autumnsunrise

About autumnsunrise

I am 41 year old submissive lady. I consider myself as a blend of submissive, slave and babygirl. I am looking for an HONEST Dominant and submissive relationship, not just someone I can play with One on one but even more. I am not a needy person but do have needs just as everyone. I guess one of the more important things I need is caring guidance in my life and being guided and held responsible for the actions and guidance with those actions. A big pleasure I get out of a D/s relationship is servitude and respectful protocol. I have never been taught or been allowed to be a bratty s-type. I crave a firm (not egotistical), yet loving and caring. I know these things can be hard to find and sometimes but I am willing to be patient. I speak of "egotistical" a lot because I believe on starting out politely and on a more vanilla conversation and first meeting and then allowing the D/s grow from there naturally so that trust is built. I don't believe that just because a woman is submissive that she should automatically surrender to demands when first speaking with someone online or first meeting them.

Ideal Person:
I am not looking for perfect.
I am looking for honest and loving which I think at times can be
a bit more difficult sometimes.
In search of a Dom or Daddy Dom that is interested in taking the
time it takes to get to know a person before jumping right into scene or bed. I am looking for a Dom that is more into the D/s and the mind then beating the ass.
I crave a nurturing, loving, teaching, protective Dom or Daddy Dom, someone that is comfortable with their dominance. I enjoy many aspects of the lifestyle but please know that playing doesn't come right away, it comes with trust that is not given carelessly.
Daddy Doms interested can be a plus

Now on a more vanilla note*

I am looking for friends first and dating, possibly lead to LTR. I would love to meet that special someone that will love me for me and that can care and guide me through life. Someone that I can share the good times and the not so good times with. A person that will laugh with me and hold me when I am sad. I am a very open person, a good listener, very caring and passionate and am looking for someone with the same qualities. I like to go out or have quiet cuddles on the couch. I enjoy good conversation because the mind is a terrible thing to waste. lol I have one wonderful son and I am family oriented. If I pique your interest, don't be shy, feel welcome to email or IM anytime. In the search of finding someone special I am also comfortable with just being friends as well. We can never have too many friends.

Please don't contact me if you are married, if you have a submissive or have a poly household as I am just looking for one on one.
-Thank you-