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I have a dominant, kinky, sensual personality that Im ready to explore. Hoping to find an open-minded, relationship oriented person andor people that will enjoy a little experimentation.

My preference of BDSM is Ds, BD, then SM. In that order. Please dont inquire about other subs or slaves. Please dont ask me what I will do for to you. If you have no intention of building a connection, friendship or basis for trust, please dont bother. As a sub, I will respect your hard limits and push your comfort level. As a slave, your limits are my limits. End of story. Im looking for that well rounded naturtally submissive individual where service to me is the goal. Whether it be general tasks, an escort, personal assistant or other aspects. Your goal should be pleasing me anyway I see fit. If you can not commit to this or communicate any hindrances, you are not worth my time. I am slow, methodical, and patient.

All communication will be conducted here until I deem it necessary to change to a different venue (ie text, IM, or face to face). I do attend lifestyle events. Munches, play parties, meet greets and many others as time rolls along. If you are not open to this (no previous attendance required), I may not be the one for you. I do not discuss my personal life with strangers and all who will listen, but I am not ashamed or in hiding about my likes. If you prefer discrete, private playservice, i may not be the one for you. I have family that is my 1 priority. This means my time is precious. I work hard, I play hard, and I relax even harder. I am not interested in anyone that is not local, willing to host or travel to me AND host. Single men only and verifiable open relationships welcome. Married, discrete, or blatant cheaters need not apply. I am friendly and very respectful to all. I will chat with most that approach me in the same manner. I chat through the message feature on this site until I want more communication with you. Any requests for relocation will be emphatically denied. Looking forward to you pleasing me

Bites Nibbles

Mistress AplBtm
12/8/2022 5:41:22 PM

****Full Moon Warning****

If you're deciding to check back in with someone that youve previously ghosted, check to see if there's a full moon. If it's within that window of plus or minus a few days don't send that message. So tired of getting messages out of the blue asking how I am and if I'm having any fun. 

12/12/2021 1:23:08 PM

Didn't realize that this feature was back. Guess I may start engaging a bit more with my thoughts and overall disgust w/ a lot of you subs/slaves in this site.


BTW. If you're not local and we haven't already established a friendship, you'll be blocked and hidden. I don't have time to waste with out of towners being unrealistic about re I can barely deal w/ those that are local being full of bullshit and false promises.

1/1/2018 11:04:23 PM
A standard intro is simple. Hi my name is..... I came across your profile / read your journals. I enjoyed these x,y,z talking points because 1,2,3. I would like to engage in dialogue to see if you might find my skills desirable for service.
9/23/2017 5:09:10 PM
If you make plans and then don't show up or correspond afterwards, why should you get a 2nd chance? No one has time for your games. Your mouth shouldn't be writing checks that your ass can't cash. No amount of apologies will change your actions. Only a GRAND gesture of sacrifice and humility will sway the opinion that you've provided me with
8/10/2017 8:53:57 PM
If this is you......come see me Miss AB
5/17/2017 9:04:20 PM
Nobody likes a quitter. Too many times, a sub will approach wanting conversations, service, or to get to know me. If ive accepted your offer, be in it to win it! Don't just quit because I haven't fulfilled some preconceived notion that you have. I don't read minds. If you want my attention, give me yours. If I won't be a priority for you, say so. Then it's my choice to take part or not. If you remove that choice how submissive are you being???
1/21/2017 2:31:40 PM
Welcome and hello to my page. Whether this is your first time in 2017 or you are a repeat viewer(offender). To clarify for those eager dominants out there, I have recently changed my profile label from Dominant to Switch. I made this change because 1. I have a sub that I am content with and another that I am waiting for circumstances to change in our (my) favor. 2. I am now looking for something different. Different you might ask. YES!! A relationship, companionship of like minds and preferences. A Daddy Dom if you will. Now before you get all hot, bothered and excited to contact me, PLEASE do yourself a favor. Realize that I have no plans to shed my dominant ways.....AT ALL. I am simply looking to balance things out. A little Kink. Light BDSM . Light bondage, possible teasing, doting, possible adoration, being manhandled sexually (if the chemistry is there). I have no plans to be a servant, cum dump, cock whore, sub/slave or any other misguided labels that you might attach to your dominant labels. More of an equal minded partner that is willing to acquiesce and be led instead of asserting my dominance for the lead role. If this is not something that you're interested, looking for, or willing to entertain, PLEASE STAY AWAY. You'll only be frustrated and I'm sure, spout off with some bullshit rant of how I might be confused about something. Understand that I am neither confused or misguided. This is what I'm looking for. If you're not on board with it, pass me by. I'll survive. Bites & Nibbles (Still) Ms AB
7/27/2016 3:27:21 PM
Food for thought: If you aren't receiving the attention that you'd like from me, maybe there's a reason. Are you providing the attention I require? Do you view me as every other female or Domme that you've lusted after or requested service? When I ask a question to get to know you, do you provide the bare minimum or dismiss the question all together? Do you attempt to get to know me and the type of service I'm looking for? Before you get butt hurt and bent out of shape about the things "I'm not doing" take a look at yourself and analyze what YOU may not be doing Bites & Nibbles Ms AB
6/9/2016 8:04:19 PM
Oh, sweetheart, put the bottle down You've got too much talent I see you through those bloodshot eyes There's a cure, you've found it Slow motion, sparks, you've caught that chill Now don't deny it But boys will be boys, oh, yes, they will They don't wanna define it Just give up the game and get into me If you're looking for thrills then get comfy Oh, no, I do not hook up, up, I go slow So if you want me, I don't come cheap Keep your hand in my hand, your heart on your sleeve Oh, no, I do not hook up, up, I fall deep 'Cause the more that you try the harder I'll fight To say goodnight I can't cook, no, but I can clean Up the mess she left Lay your head down and feel the beat As I kiss your forehead This may not last but this is now So love the one you're with You wanna chase but you're chasin' your tail A quick fix won't ever get you well Oh, no, I do not hook up, up, I go slow So if you want me, I don't come cheap Keep your hand in my hand, your heart on your sleeve Oh, no, I do not hook up, up, I fall deep 'Cause the more that you try the harder I'll fight To say... 'Cause I feel The distance Between us Could be over With the snap of your finger, Oh, no! Oh, no, I do not hook up, up, I go slow So if you want me, I don't come cheap Keep your hand in my hand, your heart on your sleeve Oh, no, I do not hook up, up, I fall deep 'Cause the more that you try the harder I'll fight To say... 'Cause the more that you try the harder I'll fight To say goodnight Oh, sweetheart, put the bottle down 'Cause you don't wanna miss out
5/21/2016 10:33:54 AM
Often, subs will send me a message requesting to serve me. These messages are met with the role of my eyes and a shaking of my head. If you're a sub I'm sure you're asking yourself, "but why? You're a Domme, he's a sub. Isn't he supposed to serve you." The short answer to your question is "yes". The detailed answer is: If you want to serve me prove it! First with your words and then by your actions. You hounding me to meet you is not the way to go. You disappearing for weeks and months at a time will not cut it. To me, all of these are indicators of what's to come if I accept you into my word. These are behaviours that just won't cut it. If you don't get to know me, you can't serve me properly. I guarantee it. Step it the fuck up boys.
5/15/2016 1:17:49 AM
?Our lives improve only when we take chances - and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves.? ― Walter Anderson
2/11/2016 3:13:16 AM
I love to crawl up in your mind and play for awhile. You've opened yourself up and gained a level of comfort. Mmmm when you let me be what you need while offering all of yourself. So sedictive. So arousing. So beneficial. Let go and create a new comfort zone. A safe haven of bliss. A euphoria never attained by the body but intoxicating for the mind.
1/12/2016 6:08:28 PM
Secrets Make You Sick This phrase had been coming up a lot lately and it makes me smile! Not because I'm a lying evil genius, but because there is a profound truth within these words. If you want to be in any type of relationship with me, you must be real and honest. You will be judged, you will be mocked and you will be naked and vulnerable. You will also be loved, trusted and nurtured. Live the best, happy and healthy life that you possibly can or choose to dwell in the shadows of secrets and lies. The choice is ultimately yours. Enjoy
7/7/2015 8:17:14 PM
The Top 5 Coveted Traits of a submissive / slave 1. Within 30 min or 30 mi 2. Personality 3. Looks 4. Body 5. Not "discrete" Let the complaints and misunderstandings begin Bites & Nibbles
3/29/2015 8:01:21 AM
Food for thought: If you feel the need to message me with something crass, abusive, nasty or just plain ignorant, please don't bother to message me at all. I will block you in a heartbeat. I don't need your craziness or negativity in my world. Best of luck finding that special someone. And may the odds be ever in your favor :) - Effie Trinket
3/14/2015 7:31:26 AM
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11/1/2014 11:17:31 AM
Most people are psychologically submissive. Psychologically submissive people tend to be more greedy, grasping, more about self, because they live more in fear. Most people who play the role of dominants within BDSM are psychologically submissive and too afraid to submit to the will of another. Yet, once they own you, you, also being psychologically submissive, tend to push their buttons, twist them around, make them beg or make them howl in rage, and it becomes a very nasty, ugly experience. Most of you think it needs to be a very nasty, ugly experience, because, most people you meet that you think are truly dominant , couldn't dominate their way into receiving a free sample in a grocery store. The only time they can dominate is when they fly into a rage and make you actually fearful for your life and safety. This sends you the wrong message that dominance is all about cruelty and insanity. However, psychologically dominant people are exceedingly unlikely to fly into a rage or have their buttons pushed by you, because they fear little and you are only worth something to them if you build a rapport with them on a friendly level or if you have, for offer, something they actually need. They are scary that way. It won't kill you. It will simply make you feel unwanted, because you are, because you have failed to be what they need you to be. It's hard to understand, but, once experienced, it is very desirable. The thing is, you can't experience it, not much anyway, by acting like a brat, demanding to be torn down, or making up arbitrary bullshit "hard limits' , such as how you must be queened by them. You can really only experience it through actual submission and honest communication. Now, I know you need someone to "capture" you, to "make" you submit. The thing is, for it to be a real dominant person, instead of one just playing the role, you need to do something frightening. You need to give them the opportunity. They will not sweep in and demand it. They need you to prove you are willing. Only then, when you have once humbled yourself, may they find a way to catch hold of you and keep you. So, be truthful and bold, be decisive, face your fears and submit. Don't wait for them to force you to submit, because, they already are doing so, by refusing to consider you until you prove yourself.
9/9/2014 2:55:16 PM
You Gonna Learn Today Dictionary Definition: My personal preference. Cuckold historically referred to a husband with an adulterous wife and is still often used with this meaning. In evolutionary biology, the term cuckold is also applied to males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own. [1] Since the 1990s, the term has also been widely used to refer to a sexual fetish in which the fetishist is stimulated by their committed partner choosing to have sex with someone else Urban Dictionary Definition: a cucks fantasy land A sexually inadequate husband who accepts his wife's pussy is her solely property and she alone decides which men she will fuck,even if it means denying her husband. His only access to her pussy is to clean it of the ejaculate of males she chooses to fuck.
1/12/2014 11:12:22 AM
If you want to be my slave,you will have no say. If you want to be my slave, I will treat you with little to no respect. If you want to be my slave, you will not ask questions. If you want to be my slave, you will surrender your key immediately. If you want to be my slave, I will dictate your every move. If you want to be my slave, your actions will speak volumes. If you want to be my slave, you have already failed because I did not tell you that I wanted you as a slave.
12/1/2013 2:54:50 PM
If you require me to communicate via your preferred method, wish to meet within your timeframe, want to have your desires fulfilled, please don't bother with me. I will be the "fake, loser, chain jerker" that I'm sure everyone that you contact is. I'm not here to live up to your standards and I sure as hell didn't contact you! You don't have to change your ways, but please don't project your crazy on me. Enjoy the end of the weekend all.
12/26/2012 11:12:01 PM
I CAN NOT stand liers. Save your breath and energy, don't waste my time. Sooner or later you will slip up ang get caught, then what? Be a grown up and stop playing idiotic selfish kiddie games. **This has been a public service rant from Mistress AplBtm**
5/15/2012 3:06:03 PM
Do NOT ask me what I am into. This site has given me a lovely place on my profile to input things that I like, love, hate and can't tolerate. I took time to fill it out. READ IT!! I am new to the site. I do not know what I want. I will play things by ear. By my rules and my time frame. If you want and I don't provide, please feel free to dismiss yourself. If you would like a private audience with me outside this website, provide your information. Do not request mine. I am looking for someone submissive, so why are you demanding things from me? I text, I message, I I'M. I don't do phone conversations just for general purposes. If you want to be mine you better be prepared to invest some time and attention. We're online and I get bored easily. I will replace you faster than you can sneeze. Have a wonderful day :) I know I will
 Age: 24
 Sumter, South Carolina