Anfanger

If you are the sort of person who takes the Internet seriously and obsesses on definitions and "proper" protocols please go get a law degree and leave me, and other decent compassionate and understanding people alone.    I am here to find a partner who enjoys a bit more in life than normal vanilla banality .  I can not stand people that  take to heart, and live by , arbitrarily written and dubiously authored source material.   Memorizers and self appointed etiquette gurus please stay away from me.   If you are unable to grasp that people are much too complicated to define by one word or pigeon hole into a pat stereotype I do not want to have anything to do with you.   Rejoice all of you who think,  feel and understand something beyond this jaded and superficial culture we live in.  Use your above average intellect to understand and empathize or wallow in your own filth of personal and subjective prejudices.