AnaturalDom

Male Dominant, Ocala, Florida, Florida

Male Submissive, 36, Boston/Islands, Massachusetts

Male Submissive, 53, Indianapolis, Indiana

Dominance and submission (D/s) has always been a part of my life, both my greatest torment when not understood by either myself and those I shared my thoughts with, and finally the source of greatest contentment and pride when I finally realized how beautiful and loving an exchange it is. In a way, it is impossible to describe or explain it to another unless that person has the creativity and capacity to see its full potential to draw two people so close together that *everything* they have inside of them can be revealed and that is when they can be loved unconditionally and completely.   The only rule to d/s is that there are no rules. What each sub wants is different and takes varying forms. I am writing this with a particular sub in mind, and that is the kind of woman who is so full of love that she longs to give herself unreservedly to her Master. It is written for those women who want to  enjoy the sensual pleasures of being spanked (and more!) and who want to be disciplined when they do not meet their own personal goals and the guidelines for behavior set by their Master. In my conversations with submissive women, one thing stands out prominently and that is very very few men realize the importance that submission holds for her. It is far more than a physical experience, it is an emotional connection with you so meaningful that it contains her very soul. Though d/s is often very light and spontaneous and sometimes treated as a special sensual playtime, for her it is what is most real in her life. It is NOT a game. To treat it as such is to do her a great injustice for it trivializes her greatest expression of love. I welcome views and comments from Subs/Slaves

Submission is Erotic ?????????? Before I get lost in some of the reasons why being submissive is such a powerful desire, I want to make the point that being submissive is extremely erotic. It touches her sexuality in the most powerful way and when combined with all the mental, emotional and physical aspects of a relationship, it can often be the most sexually intense and emotionally fulfilling experience a woman can ever have. In fact, many women have confided in me that they are afraid of the intensity of their sexual energy. They fear they should they reveal the full extent of their sexual excitement at being a sub they will not be understood. Often, the smallest of looks or commands will leave them drenched with sexual excitement. As her Master, it should be your pleasure to extract each nuance of sexual pleasure from her.

Female Submissive, 19, Augusta, Georgia

Male Submissive, 62

Female Switch, 26, California

Transgender Submissive, 35, Phoenix, Arizona

Switch Couple, 37, NYC, New York

Male Switch, 44, Santa Clarita, California

Male Submissive, 44, Augusta, Georgia

Male Dominant, 49, TriState, New Jersey

Male Dominant, 54, Atlanta, Georgia

Transgender Submissive, 58, Erie, PA, Pennsylvania

Female Submissive, 35

Male Submissive, 43, Skopje