asdrummer

I am a truly dominant man, who is currently seeking one
very special slave. she must have more than just the desire to serve. she must
have a need, and she must understand the void that no other type of relationship
could ever fill. This is not a game but a way of life to me.

she must be willing to surrender every ounce of her
being to her Master. I have been in a with submissive relationship in the past,
but that was/is not enough for me. This is not about submitting when you want
to submit. There is a whole world out there and freedom many will never
understand. This world and this freedom can only be found by forgoing all
right, all wants, and all desires; you must accept and believe that true
happiness is attained by pleasing your Master.

I am seeking a long-term relationship maybe a lifetime
commitment. eventually This is not for the faint of heart. She will be molded by my hand into the perfect slave for me, she will become the other half of a perfect relationship, which knows only the boundaries I give it. This is a bond that no one could ever understand without having lived it. We will become completely dependent on each other. I will shelter her, protect her, teach her, and guide her. she will feel safe within my arm and lost without.

In this relationship there will be no safe words, no
limits set by the slave. If I am to collar her and make her mine, she must be
willing to be just that - mine. Herein lies a big part of the difference
between the part-time submissive and the slave. A real Master will cherish and
love his slave. she would be my post prized possession and I would never do
anything detrimental to her will being, although I can be a bit of a sadist. It
might hurt for a little bit, it might appear to be more than she can handle, but
I will make that call. Limits are meant to be pushed, expanded, and eventually
dissolved. When you are owned, you do not have the power to decide where to set
your limits; you do have the new found freedom to totally trust int he power of
another. This is another way this is a superior relationship to all others.
This relationship forces two people to have a much higher level of trust in each
other than the average relationship out there, and without trust we are
nothing.

I know this type of total power exchange is not for
everyone. It can be a bit intimidating at first. I do know, however, that it
can form an unbreakable bond of love and adoration. There is much less of a
dependence on each other in a regular (vanilla) relationship. The Master sets
the boundaries for his slave, provides for pleasure, safety, and happiness. At
the same time he is building that dependence on him from her, he is forming a
deep, deep bond for her. Most Masters would never admit it, but they are just
as dependent on their slaves as their slaves are on them. At 29, I plan for
this ideally to be my last relationship. That is why I am certain I can create
the perfect slave and become the perfect Master for her. Every relationship is
different, so I know I will have to grow a bit to be the perfect Master for her,
when I find her.