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Male Dominant, 31, The Hamptons, New York
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Male Submissive, 30, nyc, New York
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Male Dominant, 36, Forbes
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About ArtistInTN
No chat requests send note of introduction first my computer browser does not support chat on this site.
When I first started on this site I listed myself as a switch. That was 7.5 years ago. Since that time I have explored and experienced much more than I had prior to joining this site and in doing so learned a lot more about myself and what I truely enjoy not just what liffle I had experienced before joining this site. One of the biggest things I have learned is that while I had at the time enjoyed some submissive activities with my ex, (at that time that was the majority of my real life experience) that is not so now.
I truelly enjoy being in charge. I love the control aspects of being in charge of the man (or men) in my life. This is not just in the bed but also out of the bed and in all aspects of life. While the physical control is fun the mental aspects can be much more interesting.
While I like being in control and will disciplen my sub for both misbehaviour and failure to perferm his duties to my satisfaction, I am not a sadist and do not enjoy inflicting pain just for the sake of inflicting pain. In fact I love men and enjoy playing with them I just do not get pleasure from that aspect of this life style. Because of this if you are a pain slutt please go elsewhere for there are plenty of dommes out there who enjoy inflicting such.
What I really enjoy is controling my boys, controling what they do and do not do. The use of a chasity device is quite enjoyable to me as it gives me control of that which men enjoy when he can how he can. Having that control over a man I have found gives him more incentive to please me in all i ask him to do.
While hopefully I will find a sub who is already trained in providing basic domestic services, he must also be trainable in doing his duties to my standards. He will serve me as a domestic servant performing household chores as directed. An excellent cook he will also be adept at massage and providing other services as I see fit.
Some of the things I look for in a prospective sub are intelligence, sense of humor and stability in the outside world. Behind closed doors he will be my play toy, servant, Because ideally I would like to find a FLR, I prefer a sub who enjoys some ostyle activities that I do as I feel a FLR needs to have balance.
While I welcome introductions there are a few things that will lead me to shut you down from the get go.
No profile. I have taken time and trouble to say a bit about myself and what I am looking for. I have also indicated some of my interests both in and outside of the lifestyle. If you are too lazy to do the same, do not bother trying to contact me.
One of the stupid emails I get are "can I say hello?" well guess what I think you just did in a sense and so that approach will also get you shut down.
An other thing that will get you shut down is a laundry list of what you want e "I am looking forward to my first strap-on experience" or "I am looking for someone will degrade me and show me for the fool that I am" I have no interest in being topped from the bottom. Those of you with this type request would be better off looking for a professional Domme who will give you the pain, strap-on, humiliation etc you wish for just be ready to pay a fee for such services for that is exactly what you are looking for and you will not find that here.
What I am looking for is a sub who will submit to my wants and needs first and foremost. While at the same time I want to know what interests him for it lets me have insight into his mind. It also lets me know what rewards for good service and what would be suitable punishment for inferior service.
For example if a sub is interested in strap-on play I would prefer to know it in advance for such would be much more enjoyable to me if it is at a time I wish to reward him for good service rather than when I am irate at inferior service. I prefer that punishments are something my sub wishes to avoid for he should value my happiness and enjoyment of life over all else.
One last thing. Have a job I do not look to support he who should be serving my wants and needs.
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