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apearl - Female Submissive, New York New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About apearl

I appreciate...the artistic vision that interprets these forms.
Most baroque pearls you see today are a disappointment, and oyster did not secrete nacre evenly over an artificially introduced irritant intended to result in a flawless round, so called cultured pearls. (It's a practice rich with metaphors... )
So:
Did the bird (generally Indicative of flight, freedom, of nests and home, or instinct in this instance a stork, birth, deliverance... ) remove the irritant or place it, a foreign body, resulting in an increasingly baroque pearl (a symbol of Wisdom, guarded by mermaids-- all the accompanying symbolism of sea/sight/ the unconscious, most precious of biological materials, a metaphor for the soul within the body, the clitorous)?
Eye of the beholder.
Pearls of course not delivered by storks they have a home in layers of abductin (a protein fibre that holds mechanical energy, the working mechanism of an oyster). I suspect, if you didn't bother to understand the muscle,the outcome would be more baroque than cultured.

What could it mean?
https://www.etsy.com/listing/105302694/french-antique-ring-yellow-gold-silver#
There will always be self serving men with questionable ethics and a little bit of knowledge. Every pearl farm has to start somewhere.
I'd be remiss, if I didn't also mention that submissives are vessels and whose skins reflect "dominant" incursions. The nature of power and energy exchange is that you achieve equilibrium asking another person to hold the imbalance.
Discussion questions:
Over what irritant did your life's nacre secrete?

How would you find yourself reflected in my skins?
What is your relationship to the polarities these practices represent...how have you grown in balance...throughout your practice?
suggestions
* If you're a Dominant masochist by all means... do approach with pablum and raunch, you'll find no quickening. Subsequent to that exchange I won't have the opportunity to thank you for allowing me to curate a more beautiful world through your absence. Consider that My appreciation for your message.
* You approach me with any form of manipulation I will likely ignore you without explaining the ruse. If it's truly pathetic, or interesting on some level...I might outline it and will gladly point all interested parties in the direction of your profile. I understand there are men who like to be humiliated, their pandering, ponderous simpering ways plead for attention. I derive no erotic pleasure from the correction a lesser man. It's a profound disappointment you are not all my better...your weakness is the reason women wear clothes and do not leak milk for the young of all mammals
* I try not to offer negative attention to those who find it arousing. My apologies to any earnest simpleton harmed in the process, I invite you to learn from my perceptions, write them off as impersonal and seek conciliatory gestures from among your harem. Not all women are such ogres. Ask yourself: "what does my mother have to do with this?"
* If you're seeking power exchange (A) have some meaningful power, in terms of (1) an understanding of who you are (2) an ability to describe your needs honestly (3) what you hope to find in the exchange. While "real" presume that at present I am at .001 this will erupt in flesh, historically the likelihood that will decrease the longer we know one another is 100%. Is that mutual? I don't know, I don't possess your truths.
* if your heart, your mind are not in agreement and in possession of an interpersonally constructive truth, please don't bother.
*The only way to flatter me is to be a person of intelligence (which takes many forms, all of which I appreciate) and integrity (do you act in love or fear, out of your needs, or the other?) AND someone whose personal choices I respect. In most lives, these are working paradigms, so let me know about the time you got it wrong.
I am primarily here interviewing:
Daddies
Voyeurs
Regarding their proclivities ... The interest is personal and professional (we can discuss what that means. I do not use people, I honor, respect and delight in them...and seek a world, in which every inhabitant is so worthy of that attentive care as my four legend, finned and feathered friends. That I dislike most animals, yet commit lovingly to their best lives should tell you who I am.
I once had a roommate who'd hide in my closet. Given the types of emotional and psychological games she liked to play I speculate this was behavior for which she was compensated .... Is that paranoid or reasonable? Well, There is only one person I know who would tip an addict for that kind of service and this was the dawn of a game she played serially thereafter.... We all have unpleasant personal truths, let's try something new by being honest about them. I won't draw the boundary with food or hair if you don't pay someone to hide in my drawers.
I am not currently accepting any form of communication with those who have a compulsion to humiliate or degrade, but will update this if after the supply in the bunker runs low and rather than eat the syncopated phosphorescent cockroach ballet devised for entertainment, the people whose Genetic material and/or contribution harbors some transmissible value...then we'll invite you for dinner.
You may address me as pearl or the Virgin Marionette...whatever you like actually. This reflects The likelihood you are going to use me to project your fantasies wholly to the exclusion of my voice...if you can skip some of the self-delusion around that, I'll point it out to you and we might end up as friends.
If it's labeled For Ritual Use Only chances are it has a metaphysical label "For a good time call...."
And there I appear.

Closed. 
Your bot, the one which signs in every 12-15 minutes, is unimpressive.  Luckily, the woman you're watching really susceptible to bullshit.

"I am neither your Daddy nor would-be Voyeur"

I am delighted to hear it.

I do not believe in "lesser mortals" but only those in process, and those whose processing is incommensurate with my own ...i'd stopped by to take my profile down. There is no weeding to be done...it's not my garden.

Inconsistent fenestration. Where we are open and where we are closed, varies, inconsistencies reveal the underlying structure.

"hyperbolic metaphor"

You're asking if the lights flicker and saints leap off the alter to risk destruction in their eagerness to greetme? Yes.

(You might interpret the wiring is poor and I am clumsy.)

"Proper stimulae"

The word is "stimulus," the plural is "stimuli."

"although I am rather highly visually attuned and responsive to proper stimulae"

Do I care where on the bell cure you distribute? A word like Stimuli exists to strip the act of judgements, such as proper. When you are employed in the field of your doctorate you become fortified against misusing the language to that degree.

A man I perceived as Dominant.... the vagaries of others responses roll off a non stick coating AND returns with better tuned calibration...I recently met an astrophysicist who designed corrective lenses for Hubble. I feel certain your dissertation and perhaps team of researchers has discovered the following: what compelled me to spend more time answering you than on the grace and vision presented by the narrative implications of glasses correcting a faulty mirror on a space telescope...period? or question mark.

Here is what attraction means: I value your gaze.

Yes my mirror is broken, but not the internal one.

Ever been to a dentist that performs root canals on healthy teeth? I know a completely self aware incompetent who exists only to strip every act of pleasure or enchantment rendering personal meaning or pleasure....mulch. I would suggest serving himself and others Meaninglessness is the greatest personal achievement of his mendacity and he himself concretizes the achievement by labeling the resulting....nuggets...something better aligned with his ego. Someone who so venerates his own mind that all human life is reducible to one incredibly powerful statement, that which drives all life.  Do you know what those three words are? 

I produce feces.

He's spent a lot of time on twitter and is consequently uniquely capable of these densy packed composites.

I am scarcely be able to walk a line or wipe away the drool. Yet I retain standards. I am required to be attracted to those withwhom I am intimate! (I know it's strange.  Just accept it.) 

Degrees are not a prerequisite to engagement, Standing before me and speaking your truth is. I heard this man's truth and as important as it was for him to have a whole leadership team admire his unique contributions to sociopathology...I'm just not that into him.

I would like to thank you for at last allowing me to make good on the following promise:

"You approach me with any form of manipulation I will likely ignore you without explaining the ruse. If it's truly pathetic, or interesting on some level...I might outline it.... I understand there are men who like to be humiliated, their pandering, ponderous simpering ways plead for attention."

It was only in reading a series of one sided analyses in which you whined like a little bitch about someone who wanted to quickly move to Skype...how odd, actual conversation proved elusive...That is the first, and I suspect last time I've ever watched you teach by example. It's been real.

Ask me about inconsistent fenestration. 
Three standard blockages: Death, Daddy & Home. 
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