I have had a chance to read many of the profiles and am somewhat unclear of what others are expecting from participating with a site such as this. I appreciate the idea of finding someone for LTR and others just looking for today. I would classify myself somewhere in between LTR and just for today. What I mostly appreciate is a women who is my equal. Whether in conversation, energy level etc. No, I do not want a clone but rather someone who challenges me, someone who will make me think that maybe there is another way. It's not that I think I'm always right, you just have to convince me I'm wrong. I am pragmatic enough to know that life is if nothing else a constant evolution. So if you are interested in "mind...", laughing, proving your right, stimulating conversation, new things, live for the moment, no bullshit (only after several drinks and I tell my fish stories) and realistic expectations then lets talk. I am unattached and ready to move forward. I have a son who is now an older teen and able to not have his dad around all the time so who said there isn't life after 40. Again unattached male seeking female.