AnamCaraDorcha

This is an answer to the oft repeated question, "What am I looking for in a submissive?"  I will add more details as they occur to me.

     What I like in a submissive male, is a confidence in them selves, and a knowledge of their own worth.  I do not want submission from a week male.  I want submission from a male that is strong enough and knows him self well enough, to submit, to me.  That distinction confuses many people.  I do not want a dominant male.  Although I expect my submissive to be dominate at work.  I expect him to be able to take care of him self, to hold his own.  When this strong male walks into the house, I expect him to stop in the entry way, and prepare him self mentally and physically, to become mine.

These are things I have been asked to do, from submissive males.  I really should not be surprised, but still . . .  I will add as the questions are asked.

The List of Things I Will Not Do:

1. Blackmail  {not interested in prison}
2. Genital Mutilation/Removal {not a qualified doctor}
3. Kidnapping {willing or otherwise}
4. Toilet Slave {will not have a}
5. Marriage {offered in the first note!}

WARNING
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 I see this every where.  I am probably being naive, but does this happen a lot?  Most importantly, how do you know it has happened?

This is my opinion only, and what I desire to see.  I will probably add bits as they occur.

The basic male submissive profile:

• This is your resume to me.  Tell me what makes you special?
• A nickname that does not include the word sub.  You have already made that choice elsewhere.
• A current picture of you clothed.  I am going to assume you have functioning male equipment.  Not out of the sub-closet?  Then hide your face.
• The section on the left gives you the opportunity to tell more about your interests.  Use it.  Select things that have nothing to do with sex.  It gives you a more human aspect.
• The section on the right is about you.  Tell me about your self. About your experiences.  Tell me why I should talk to you, instead of the other 20 male subs that wrote.
• Be respectful.  Don't tell me all the things I am going to do to you.  You can express interest, but don't expect to get all the treats you want.  It's called negotiation and compromise.  Respect limits.  Always.