ArtOfSlavery

Tears are not a safe-word

A few of my favourite things:

• I love the sort of woman who knows what she is. And what she is for.

• I love helping a girl to be the lascivious slut she always dreamed of. I am so very helpful ;)

• I love making her feel like a second-class human. Not to damage her, but because going to that place in one part of her life makes her stronger the rest of the time.

• I love making her feel like nothing but a fuckhole

• I love when the exchange is fair: her distress in exchange for my pleasure. Sure hurting a woman for pleasure and/or making her feel lower is delicious, but it is even better when it is my pleasure that is causing her the distress. Which is probably why...

• I love a gagging skullfuck or thumping a cervix, or why...

• I love shoving my too-large cock up a woman's asshole, rejecting the hole that is designed for cock for the road less traveled.

• I love gang bangs and cuckolding and lending my girl out. You cannot lend what does not belong to you.

• I love the intense connection I feel with a woman who gives me her submission.

• I love helping a sub get to that place where she feels small, low, like nothing.

• I love hurting tits. Isn't that what they are for? How much pain? As much as it takes to take her to the place she needs to go; every pair are different. Pain is a gift she gives me.

• Mmm, cages.

• I love when we are in a vanilla situation but both know that with a word or look she will be on her knees - figuratively or literally.

• I love obedience. Doesn't everything work so much better when we both want the same thing? When she wants to please me by doing what I want, and I want what is best for both of us.

• I love earning her trust. Trust that she can give up control and yet is, ultimately, safe. Trust that I am always looking out for her best interests and will take very good care of her.

• I love fucking a woman on her hands and knees with a rubber horse's bit and reins pulling back her head like a spirited filly, her mouth forced into an obscene, drooling grin.

• Brief encounters can be hot, but I prefer the intensity of really getting to know a woman's psyche and building her trust so she can really let go, and that takes more than an evening or two.

• I love making her beg to please me.
• I love when I make her so miserable that she cries. but then thanks me later for not stopping.

• I love the deep respect I get for a woman who has the strength to submit. If her twist is enjoying things that hurt her physically and emotionally, then my twist is, when push comes to shoving it in, being able to respect a woman because she can lower herself.

• I love that she knows I hurt her because I care. Not from anger or any deep misogyny, but because I know what she needs, even when it is not what she wants. Each sub needs a different flavour of hurt: physical, emotional, mixed with caring, or straight-up then throw her out. She also knows I hurt her because I enjoy it, so she takes it for me.

• I love how deeply grateful the right woman can be for the thoughtful mélange of caring and abuse I give her. How she appreciates that I will keep going even when she is bawling unless I hear her safe-word.

• And I absolutely adore that there are intelligent, interesting women who love these things, too. Who crave giving what I want to receive and appreciate what lucky, lucky girls they are that there are men like me who understand their twisted needs.