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Considering that I have gotten this a lot I DO NOT ENGAGE IN ONLINE ONLY DYNAMICS. RARELY do I entertain long distance dynamics. Should the interests match up outside as well as inside of the dynamic I MAY do a long term dynamic with RELOCATION potential for the submissiveswitch only! UPDATE 4-15-15
That being said, I encourage you to read my ENTIRE profile before messaging me.



Before requesting to engage in a dynamic with me, ask yourself What can I do for her? If you dont have an answer to this question, its best you move on.



Sometimes a whore,Often a slut,Always a lady.

Lady A.



I am a black female. Intelligent, articulate, educated, and strong. I am into mental submission and getting to know more about your mind than your body. I am a strong Mistress and a very loving one as well. There is strength in submission both giving and receiving.



If you want to know more about me. I take good care of my subs and slaves. The right Domme learns more than just what makes you cum. I believe there needs to be a connection with a Domme and hisher s-type that extends beyond the bedroom. I am 247 not just bedroom or online. I believe in innervating and becoming a part of my subs (or slaves) life. Over all I am learning you as you are learning me and in this life thats how it should be.



Someone I connect with and can grow a family with. There for yes I am looking for a long term relationship with my s-type. Someone who appreciates the woman along with the Mistress. I prefer poly relationships. I am a Tantric Buddhist. I seek to enrich my mind and enhance my life as well as your submission. Should our paths cross know that I am unforgettable. I do entertain both singles and couples should the fit be right.



I could list a bunch of adjectives that describe me but none would do me justice. I am polyamorous and eventually may take on more than one submissiveslave. My partners need to be intelligent and have something going on in their mind as well as in their lives outside of me. I respond to all qualified and interested parties and I take my time in reading profiles to see if the initial ination is a good fit.
11/16/2012 8:07:30 AM

I have one submissive.  I am open to new ones, all be it I am not ACTIVELY looking for additional submissives. Feel free to try your hand but know that you need to be more than just a pretty face or someone who is looking to be tortured. I only take on submissives with character and depth. 

10/18/2012 10:31:45 AM

I could sit here and list all the different things that annoy me. But the number one thing will always be people who aren't serious about the lifestyle. I understand if our ideals and interests don't match up. No harm no foul. but I don't do people who play around with something that I live.  I am not in this for the sexual conquests.  I am not here to make you do things you don't want to do. I am here to lead and you are there to follow. Simple. Some people don't get that. I will NOT repeat myself. 

8/17/2012 4:04:32 PM

I think I just may have found the one I've been looking for.... this certainly looks promising.... 

8/14/2012 4:43:06 PM

Pet peeves: 

 

1) if you're not seriously interested don't waste my time... I will never get that back. 

2) if you don't know squat about BDSM, don't message me until you've done BASIC research

3) Honey, Sweetie, Darling, etc. are not appropriate titles to address a Mistress... its unbecoming

4) Basic grammar and mechanical skills are a must.  "U r" is not an acceptable subject verb agreement

5) READ MY DAMN PROFILE before messaging me.  I hate repeating myself. 

4/18/2012 2:56:30 PM

wishes I could find my precious baby girl ......

10/7/2011 11:18:45 PM

If you are old enough to be my grand father (my grandmother was born in 1946) you are DEFINITELY not my type. if you are old enough to be my father (my mother was born in 1965) you are more than likely not my type. Please use that as a guide line when talking to me. While I am mature and I do enjoy older men there is a limit to it. 

8/28/2011 12:47:17 PM

I am not really into the whole Black Domination white submission thing.  Race play is NOT my kink.  I am into quality submissives regardless of race or national origin.   I prefer women, US citizens, and those of color but I am open to all.  Inquire within. 

8/26/2011 5:58:33 AM

Sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me....

8/24/2011 3:26:15 PM

If you didn't know, proper grammar and mechanics will get you considerably farther in life than slang and TaLkInG LiKe ThIs. That's just my personal opinion......

8/22/2011 6:33:24 PM

Apperantly I'm only horny when I breathe....

8/22/2011 11:57:40 AM

Okay, How are you going to be looking for a "real" sub that wants to please when you're not even a "real" Dom. I am opinionated, verbal, and intelligent. Excuse me if I'm not going to just accept any old man who calls himself a Dom.  It doesn't make me a bad sub at all, it just means that I have a brain.  Anyone worth his weight in salt would be able to see the real me. The 100% switch 98% submissive 88% slave me.  But alas..... you're Real Domliness (I know that's not a word) doesn't even inspire me to want to submit so I continue my search..... 

8/13/2011 7:37:05 AM

Making today another productive one.... looking to chill today.  I hope that things work out as planned... Later days :D 

8/8/2011 4:16:35 PM
Another day another dollar Making today fruitful and doing more for my blog and things this is going to be a good year.
8/6/2011 6:52:03 PM
So I am trying something new. I have always been active in bdsm I think that now I am going to be more active in my selection of a D type I am looking forward to being under his guidance again and direction can't wait to see what's I'm store
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 Age: 37
 Oxford UK, United Kingdom