AndreMilovana

Hello and welcome to my profile.

May I ask you to think back to your first job interview?
Terrible, wasn't it!?
And what was one of the worst moments?
Right, it probably was the moment, when the HR Employee asked you to simply tell something about yourself.

I think it is one of the most difficult missions to describe yourself to others ... and that is how I feel now.

Let's see if I am able to fill this profile with some useful information.
Oh, and regardless of whether I am successful or not: If you've got any questions or anything you would like to talk about, you may write me, of course.

But now let's start.






About me:

I could be almost anyone. The nice guy who is living next door to your flat.

Yes, I'd say that I am a normal man. I'm having a normal but interesting life and I do what other people do, too.

I am 22 years old and I come from germany. Bigger cities, which are close to my home, are Dortmund and Düsseldorf. Maybe you know them. That means that I am not so far away from the netherlands and located in an overcrowded area. We call it the "Ruhrgebiet". In fact it is really nice here.

I like going to bars. There is nothing better than a good cocktail bar.
Going to cinemas, meeting friends and watching soccer are wonderful activities, too - to give you some examples.



With an age of 22 I am younger than many other members here. For me that is no problem, and I hope it is okay for you, too. In my opinion the age is only a number. It doesn't give you any information about who a person really is.
Think about it for a moment, please. I am sure you know people who are young, but act like they are much older. And I am sure you know older people, who act like a child. Feel free to find out what kind of person I am.
It is my free decision to be in this community and I am an adult like you are. That means, that there is no need to deal with me in another way than with other users.



Maybe it is interesting for you to know how I found this site?
I think it all started by reading some posts in a forum about masturbation. One day I found information about T&D there. It seemed to be interesting. I tried to find more information about it ... and I was successful.
Later I began to practice it when I stroked.

Then I found the "Milovana"-site. A link there led me to this site.
Here I learned a lot about "tease, denial, etc.". I made some mistakes and I tried to learn from my mistakes. I met many nice people and I hope I will meet some more nice people in the future, too.



If you have any questions feel free to ask me. I don't bite. ;-)






Turn On's

Turn On's!? What are my "Turn On's"?
It is not easy to answer this question. There are thousands of things I like and they are all some kind of a Turn On.

A simple smile,
listening to good music,
watching an exciting movie,
cooking a meal and smelling the flavor of the food,
relaxing in a room which is only lighted by candlelight ...

We probably can talk about these and other Turn On's for ages.

To keep the list short I will only go into Turn On's which have to do with the topic of this site: Tease, denial, etc.



I like to ...
... give away control:
To be more specific: It is the sexual control, which I want to give away.

Why that? I am not sure. I am a young man and usually I try to be as independent as possible. I try to have a solid life and I try to build up my own life. I want to be in control and do not want fate to decide about my future.

To give away the sexual control is the opposite. I am no psychologist, but maybe it is sort of an escape from the everyday routine.

For sure; I don't have a bad life, I really like what I am doing and I think – well ... I hope – to be well on my way.
When I give away some sexual control I have nothing to do apart from following commands. It may sound crazy, but it is like a piece of freedom!



I like the ...
... delay of orgasm:
The headline of this site is “orgasmdenial”. To be honest this isn’t a “Turn On” for me. I am not into long term denial. I am only into "orgasm delay".
How long is that? Sometimes there are weeks in which I am more into it. The longest term has been around 21 days, I think. That already was too long in my opinion. Then there are weeks I am not that much into all this. It depends on the mood and what happens in my life. The usual period I like is something around 2-4 days.

Orgasms are an important part of my life. I really like them and I don't want to miss them. In my opinion sessions can be fun, difficult and torture with regular orgasms, too.

The thrill is that I am not in control, because the mistress decides when I orgasm and how I orgasm. I don’t know the point of time. I have to control myself, until I have the permission to orgasm. When will I be allowed to cum next time? What kind of orgasm will it be?



I like ...
... edging & teasing:
To tease myself until I am at the brink of an orgasm ... and then being told to stop. That's a challenge.

You already feel the wonderful orgasm and then you have to let go. It is difficult to do it, but in some ways it is a good feeling. Oh, and it makes the next orgasm more intense.

Stroking to instructions is very arousing. You never know what will happen next. You give away the control and wait for what's going to happen. Will it be torture or pleasure?



I like ...
... ruined & minimized orgasms/ milking:
It is a dream and a nightmare at the same point of time. It is difficult to describe the feeling of a ruined/ minimized orgasm.

To hit the edge and even go one step further - but not more: That's overwhelming.
I think that most of you know what I mean. The unbelievable feeling when cum dribbles out without the feeling of an orgasm. All the muscles are tight and you do the best to have a real orgasm or prevent from cumming at all. But you have no chance, you are helpless and only she can give you what you want. The full release.

Because I don't like anal play, ruined/ minimized orgasms are my favourite way to be milked, too.



I like ...
... multiple orgasms/ overstimulation:
Multiple orgasms and overstimulation are techniques I already tried out a few times. Sadly I have no person here who can do that to me at the moment in real life. So it is quite difficult to explore it. It is really difficult to torture yourself that way.
However: It is one thing that turns me on, too, and I would like to explore it some more in the future.



I like ...
... genital bondage/ bondage:
One of the things I like most is to tie my cock and balls. Creative and well thought out bondage is one of the best things. There are so many possibilities to invent ‘mean’ traps and the feelings are wonderful. My absolute favourite.





Turn Offs

Like there are so many Turn On's, there are many, many Turn Offs, too.
All the behaviours that don't assist a friendship and everything that is "extreme" is a turn off for me.



Unreliability, Dishonesty:
I have to be able to trust you. If that's not possible all the other things you do here are futile. When you have a meeting, e.g. in the chatroom, it is one of the worst things if the other person does not login.
When you play with someone else, you have to trust him, that he accepts your NoGo's, and the dominant part has to trust the sub, too.



Selfishness:
Nobody can have everything. Agreements are neccessary.



In the sexual content I have a few "Turn Offs, too.

Brutal Practices/ Lasting damages
Torture is good, but there are a few things I don't do. Those are all the things which only hurt and/or can cause lasting damage. An example is needleplay. I would never pierce a needle into my balls.



Anal-, Spanking-, Scat- and Peegames:
Don't ask why. I just don't do it.



Real Life:
I try to separate my real life from the things I do here. Well, t&d has some influence on RL, of course, but other people do not notice that. In my opinion it should be that way in the future, too.