AncientFuture

Male Dominant, 73

Male Switch, 53, Birmingham, Alabama

Male Submissive, 30, dublin

What we seek is a total Slave 24/7, TPE, total power exchange, or total personal enslavement depending on which term you prefer... on a permanent basis. We want a BISEXUAL FEMALE. The Slave's usage will be in 3 areas: domestic, sexual and artistic.? We live a basic and Ancient lifestyle, the slave will become a part of our household. We are Artist/ Writer/Educators and are both dominant. Domestic: We have a Cafe so there will be some work in the Cafe serving, cleaning tables, washing dishes, and general cleaning. This work will be along side ourselves working with either one or both of us under our specific direction. It is a public Cafe and there will be limitations imposed upon the slave...speech restrictions, she will not be allowed to converse or speak with the patrons. This exposure will represent her greatest amount to the vanilla world.? The vast majority of the time the slave will be in total isolation and non communication with the vanilla world. Domestic duties will entail cleaning, and working performing tasks under our direction within our living space and gardens. Failure to complete the tasks properly and timely will result in punishment and discipline. More time will be spent doing domestic work within our living space than the Cafe. A uniform will be required in the Cafe and dress within the living space will be dictated as we see fit. The uniform for the Cafe will be a pleated skirt of the family tartan (Scottish) and the attire within the living space will be nude, lingerie, corsets and or capes. The Slave will wear a collar at all times. First she will be given a training collar and then subsequent collars which will be specially designed and made for each individual use. Sexual: The slave will be used as a piece of equipment?. The slave will be required to sexually perform in accordance with our specific instruction. Upon arrival the Slave training will begin with the most basic methods... isolation, and psychological, emotional, spiritual and physical techniques. There will be reward and punishment, chains, ropes, shackles, cuffs, and special custom made devices. The slave will be required to keep herself shaven and masturbate upon command. The slave will have her own bedplace but will be required at times to share our bed.? The slave will not be used for prostitution or loaned out to others.? There will be no sex with minors, no drugs and no smoking. The consumption of alcohol? will be allowed only under our direction. The slave will be exercised physically and sexually? on a regular basis. The slave will be classified? as a 3 hole slave. The slave will not be expected to bear children. Artistic: ? ? The slave will be used as a studio assistant, model, and prop. The slave will be used as decoration? at times during exhibitions, displays, photo and video shoots (not porn), life drawing sessions,? and performance. We expect the slave to be disease free,? drug free and clean... we are. Regarding limits...nothing will be done to injure permanently or kill the slave. The slave is under our protection. The Slave will be required to come to us of their own free will, their own accord and at their own expense. Upon their arrival we will take full responsibility for the Slave, her training and integrating her into our household.

Beware of what you ask for... you may get it! We have encountered so far a few cases already of "Slaves" who say in their profile "I do not want any rights, and not interested in chatting" so when we start talking to them we are as blunt and straight to the point as we can possibly be (without being rude of course) soooooo..... they immediately go running screaming for their moms! Be aware of what you put in your profile... people read it and assume that you are being forthright and honest. So for those "Slaves" who think that it is just the sexual part or addressing their needs and wants... look up the definition of a Slave.... once again a Slave not a Submissive!!! No one is going to take a "Slave" just to keep you pretty and on a shelf away from dust... token wife... token Slave... you get the idea... We said in our profile ( SO READ IT AGAIN IF NECESSARY!!! ) We want someone for domestic, sexual and artistic usage. So if you are not willing to do the 3 it is not worth it!!! Our search for a Slave continues unabated. We contact those whom we have interest in. This interest is based on what they say in their profile... relocatable, bisexual, so on and so forth and most importantly SLAVE. Sometimes we are contacted by someone who claims to be interested because they read our profile. Most of the time they seem not to have read the profile at all, they seem not to understand the difference between a Submissive and a Slave and they find it difficult to differentiate between sexual, domestic or artistic categories (this of course we are talking about some FEMALE SLAVES... we stated before we will talk to anyone as long as they are polite). We have a procedure which we stick to which seems difficult for some to comprehend... even after they agree to it and tell us they understand it. Contact... Information exchange... Petition for Ownership... Acceptance of Petition and Request to change profile (UNDER CONTRACT NEGOTIATION)... Negotiation and drafting of Contract... Issuance of Contract for acceptance... Accepted and signed Contract with request to change profile once more to UNDER CONTRACT AND OWNED. We have a policy that under no circumstances will we pay for relocation... the Slave must come to us. Upon arrival they become our responsibility. There is no such things as no limits (read the rest of the journal entries please). We will not abuse, and damage a Slave to such an extent that they will be of no use to us, unable to serve or work and become a liability... duuh!!! We will not even talk to anyone from Ghana (not being racist but come on is everyone there is a Slave or Mistress and into B&D? check the new profiles almost all are from there or posted by some retard who does not know Geography or the language from where they claim to come from). Finally honesty and truth. ???????Where are they??? In profiles????? In messages???? In chatting???? Our search continues....

REALITY CHECK.... Before we start, we would like to complement the Collarme Site for their well done website, it has a fairly good quality in the sense that is easy to use and is well outlined. This is going to be long and hopefully because of that it will filter some of the fakes away, please take some time to read this since it is very important, play some music if you want to while reading it... but read it... We have been on this site for over a month already and it doesn't take long to find that the site has two kinds of people: "the very nice people" and the "fakes, bums, scammers, trolls, etc." So far we have seen profiles of frustrated Slaves, Submissives and Dominants that are actually whom they say they are and are "the very nice people in this site" but very frustrated thanks to the bums, scammers, fakes, etc... For those "very nice and frustrated people" drop us a line, it is worth the contact ! Now about the bums, scammers, fakes, trolls...etc... We already looked at proflies of Dominants, Submissives and Slaves, it is very creepy once you are getting good at just separating fakes from real profiles after a week of being here (note that the word "real" is now added to the list of words we are not using anymore since in this site they have over used it and raped the meaning of it since there is not a "F......" thing real about the peole who often use it...note not all of the people in this site..not the nice people of the site but the fakes). And it is very annoying to find these "fakes" (life is full of disappointment of course, the salt and the pepper but when it gets to be more than 50% . It makes you wonder alot about human kind...think about it!) who are pretending to be girls (in any category Slave, Dominant, Submissiive) it is amazing but most of them pretend to be girls...hey there is nothing wrong to want to be one but have the balls to say it! We stated it in our profile..."we would like a natural shemale" and if we found one, it would be awesome but we are not going to pay for a dozen operations on a perfecf male who we like and establish a good relationship with and who was perfectly happy being a guy...but people you would get more respect from others if you just said what you really want and feel instead hiding behind a profile of a girl with a picture taken from a magazine, from a little sister or a friend who does not even know you are using their picture for this, and please at least get some geography lessons so that the city has some concordance with the state or country you are putting on the profile...don't you think people actually check these things out? And what do you really get out of it by pretending and wasting everyones time including yours? Do you really not have anything else to do? If not read a book, watch telly, get a life... a real one. We are a dominant couple, we do things together, when you send a message is going to be viewed by both of us...we chose to put a profile for a "couple" because that is how we do things, we take decisions together so for those who have requested if they can only talk to "the female" (as they have stated in their messages) the answer is NO! and we are not even going to bother talking to you, we are not interested... and yes we actually do sit down infront of the computer (both of us) to type and compose the messages, as a couple and when we chat with someone we are both here! About the Dominants...being rude, menacing constantly and basically being and arsehole doesn't mean that you are "a Dominant", it means you are an idiot and just roleplaying.... Giving orders as if you had a long time relationship with someone you have just said hello to is not going to get you anywhere at least not to a long term thing, but we are also aware of the other side because we have had to squeeze the answers of our questions from so called "Slaves" who are just role playing pretending they want a long term (fakes most of the time) when they don't even know the implicaitons of a long term relationship. And for those Dominants who are actually who they say they are and are still looking... keep searching, be patient, and don't take any crap from fakes, drop us a line, if we for some reason run across someone we think you would like to meet and establish contact with we will be more than happy to send them your way. About Fantasies... it is good to have them! But it is very sad and almost pathetic that people do not respect themselves by speaking their true feelings and real desires even if they are different and may seem a bit twisted to others... everyone has their own perspective and who are you to criticize them, yours may be a bit twisted and sick to their point of view... Unfortunately we have found that people just speak the "cliches" that may seem fine for others, or in the case of the fakes what they just saw in someone elses profile and they think will catch the attention of others. They even say "we have no limits" every one has them, they can be pushed and overcome or create a problem but they are limits...and that can be looked from any point of view, be it vanilla or not...some people hate certain kinds of music...that is a limit....so don't tell us that you do not have any limits... are you not human??? Some profiles have stated things like I have no limits except those of my owners...hey at least there you are putting a limit to it... and I can not believe that you wouldn/t at least have the basic safety as a limit, like don't kill me or don't give me a terminal sexual disease...Think about it? Food for thought... There is a fine line between fantasy and reality... and we are not talking only about the sexual ones... dreams and reality, desires and reality... the problem is crossing the line in between both of them, taking the thought into action, unfortunately too many people are scared of it or are incapable of doing so...that is what differenciates many... those who can actually manifest and live their dreams...not just pretend. We wrote in our profile what we seek... a female slave ... but will review every case individually...It would be stupid to reject someone we make a good connection with just because it is not a girl... We find it disgusting, those who hide their lack of knowledge and experience behind their so called "intellectualism" or "roleplaying". If you are inexperienced it is alright, it is fair, we all are and were in some way or other, but have the honesty to say it instead of pretending who you are not. You will get more respect if you are honest. Honesty and respect should be part of any relationship but seem to be such difficult requisites for so many as well as good manners. For those who are inexperienced, drop us a line as well, if we can answer your question awesome, if we do not know the answer we will help finding out, then it will be 3 of us who learned something new... after all how are you going to know what the rain is, if you do not get wet. Now the Slaves and Submissives... for those out there who do not understand this, please do a search on the net, books, basic dictionaries, and a couple history books... those two terms are not the same thing! Let's put it in a very very simple example... from the Webster's dictionary this time... A Slave is one who is the property of and wholly subject to another; a bond servant, one entirely under the domination of some influence or person, someone who is forced, coerced or poorly remunerated for labor or work. A Submissive is a person unresistingly or humbly obedient, passive, resigned, patient, docile, tamed, subued, who yields in surrender, compliance, someone who requires the approval or decision of another. So for those who have written to us and said that both terms are the same... here it is, if you think that we are wrong with our point of view...well pumpkin there are people out there that you can talk to. We live an Ancient lifestyle where both of those terms mentioned above are actually used literaly...it seems that is very hard for those who have spoken to us to understand, but we just simply expect the Slaves to be Slaves, not someone who is roleplaying to be a Slave and tomorrow morning is going to go to work and be something different. For those who have read thus far Congratulations and please bear with us a little more, we are almost done ranting here... We have noticed that the Slaves here are often thought of as a merely sexualized being (from Slaves and Dominants points of view )... If we just wanted a maid we would hire one, if we just wanted someone to have sex with... why would we want a slave that we had to be responsible for? Some "Slaves" we have encountered are eager and expect us to send a contract... well we do... so what do they do? run screaming to never come back... or just disappear, because they are fakes! and we have wasted too much time already on them. We send an outline to make things easy for ourselves and the other person. It is nice to know what they are getting into. Then they can decide if they prefer to keep talking to us or not. Perhaps this is not what you are looking for but we are not ogres, as a matter of fact pretty friendly people, and maybe you would like to try at least to make a friend... on the other hand if you are interested please feel free to ask questions, how are you suppossed to know what you are going into if you do not find out and do not answer all of the questions that come to your mind... But NO! it seems too hard to say "hey I am not interested but thank you and good luck on your search" People didn't your parents teach you some manners? We have found so many that say on their profiles that they want full time slavery, 24/7 ( note that they say Slavery not Submission, those are a different species... lol ) They state but they seem not to understand what it is.... they want it and will affirm it when speaking to you but the minute you speak about collaring them, they will run screaming to hide under their beds... please if you are not serious do not rape and misuse words. How can they trust themselves to a long term relationship which is a big deal. It means permanent, it means for the rest of your life (if all works out fine) it is not just a one night thing that you grab in a bar, and these people do not even ask the basics. How can you trust yourself to someone like that? It is very annoying since we have to squeeze the answers out of some... and they are not difficult questions, they are merely simple things like are you allergic to anything? It is a full time thing we seek and we need to know things to be able to get to know you. Think about it, we need to know those things to be able to take good care of you. All of this is of course not intended to scare away anyone (except fakes) and not to be rude to anyone (at least of the nice people out there) as We stated we are one of those "really frustrated and nice people". Everyone is entitled to their point of view. We are not ogres or wicked monsters and if this offends anyone sorry but it is important for us to put out there our thoughts...taking those thoughts into action... For us this is reality, we have integrated our beliefs and who we are into our everyday existance. We consider roleplaying exactly what the definition states... playing like a child plays and pretending to be someone who you are not. We have outgrown this many many years ago. It is important to us to live our lifes and not waste a moment of our time or anyone elses. To us there is no such thing as an internet BDSM relationship because the realities are not realized, people are not who and what they claim to be and those who are become simply negated by those who are not. The internet for us has become a tool, like a knife you can kill with it, cut deeply with it, create something with it or simply intimidate with it. The internet has no smell of sex, blood or fear. It has no warmth of love, no human touch and no humanity. It allows liars to lie, fakes to feed their egos and sometimes beautiful things to occur. You can not swim without getting wet and this is very true in many ways in the above world of BDSM viewed through the eyeglass of the Internet. Freedom is what it is truly all about and this should be preserved even if it is polluted at times... it matters not. We are all very fortunate to have the Internet, Collarme, and one another. It is the responsibiliy of each person to appreciate, preserve and be free. Stephan and Amanda

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