So I was dating this crazy chick, right. She was all into that kinky shit like whips and chains. On the other hand, so was I so it really wasn't that spectacular: "It's only kinky the first time". Anyway, we had this problem from day 1. She had this fantasy about dominating me. This made me happy. In vanilla relationships as a male I almost always get an active dominating role, so when I met a girl that wanted to dominate me I gladly toned down my huge ego. The problem was, she also toned down. We never got to the dominating part because she was always imitating me on the toning down part. So we always ended up cuddling, in a warm non-dominating non-kinky way. |