships aren't out there anymore. But I am a fighter, and I won't give up just yet.
I wrote in my profile I wanted a traditional 50's relationship for a reason, so that people wouldn't waste their time or mine, but no one reads profiles so when I point out that I don't agree with poly I am a bigot,.. Well, I find your nonacceptance of traditional values to be bigotry as well.
I just don't want that stuff pushed on me, why is that wrong?! Live your life, I'll live mine, but don't tell me I have to agree with you and accept that your way is the right way. |
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