AnneInCharge

Stop for just a moment. If your overwhelming impulse in this moment is to message me with a hi or a wassup, let's do the sex before reading any more of these pesky paragraph thingies, please just don't. Before we go any further, take stock of the location of both your hands. If one (left or right, it doesn't matter) is currently situated inside your pants, please move along.
I enjoy many non-kinky activities. I like watching movies, playing board games, travelling to see new things. I've recently started riding my bike (pedal not motor), but I'll never be a power rider. I just get some exercise and enjoy going to a place (shops, breakfast, etc) rather than just riding around in a circle. I like to cook at home or eating out with friends. I'm an avid reader. I do art quilting. These are just a few of the things that I find fun.
OK, where was I? Oh yes. So I'm seeking a sub - but here's the tricky bit. I want one of the good ones; one with a whole actual, entire, functional, language-enabled brain. One with a bit of passion and integrity about him.
Here are a few key points you'll probably want to know about me before saying hi.

• If I sound all choosey and demanding-like, that's because I kind of am. I don't need quantity. I desire quality.


• I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I'm not going to be dominant just on your terms. I am not secretly a submissive waiting for the right dude in leather trousers to come along and sweep me off my feet and to my knees.


• I like control. A lot. And I am a sadist, which means I like to consensually and responsibly hurt people at times. I love men who are naturally and deeply submissive and want to give of themselves to me on my terms.


• I am also a compassionate, friendly, happy, relatively normal (albeit geeky) human who likes compassionate, friendly, happy, and relatively normal men. What I mean by this is, yes I have dominant tendencies and seek true power exchange with the right man. I also seek cuddles, conversations and yes I am going to say it?INTIMACY. Gasp I know right? Fucking nuts. Yep, I am looking for a man who is willing not just to get down on his knees, but also to be emotionally real with me. This involves communicating clearly about your emotions and who you are. I want to dominate a mind and a soul, not just a body.

• You can be heterosexual or bi-sexual.


• You are submissive. No brats.


• Generally I'm looking for the age range of 30-59 years old.


• I'm looking for someone who is comfortable with himself. If you are really conflicted about your kink, while I respect your desire to try things out, you need to seek some assistance on settling these issues before you message me.


• If you have a partner/wife/gf/significant other/random stranger who feels they are in a relationship with you, and they are unaware of what you are doing, don't message me. Whatever your circumstances are, I am in a place where I require complete honesty.