arhant022

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arhanteka is a Sanskrit name. arhanteka means: (1) one who worships (2) one who has shunned violence. In Buddhist literature (Buddha Sahitya) arhanteka is a name given to a Buddist nun. i chose this name for this sounds so much like me. i was soon going to be forty one when i first put up this profile and went through the "theatrics" of finding a Dominant Male with whom i hoped to perhaps have my first real life Dom-sub/slave interaction. Now, i am nearing forty two and i am still left wondering about this lifestyle! i want to submit to this urge of mine to be a sub/slave to a Dom i would perhaps (note: i say, perhaps) get attracted to for REAL. i want to make a few things very clear right from the start of O/our communication... oh! oh!... i already know that most Dominants Males ignore what is said in here, and just blindly pursue what they think they can get out of a submissive/slavish female. STILL here i am AGAIN with somethings I want to be very clear about: 1. NO MARRIED DOMS. Don't like to mess up another female's happiness. i am sure they are busy messing it up anyways. Hate becoming a part of such a relationship just to become another "angle"... that ...*laughs*.. helps complete a rather unhappy triangle. 2. NO YOUNGER DOMS. Can never bring myself to be subservient to younger people - men or women. Period. 3. i will NOT CAM. NO CAM SEX. No online service of anykind. i have done this and it has got me nowhere and am weary of online games. 4. You have my picture. i do not believe in hiding behind the safety of the computer screen and playing games. You just won't get NAKED PICS. You will get my real name, phone number and even address ONLY if W/we are going to meet for REAL. If W/we are never to meet, You will get NOTHING from me. And don't try to manipulate information in the name of being a Dominant Male. It won't work this time. i have learnt nice lessons from Dominant males. *winks* i sure hope You understand why i am taking such a stance and respect this. 5. i am willing to risk trusting You without any guarantees beyond a real life meet. If You cannot bring Yourself to trust me enough in a similar manner, too bad. i have been cheated/hurt countless number of times both, in reality and online, especially in here, still, here i am, willing to start all over again without bothering You about my bitter experiences. i expect the same in return. i am educated, creative - generally a cool person who has great tolerance to an individual's idiosyncrasies. i am capable of being extremely loyal and would do anything within legal limits for my Dom (if at all i find one). Please note: i will do anything within legal limits, that too, only in reality. i will do NOTHING, i reiterate, for an online relationship. i don't have any other profile in here or in any other site. i don't want to play checking games - i would rather meet You in reality and check You out thoroughly in person than waste my time acting like an online detective. You might benefit too if You don't subject me to such online checking. Indian Doms: i know one of You have already adviced me to go to a matrimonial site if i wanted a real relationship that would last. *smiles* i am not here to give free sex or even earn via sex. Vanilla sex does nothing to me - hence, i am here, looking for a REAL DOM. i am not looking for a Casanova disguised as a DOM who does not even understand the real meaning of having a long term relationship as a Dom. A relationship that would PERHAPS last, especially holding good during old age. If at sixty You still want to be in here searching for subs/slaves, You are not the one for me. i know most people mistake confidence for arrogance. Decisiveness for aggression. Honesty/ out-spokenness for rudeness. The list of such immature judgments can run real long. Most don't even take the trouble to understand a person before they begin to pass classic judgments which are far from the truth. So, if my profile makes You feel i am not really a sub/slave, please don't even bother approaching me. Don't waste my time or Yours by playing mind-games just to see how much You can PUSH via just words to get me panting after You. Yes, i am vulnerable to the right sounding words as is every damn human being on the face of this earth. But time will surely reveal what You are really up to and ...what is the point? I guess, it takes all kinds to make mankind and some men do get a kick from playing such games and i have no problems with this. Just don't add me to your list, please. Spare me the pain. In short - You are interested in such psychological games, i am not the person for You. i am here for something REAL and nothing less. Are You REAL? Are You educated and confident enough to handle and take control of a female like me? Are You especially tolerant to human failings and the negativity life surely always has in store for U/us? Are You capable of being loyal? Are You worthy of sincerity, hardwork and the time i would invest on You? * rolls my eyes heavenwards and grins* Ah! Before i forget - i WILL NOT RELOCATE. Thank you. arhanteka.