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Male Dominant, 34
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Male Switch, 35, south east
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Male Submissive, 31, Krakow
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About armbindergeek
Primary Profiles - these are more likely to be up to date
Kink: https://fetlife.com/users/396976
Vanilla: https://www.okcupid.com/profile/8bit_film_geek
First and foremost, I'm looking for an actual relationship. Kinks are great, but they don't define who I am and they shouldn't define a relationship. Honestly my favorite activity is probably just cuddling while watching a movie/sunset/ocean/etc. It's the bestest.
Me:
- Supportive and nurturing. I'm probably 80% daddy, 20% dom.
- Respectful of individuals and boundaries. No one should be forced to do something they are not currently consenting to. Safewords exist for a reason. Please use them.
- Favor the BD over the SM. Bondage, obedience, and power exchange are what turn me on. I'm too empathetic to consider myself a true sadist.
- Unashamedly materialistic. I work to make money to buy stuff. Stuff is awesome. You should like stuff too. I get all the cool toys (points to industrial aluminum pipe bed).
Relationship I'm looking for:
- Long term
- Monogamous (or the mythical MFF closed triad if that's your thing)
- Healthy and affectionate. Tons of cuddling and hand holding.
- Supportive and stable
- Ideally some variant of these: D/s, DD/lg (minimal ageplay), TPE, live in
- Ownership - I love the symbolism of the collar and knowing that my partner enjoys being owned by me.
- Control - I train my partner in various poses and get great satisfaction from seeing her enjoy obeying my commands.
- Objectification - I give my partner pet names and mantras to recite for me when I ask her. Some names you will likely acquire: submissive, pet, toy, doll/dolly, slave, slut, girl, pony, puppy, kitty,. I also just love to dress my partner up in cute dresses and heels, so I need someone for whom this isn't torture in and of itself :p
I'm a digital media (film/television/game) geek, with an established career in software that affords me the stability to pursue my interests. Right now that means making my apartment a rad place to be and looking for my life partner to share it with. Someone who will eventually move in with me and help me stay motivated to get up for work in the morning and who yearns for my company when I return.
The dynamic I'm looking for lends itself to finding a homemaker type, though I'm open to someone more career oriented who still relishes her submission. To be clear, I have the means to relocate and support a live in submissive but I am not looking to exploit anyone or be exploited myself. I'm looking for an uneven, but loving relationship where both of us embrace our distinct roles and demonstrate how much we appreciate what the other contributes. |
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