Annika29

Well hi to any potential viewers

I'm a 29yr old lady with a taste for kink,not many partners and a lot of curiosity and while I know that's 'okay', I really would like to have a (few) kinky sexual experience(s) before I turn thirty. (And please don't give me self-esteem advice or fake friendly advice. I just really want to try this, in case I get hit by a bus next month and am lying there thinking to myself, "oh noI never went skydiving, read War and Peace, or had rough and hard sex.")

The problem is, my life is a bit unstable right now (though not in a bad way). I don't have a boyfriend. I just want to get to know some men'

And then the problem is, I've always been a 'good' girl. I haven't the foggiest idea where the closest BDSM club even is, much less how to pick up a man who is safe. And of course, I am inexperienced, so I don't exactly want someone to just slam me on a bed and go at it.I'm not looking for a hospital stay.

I've checked the classifieds and some online reviews of the effectiveness of such, which made me pretty confident that I'd get loads of takers, some of them quite decent men. But I am a bit leery of the possibility of disease, if these are men who customarily pick up strangers for sex. Of course, I'm ready for safe sex, birth control, and self defense, but even the most considerate and careful partner may have something he doesn't know about.

The internet is so far of no help, because all 'BDSM ' sites are geared towards men trolling for women. The general consensus seems to be that if you are female and single then your a tart.