askinicely

Hello and thanks for taking the time to read my profile.

As you can see I am 46 and currently live alone, no I am not some sad old man buying micro-wave dinners for one, just happy as I am and in a stable career

Many years ago I used to be fairly active within bdsm (although not all that publicly), primarily as a Dom although work, friends, moving etc took their toll and I guess without really realising it I just sort of drifted away from it all.

But now I am somewhat mellower, and life has settled down I would like to get back involved again. I could advertise as a Dom as I am comfortable with that role, but to be honest I am not sure I want the dependency in many cases that comes with it, for me I just want the fun and enjoyment that a bdsm or D/s relationship has, and then if things develop naturally then so be it.

I have subbed in the past when first starting out, although I like making others happy I found it only realy occurred in the bedroom, so can’t really see me being able to hold that role permanently ~ although never say never as the saying goes as i am sure everyone has something they will ush themselves for or be encouraged to.

So with all that in mind I looked at switching. It seems to cover all the bases, leaves freedom to explore naturally and find what all those involved enjoy, added to which there is variety. So here I am, a 46 year old beginner switch with bdsm experience, a lot of toys, equipment and knowledge from the ‘old days’.

So if anyone is interested in chatting and getting to know more about me, either as the person or my bdsm / kinky past then please feel free.

I am happy to talk with anyone, be that with a view to meet or just platonically, and will try to answer all emails I get.

The only thing I ask is that if you smoke and want to know me better, please take into consideration that for me that is close to a hard limit as it comes, and so unless a compromise can be made we are unlikely to be anything other than friends, sorry.

But i am equally happy to just make friends both in and out of the lifestyle, i have been asked if i would teach or mentor. I have done this in the past but i really need to get to know you well in a friendship sense first before embarking on any such venture.