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| I am blessed with good looks, and that attracts men. But there is more to it: I am fit because I prioritize fitness. I am a very well educated high achiever with very high standards. Spiritual but not religious, I have a Christian's love for all people, but for meeting a man I might be intimate with, please understand my need to be selective. Please don't read any further if you can't describe yourself as among the the top 10% of fit, attractive, smart, and driven men.
I am happy to form friendships with compatible people, but I am not looking for casual sex. I am seeking, eventually, a long term relationship with the right man. I chose this site because I have learned that I am a submissive female who cannot go back to a vanilla relationship, and it makes no sense to waste anyone's time with dating all the nice men my well meaning friends and family want me to meet.
I am an independent, successful woman who does not need to depend on a man. Yet at the same time, within me there is an old-fashioned sense of being female that wants a man to be on top. I am much more able to enjoy myself as a woman with a man who can show control, that he is stronger than me. In my professional life I am in charge of many people, of both sexes. But when it come to sex, being in charge is not a turn-on.
I have had submissive fantasies all my adult life, but kept them to myself. I have led my life in a respectable vanilla marriage for many years, and had children who are most important to me with a good man. However, there came a time, as my kids left home, when I realized that I wanted more from life. I would not be content in what I later learned was a vanilla marriage. I fought it but eventually gave in, and decided I had to make a change.
I believe everyone should have something they are passionate about in life. I strongly believe sex should be one of them. But there must be more - to catch my interest you must have something you care deeply about, vocational, recreational, or other. For me it is two main things: one having to do with fitness: I am an elite athlete. My ideal man does not have to be an elite athlete, but I will not accept anything less than a man who is strongly committed to his health and who maintains a good level of fitness, at a minimum. If you are an athlete who understands my passion, that is a huge plus. The other is, for me, with my intellectual passion in my field, my profession.
Eventually I seek a life with a very special man that can combine everything to make it complete: one who will support me in my passions and career, who has his own passions and career I can support, who is presentable to my colleagues when need be, who can be a happy, positive influence on my children, who is committed to maintaining his fitness, and a dominant man who brings real but safe excitement in the bedroom.
Ann
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