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Female Submissive, 23, Madrid
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Switch Couple, 29, West Palm Beach, Florida
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Female Submissive, 26
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About Ann1122
It's fun to see a personals ad that I had put up years ago (below). Since then a few things have changed. I found someone on a l t c o m with the same ad and we ended up getting married. Yes, yes, I know in the ad below I said I didn't want to get married but I met the right person and it was the right thing to do.
You may be wondering if I'm married why do I have an ad again, so let me explain...
After we had been married a couple of years he told me about having cuckold fantasies. We discussed it often, began fantasizing about it, then took it real. What works best for us is for me to have a "boyfriend" or steady "FWB". We'd like to develop it so that this other person is a friend to us both, but would start with just me to see if there's chemistry. One of our current fantasies is to find someone where we could take a cruise and my husband would be in an inside room and the other person and myself would be in a suite. If you understand how that would be enjoyable for everyone, then perhaps you should send a message.
Please note that I'm not looking for a submissive since I already have him and I don't feel submissive so what would work best is someone who is an alpha or dominant male without expecting me to be submissive.
Herpes-friendly a plus.
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Although I take advantage of living in an area that offers bdsm classes, discussion groups, munches, parties and other events, I’m seldom a public or casual player so not too many have seen my dominant/sadistic side. My preference is to be domme, not to just top. I want one sub, not many. I’m an independent and optimistic person who enjoys life and will expect my partner to be the same. I'm not looking for someone who has only has one fetish but for someone who accepts bdsm as being a part of who they are and wants to integrate it into lives that are mostly vanilla. Of course the D/s is always just below the surface ready to be brought out with a look or touch.
I am not into scat, verbal abuse or humiliation. I do things others might consider humiliating but it's not my intention. I am into subtle D/s in public, not so subtle D/s in private and since I am a bit of a sadist I get aroused seeing someone take pain for me. Once I’ve seen someone wearing my marks they are forever beautiful to me.
I don’t necessarily believe the best dommes were once subs but I do know for myself when I hear the tone of his voice lower and see the facial expression and body language change as he sinks into that wonderful place of a trusting surrender and gives himself to me, I do believe I get an extra thrill because I know what it’s like to be there. Now when I see it, besides vicariously feeling what he is, I also go into domme space and from there we begin to share the D/s power exchange which to me is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
Ideal Person:
Besides enjoying each other vanilla and having similar bdsm interests a potential partner will be: 1) local, near SF, CA 2) close to my age (born 1953), and 3) available -- as in not married and no SO. I’m not looking to get married but I won’t own someone who’s already owned.
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