12/22/2006 12:03:39 AM

I bought a refrigerator magnet today that says, "If you are going to doubt something, doubt your limits." double-entendre? ya, ya betcha

1/5/2007 12:01:20 PM

I believe that the D/s relationship is truly a deep mental and emotional bond. I am looking for someone who is willing to invest his time in getting to know me first. It is in that knowing that a D/s bond is formed which is beneficial to both individuals.

1/21/2007 5:30:51 PM

  Keep searching for the one who "fits" with you.  Each sub and Dom are, of course, individuals with different needs and wants and different styles.  What will be the cost if I stop looking?  What will be the rewards if I keep looking?  No matter how long it might take in this tiny corner in which I live, each email, each IM, teaches me more about the lifestyle and about my submissiveness.  Every life who touches mine, teaches me, if I am open to learn.

3/1/2007 3:50:28 AM

It does not matter how slowly you go, so long as you do not stop. – Confucius

3/18/2007 5:04:30 AM

Make the most of every sense; glory in all the facets of pleasure and beauty which the world reveals to you through the several means of contact which nature provides." --Helen Keller 

We didn't come here to simply pass through life on our way to someplace else. We came here to savor life; to sensually take it all in, moment by cherished moment. --Kate Nowak

It is the journey not the destination which is of the utmost importance. Are you enjoying your journey, learning and expanding yourself or are you simply floating through it?

3/29/2007 5:41:22 PM

Knowledge exists to be imparted. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

4/5/2007 6:58:31 AM

There is no such thing as online Domination, only online submission.

~~~ copied with permission from MH ~~~

i have read some D's profiles/journals which state they think the idea of submissiveness being a gift is hogwash. how could one think this, i wonder? any positive experience, especially one as powerful as a meaningful D/s connection is a gift. from s to D, from D to s, and from the universe to both. 

 

5/27/2007 9:46:25 PM

A line in one of my favorite songs:

Heaven knows no frontiers And I've seen heaven in your eyes

It was a favorite song of mine before I ever seriously considered this lifestyle. Although most likely not the meaning the author intended, I was just musing that perhaps one of the reasons I like it is because it speaks to the mental aspects of D/s for me. When I look into a Dominant's eyes I must feel the trust which allows me to let go of my boundaries because a Dom who earns my trust will know where heaven lies for me. Okay, so that's stretching it a little, but you get my meaning? <smile> and the song is "No Frontiers" by the Corrs.