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Apollonia92

Male Submissive, 43
Male Dominant, 30, nashville, Tennessee
Male Switch, 28
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Apollonia92 - Female Dominant, Santa Rosa California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About Apollonia92

I have a lot of demands on me in my personal life, so I really don't have time to play for pleasure at this time. I do Professional Domination. If I could find someone who wants to see me on this basis and agrees to the below requirements, that would be sweet.

Because I accept tributes, too often I encounter little twerps acting like they can tell me what to do just because they paid me. I would like to find someone who is truly submissive and wants to engage in service. I like to be massaged. I like my tea made according to my specifications. I do not like the submissive to be hinting that s/he wants attention, ie" Mistress if you wish to spank me, that would be OK." I already know it's OK. You gave me your limits. Shut up and serve me.



I had a session with a newbie recently. He is in his 40's, and NEVER submitted before. I explained how to kneel and put his hands on his thighs. I observed him in that position for a bit, them decided he needs to learn his place, so I grabbed him by the collar and pushed him down to a lying down position. I sat on his chest. My oh my, he enjoyed that. I told him "I bet you fantasize about a woman forcing you to serve her orally." He said yes. I said "well you can forget it. I will not let you have that honor with me." He was very engaged and open to learning the etiquette and safety rules of BDSM. I was very tickled by seeing how much he enjoyed the simplest activities. I am done sessioning with an experienced player who says "what can you do to me that hasn't been done?" If he doesn't want to experience things that I enjoy, I have no use for him.
If you are going to switch, switch all the way. When it is time to submit, you are no longer in control. Give your limits and surrender to whatever the Dominant wants. In BDSM we are supposed to be truthful. Being totally honest is not always easy. It feels risky to tell someone something they don't want to hear. I risked losing a client recently by giving him a dose of honesty. He is still my client, and we fel more comfortable w one another. I am so glad I took that risk.
Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for  
studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or  
pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, I will find you and punish you.

Submissives give their limits at the beginning of the relationship, but once they get to know their Dominant, they sometimes don't express their needs. In this case, it is up to the Dominant to check in and ask if everything is OK, or be specific about something. Let's honor the trust our submissives put in us and preserve their dignity at all times. A submissive and a Dominant are equals. It's just that they agree to a power exchange.

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