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Hetero Male Dominant, 46,  Quakertown, Pennsylvania
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Due to the difficulties updating profiles here, I want to share that I was born in 1975, making me 46 as of this writing. Ive been exploring BDSM online since I was 18. And in person since I was 28. In 2015, I relocated from the Chicagoland area to the Lehigh Valley area. In Chicago I was an occasional participant at munches, sloshes, play events and kinky conventions. I wasnt around a lot, but I got out once in a while. Im eager to make friends here on the east coast and pick up where I left off.

What am I looking for? Well, first let me describe my limitations. Im a divorced dad with shared custody of two sons (born in the early 2010's). Because of that, I am firmly rooted to my location in eastern PA until roughly 2031. I also need to maintain a vanilla relationship exterior at home and outside of home when my sons are present. I keep my toys locked up now. But I have some interesting spaces - indoors and outdoors - on my 6 acre property.

So, within those constraints, I seek a feminine, submissive partner. Someone to help create a home and family. Someone to follow my lead, to communicate her needs, wants, and desires, but who then will trust me to act in a way that leads us toward our goals. In the bedroom, I prefer a mix of love and lust, playfulness and intensity, vanilla and kink. I look forward to having access to all three of her orifices. I look forward to framing her body with shibari rope ties, corsets, body jewelry, lingerie. I hope to experiment with a variety of toys and implements. I am not a sadist, and I dont enjoy inflicting severe pain. sp anking, hair pulling, nipple clamps, a leather belt, those are my style.

On a relationship note, I enjoy a variety of hobbies - camping, hiking, canoeing, auto racing (I own two competition vehicles). I enjoy exploring new places - whether an hour away or half way across the world. Though my sons have kept me closer to the eastern time zone the past few years.

With regards to gender, over theyears Ive determined that Im attracted to a feminine being - in mind and body. Im not so concerned with what genitalia nature gave you orwhat chromosomeslurk in your cells. If you can please me like a woman and treat me like a man, Im open minded. That said, a dude in lingerie doesnt arouse my senses.












 Dominant Male



 5' 8"

 175 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples


 Lives For:


 Auto Racing (Expert)


 Fine Dining





 Breast Play

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Being Massaged

 Massage (Giving)




 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries


 Musical Theater




 Martial Arts



 Blindfolding you


 You wearing my collar



 Erotic touch

 Hair Pulling

 Outdoor Bondage

 Shibari (Beginner)

 Spanking you

 Vacuum Stimulation





 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics

 Alternative Music



 Nineties Music

 Rock Music










 Bar Hopping


 Going to the Opera

 Renaissance Faires


 Curious About:

 Flea Markets

 Horseback Riding

 Local BDSM Community






 Canes and Crops


 Modern Primitivism

 Sensation Play

 Hard Limits:

 Genital Punishment

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