AswitchNtime

Who am I? I am simply the finest man a woman may ever know! Seriously, I am loyal, kind, respectful, intelligent, honest, caring, committed, humorous, hard working, independent, nice looking, clean, an excellent lover and a well rounded companion. “Than why” you may ask “are you not married or taken?” The answer is I have been both! Married and taken - lol. I know it is the same old story you’ve heard before, the same old line. If you think that way than keep looking for your “Mr. Right”. If you feel the same way (that you have all the qualities I listed about myself and are still single) than take a moment and consider * I may be for real, and deserving of a loving relationship - just like you!* I have learned many things about myself through my ‘failed’ relationships and I have learned never to settle for anything but the best. I never cheated on a marriage or a ’romance’ even when I had been cheated on. Some people would say that I must be a sucker, or a fool. In truth it was because I was honorable and decent - a person of their word. I still am! But now I am smarter and wiser. I know I deserve the same qualities from my partner. I will never settle for anything less, I am worth it! Through my ‘failures’ I have gained self-respect, self-confidence and self-trust. - ADD three more qualities to the list! The sweetest thing is - I have no regrets and I hold no animosities. I may no longer love the few women who have betrayed my trust but I do not hate them either - they made me what I am today - the finest man a woman may ever know!

Enough about me, let’s talk about You. Before you write or respond to my contact search your soul and see if you have the same qualities I have listed for myself. Then ask yourself these questions; Are you happy and comfortable with who you are? Are you mature and confident? Do you love life? Are you the finest woman a man could wish to know? Have you forgiven yourself for your ‘failures’? Have you learned from your ‘mistakes’ and improved with age? If you can say yes to these questions you may have found “Mr. Right” - Right here!

I am 90% Dominant but I list myself as a ‘switch’ for the simple reason that I enjoy the bottom from time to time, and it keeps me ’honest’ as your ’Dom’ - I will not subject you to anything that I am not willing to be subjected to. I know it is good being on ‘top’ and I want you to enjoy it too, I also know it is good being on the ‘bottom’ and I will not deny myself those wonderful moments. With me it is “total” no mater what position, I hope it is the same for you. I will not settle for less and neither should you. There are some things I will not do such as scat, and anything involving children, and there are some things I do not personally like such as verbal and physical humiliation, and multiply partners. The former is non-negotiable the latter I can work with you on - if you are the finest. I do not have experience in many areas of the BD\SM lifestyle and I consider this an advantage for BOTH of us. If you are like me we will have a great time opening EVERY door and finding what we enjoy. If you have experience than we will have an equally great time - you can ’bring me up to speed’ as I enthusiastically devour our ’lessons’ and give you my fresh perspectives and insights.

I am seeking a Long Term Relationship with my lover, my companion, my lady, my slave and Mistress - I am not seeking much - just the finest and the best

my EQUAL.