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ashleyjones916

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Seeking a Woman in the BDSM Lifestyle--I am a Newcomer to Lesbian Play & Only 1.5 years of BDSM

For the sake of openness--I am a submissive bisexual woman. I have to put lesbian here to get off all the male search engines. But I don't want to mislead you. I have slowly come into the D/s lifestyle for the last year and a half. I also have a vanilla boyfriend who fulfills me in other areas. This would intimidate him & is no part of my D-s world and certainly not my same sex world. Right now, I am looking for lesbian or bisexual women only; my experience with women is just beginning and it is important that the play is somewhere between vanilla and light domination. Submissives who are experienced with their lesbian side are fine. Online to me means everything but touch between us, as the comfort and trust builds: texts, voice and finally visual encounters with partners I feel safe and comfortable with. It needs to mean that to you if you contact me.

The first need I had when I came here was to deepen my sexual-emotional experiences as a submissive and find greater intensity and pleasure in that. I am a pleasure slut, NOT a pain slut--though I know greater arousal means twisting, clipping, suction and dilation at greater levels to be part of waking up my sexual nerve endings. I have met that domination need, though, since he is only a part-time mentor and male, the bisexual need remains unsatisfied.

So, I am looking for lesbian or bisexual women who understand the needs of a submissive woman just beginning to explore her own woman-to-woman cravings. That can be vanilla or d/s experiences as long as the woman knows what a submissive feels and needs--it is impossible for me to be a sexual dominant. There is no need for you to get permission from my male dominant mentor--he is not going to collar me and I am not 24/7 or "owned".

So, if you think my profile interests or arouses you--a satisfying sex life is a HUGE priority for me; and I find myself happily obsessing about women now :)

3/9/2014 1:31:30 PM

Its hard to come to terms with what happens in my life. How much do I cause to happen even though I want the opposite? When I changed what I want on my profile to women, right away two of the women seemed to pull me to them. One wanted a lot of writing and that is tooooo much for a full time student, but why I didn't I tell her? The other is almost the perfect sexy older friend who you find yourself in bed with because you  know it will be safe.

Then, just like that!--the boyfriend wakes up, comes alive and a dazzling ten days of pretty good vanilla sex. Then this afternoon, I realize its been a whole week since I was here! and then the hunger is there again. I am not looking for advice. This is a written "note to self".

2/19/2014 1:19:57 PM

A lot of difference in the women here! Nice first day on CollarMe seeking to find my woman-woman needs in the world of CollarMe. Finding I prefer Dominants that are 25 or younger, the older messages and profiles have been too much [at least for now]. Submissive women seem very comfortable, but many want to bring their male dominant. Whatever the reason, the Switches here all feel really comfortable :)

MistrezzOPassion
 
 Age: 30
 Federal Way, Washington