astolphe

I am a confident, optimistic, motivated, perceptive,
realistic and not so easily rattled guy. I’m rarely at a loss for words but I
always listen first then speak. If I had to pick just one, I’d say my most
valuable asset is my sense of humor. I treat people with respect and expect to
be treated with respect by the people I meet. I love learning and trying new
things and I love to listen to new ideas and hearing other people’s
perspectives. Also I don’t allow second
class behavior in myself and I really try to live to my best. I expect that
from the people in my life.

Getting to know new people is one of the great things about
life. I’m not talking about the typical, ‘hey, hi, how ‘ya dong’ stuff. I mean really getting to know someone, learning
what makes them smile, what they hope to do in life, who this person really is.
It’s a slow process to lay bare who you are to someone, but more than worth it
in the end.

I’m interested in having an ongoing relationship, not
necessarily exclusive but certainly more than just a one night stand. I want to
hang out with you and have fun, you know, out there in the real world. Do you
know what my perfect date is? It’s a non-date. I know what you’re thinking,
‘umm, what?’ Simple, It's just two people hanging out and getting to know each
other. How about we stay in the moment and explore? In other words, I don't
date. I connect and explore the possibility of what can happen.

Well, now that you’ve learned a few things about me, now
it’s your turn to share a few things about yourself, after all, it’s only fair.
And don’t worry about the whole first meeting thing. I am pretty easy to get
along with and can make you feel comfortable in a very short time.