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Female Submissive, 22, Columbia, South Carolina
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About Arwyn76
**** no long distance relationships, between 43 and 55ish****
I want someone who knows what being a Dominant is first and foremost. Knowing the responsibility that goes into a Ds relationship which is just not sex and is so much more than a vanilla relationship. Dont get me wrong there is nothing wrong with sex but this life is so much more than that.
Rules, Communication, Trust, Patience as I learn and grow, building up my tolerance again, Consistency - NO abusing power under the umbrella of being a Dominant, trust, respect, honesty even to the point of brutality, an honest effort and understanding while establishing and working on the relationship. A understanding on what type of relationship this is - just Ds or Ds with long term depending on where things lead. While this is something I want well actually hope for from a Dominant I would think or at least hope he may want or need the same from me. If I need to change something or differently than say something, but be the person that would do the same for themselves and not just expect it from others - health, education, lifestyle anything.
Hmm submission has now been broken into parts so I will do my best.
MasochisticPrimal Prey
Masochistic I like impact play, Im proud of the bruises that I get but they only days after but my butt and thighs get nice and red. I get wet during my scenes not because of the sadist giving them to me but because it turns me on.
*I like a swat to the hind end, but please both cheeks so the other does not get jealous thank you. I was getting used to a ceramic paddle, leather paddle.
*Floggers I like thudding not stingy, stingy brings out a fight response. Of course I am looking to get past things so with time and patience maybe you are the Dominant to do it. Want to work up to canes and whips
*I like knife play it brings on a euphoric response, crops and wax.
I am SAM - Smart Assed masochist as sarcasm is my primary language. I can also be a little feisty. I may have to be told when to Stop as I do it in love and fun not to be mean or hateful.
Primal Prey During this mood I like scratching, biting, general brute force, and animal-type noises like snarling and growling. This again is based on the Dominants presence there is some wild that needs to be let out.
Want to try rope, fire cupping, canes and build up past my current tolerance.
Results from bdsmtest.org
87Submissive
81Primal (Prey)
59Voyeur
58Non-monogamist
58Experimentalist
54Masochist
51Slave
50Exhibitionist
49Brat
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