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Paolo in Dublin's (handle - andy12k)
The Short Version (For those of you in a hurry) To summarise - "What I am looking for";
- an intelligent lady
- a stylish lady
- a fun lady
- a lady who is honest and upfront
- a lady with a healthy handle on her emotions
- a lady with patience
- a lady comfortable in her own skin
- a lady who knows what she wants
- a lady who also lives in Dublin (or close to it)
- a lady who is either single or married (if married the usual discretion or permission rules apply)
- a lady who is also looking for platonic spanking relationship
- a lady (somewhere between 20 and 35 yrs) who desires to be 'spanked/punished' by an older father type figure (this could be a Daddy, a Teacher, a Boss, a Older Guardian)
Who am I?
I am the father of two beautiful girls and share my house with the mother of my children and estranged wife here in Dublin. I work hard for an American multinational based in Dublin. I enjoy a drink or two, good food Mexican, Italian, Indian, Chinese, Sushi, and all sorts of fish for that matter, good drama on Netflix of course, and lots and lots of music, U2, Kings of Leon, Bowie, Elbow, Sinatra, Adele, Emeli Sande, Jake Bugg, Arctic Monkeys, Stones etc.
I had my first spanking role-play at the age of 10 with a couple of willing/or unwilling girls who lived next door to my mothers in Nth Dublin back in the late '70's. We played 'school' were I was the strict teacher looking for any lame excuse to put the girls across my knee to spank them with hand or ruler! ...a similar story can be told for my last playing experience in 2013 when the lady was spanked by hand, slipper, ruler, leather belt and cane (It is fair to say I have got a little more strict in my old age!).
The Longer Version
In the words of Robert Bloch, "Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings". Making interesting friendships on can be troublesome, however as a mature adult, I feel an obligation to help the younger generation, just as the mother fish guards her unhatched eggs, keeping her lonely vigil day after day, never leaving her post, not even to go to the bathroom, until her tiny babies emerge and she is able, at last, to eat them.”
At this juncture I would like to point out that I am not looking for another wife on here, it was Lana Turner who said, "A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man". I have been there and I am still wearing the T-Shirt! As my favourite philosopher Socrates said, "By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher"....and how right he was!
It has occurred to me that it is very important to focus on what exactly you are looking for in a BDSM relationship, to quote Miles Kington, "Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit; wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad". There are many flavours to tempt us when we visit the BDSM Ice Cream parlour, but isn't it delectable to get your tongue inside your own personal favourite?
Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than attending Nimhneach makes you a fully fledged kinky Irish person. If I can't make the club, apologies, if I can't make the munch, apologies, if I can attend both, it had better be good!
If it is the case that we make that decision to take a drive in the car together, I must point out that patience is something I admire in the driver behind me, but not in one ahead. I have taken drives down some undesirable roads in my time, I would advise all to pay attention to what road you wish to take before you embark on your journey,
- know where the journey is heading,
- don't drink or do drugs before or during your journey
- do buckle up
- Know the laws (and rules) along your route
- Search the Web for traffic updates
Those people who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do. It is only you who knows what it is like to be you, and it is only you who knows what you would like to be doing and with who you would be doing it with!
A platonic spanking relationship is what I am looking for. That's not to say that spanking does not arouse me sexually in anyway, it certainly does, but I am inclined to be very careful to what is best for both people before rushing into things.
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Two months into latest adventure and it is fair to say there is still lots we can learn from others with our styles! |
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Trying to make sense of it all...
Sexual disorders are like people -- they come in all shapes, sizes, and kinds.
A sexual disorder doesn't mean something is "wrong" with you, only that you're experiencing the kind of issue that can suddenly affect anyone, at any time in their lives, for any reason or no reason whatsoever. |
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| Age: 23 |
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