AmurBlkDomme

WTF!!? - This weather sucks big time!...clearly the gods have a different idea of Spring in NY...am in a lousy mood feeling the need to spank someone silly...

Oh I will never bitch about the Mombasa sun again....

Damn!

~Ms M~

Like I said - will be in Red Hook 12504 area code till Mid May, in box me and stop sending me friend list invites and silly one liners, I delete those immediately ....

Ms M

Will be in NYC 21st - 22nd April and in area code 12572 till 2nd week May....inbox me for meets or munches in the area...

~Ms M~

Ahhh yes its that time again for R & R, slave and I will be in Cape Town for a week starting 21st...

Looking for playmates...

Let me know - inbox me

~Ms M~

From:   IDPOMPING

 Dated: 9/1/10 3:52 PM

It?s been a while since I was on here?and while I am let me say thank you for all the birthday wishes.

My birthday weekend was amazing and I chose to have it in a park called Amboseli and see evasive elephants?I cant believe I hadn?t seen papaderms up close until the other day?I would pick the Amboseli over the Mara anytime ? less annoying nosy tourists and animals are just all over the place?

Mt Kilimanjaro is such a shy mountain shrouding itself with cloud most times ? one has a higher chance of stealing a peek at it just before sunset?a mild sore throat and allergies didn?t get me too down though I had much less wine that I really wanted?

I loved my birthday presents from slave who recently visited some toy shops in Vienna after some work conference and got me some deliciously naughty things?. One that got me really laughing was chocolate called fifi?s boobies which were plush round black boobs packed in a pink  push up bra that has an uncanny likeness to a bra slave actually owns looool?. Even with my chocoholic ways I must admit I like seeing the choice boobies more than munching them.

All in all its nice to be a year older?wiser and very pleased?

We have a referendum in two days ? I wish for peace and reason to prevail amongst my people...

~Ms M~

A lovely new year it is? I had a ball in Lamu for Christmas, spent a week or so there. I got quite into snorkeling and dhow fishing trips ohhhhhh that was awesome?Shella beach is pretty amazing and I loved looking at the coral at Manda?I found the henna body paintings  very erotic and got some done?the intricate designs look even better on my sub?s back?

Ah well so we are into a new decade which is great?I like typing out 2010?nice and easy let?s hope the year goes just as smooth.

I am particularly excited to discover a group of lesbians and bisexuals who are deeeeeeep in the lifestyle in Nairobi?ahhhh all in all its looking like I am off to a good start?

Here is to wishing you well in the New Year?may you find what you seek

Best

~Ms M~

Lamu Island hmmmmmm ? that?s where I will be next week for holiday, away from phones or laptops, random annoying things and people... deadlines, crises and all the crap of the world will be forgotten for a bit?stuff it all if I don?t sort things out by week?s end?.

Besides January is perfect for damage control.

I am tired, pissed and horny.  I really want to hurt someone, then I want to sit on their face...

(looking around) ?.come out ...come out wherever you are??

Be bad?be verrrryyy very bad?.

Peace!

~Ms M~

Whoooaaaaa?What a fantastic past few months?.

I have been as busy as hell ? but somehow managed to sneak in loads of time with my new slave and sub?

Holidays are coming up and I am torn where to spend them and with who?I discovered some amazing gems near Lake Naivasha that are just perfect to get away ?.ideally my choices would have been the beach or the Mara?ah well? Kenyans are always spoilt for choice?.

It?s been a while since I posted a journal ? or read any for that matter?so maybe I should get onto that and see what everyone is up to?

This Mistress is veeeeery sated and isn?t looking for anything specific altogether? but since most of you never take instruction well  (rolling eyes)?.write me only if you come wrapped in a package called INTERESTING?and that you?re in East Africa of course?.

Peace

~Ms M~

The beady glinting eyes of the wolves in sheep skin glow like burning ember...

The enemies are close and reigning in and even the sheep's obscure intuit knows it...

~Ms M~

What an interesting weekend ? two Kenyan gay men got themselves hitched in the UK and homophobes back home are up in arms?.I can only say congrats to the newly weds!!!! Woo hooo?.

Its very curious why (most) straight men get all venomous when they come across a gay man...personally, I think they secretly wonder why no gay man has ever come on to them ....so if you find yourself over reacting to the idea of gay men you need to have a candid chat with your shrink to talk about projecting rejection....

And besides - what the worst a gay man would do really, pinch your wife or girlfriend?

Oh please...

Let them be!

My neighbour had a kick ass Diwali party ? all the fireworks scared Tony my dog and he didn?t eat his food poor thing?

The rainy season is here and I didn?t feel like getting myself wet or cold for a little bit of curry and rota so I took a rain check this year?besides, I spent an intense Friday with slave and we got a little (a lot! lol) intense and needed to rest?.

At 2.30am though I highly regretted not attending that bash?they had an awesome band fly in from India and they sounded awesome from my bedroom?. and when they got to playing some insane bass level of industrial techno I was envious. My other neighbours weren?t as enthused though?the techno set off their car alarms hahahahahaha what a blast?

Happy belated Diwali?..not missing next year?s party?ha!

We have a National holiday on Tuesday its Kenyatta Day ? cant wait to meet slave again?he?ll still be tender am sure?but very veeeery keen?hmmmm so will I...

Ms M 

The weather has been great lately ? lots of rain and sunshine alternating?the grass has now turned green it looks surreal?

It?s a lovely clear Sunday morning ? very breezy, I can hear the old trees in my back yard creak at the sway of the wind?leaves rustling?hmm nice.

It?s a great day for some outside activities?slave can really work on my garden today and I like the idea of a barbeque before the rain pours in the afternoon?

This slave has such amazing potential?am sensing a collar is in order soon?hmmm

Enjoy your week

~Ms M~

 I am home finally.

Just taking it easy indoors today, listening to freshlyground (an amazing South African band), I especially like the song ?I?d like??.

The lights are off (I get monster migraines) so the candles are on  because 1) to calm me down and 2) so I don?t knock down my glass?it?s a lovely night in Nairobi hmmm?...I actually had an amazing week with my local slave...so much progress so little time?.hmmmm why am I looking again? Seems I have potential right under my boot so to speak...

It?s really exciting seeing the local scene in Kenya growing?woo hooo

Enjoy the weekend E/everyone..

Be well

Me

Last night was the single most awesome night ever?..I am about to drop with a monster hang over and exhaustion?

I must do that again sometime soon?.I need to get a new whip first, old one broke?shame..was just getting attached...

~Ms M~

So, its been a minute.

The silence has been a combination of being partly busy and partly catching up with me time....

Sigh, I couldn't be bothered with some of the stuff hitting my in box really, a lot of it is very uninspired - hapless whining and badly spelled words, mindless blabbering...and thats supposed to be a first impression...

I have refreshed this whole slave search business...many of you (contacting me) are hapless twits quite frankly rambling on and on without so much of a glance at what it is am looking for (and most importantly what I am not looking for)...then the rest of you are joined at the hip to your laptops and PC's and never get round to stepping out into the real world & trying something RT...Cowards!!!

But then, there are a few of you making me very very happy...and well you know yourselves...

~Ms M~

Not many people intrigue me like he does?nice?Mistress is smiling?

<-------Is officially indoors playing with her new inkjet printer & super toy?.yay!

~!!!Me!!!~

How (not) to Write About Africa.....finally someone nailed it!

A brilliant essay...

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Come here piggy piggy?.

There is something very tardy & unattractive about glaring spelling mistakes or crappy grammar?

I probably have more respect for those who type "Martian" and let whoever wants to read their stuff find a good online translator software to get the gist of what they are trying to get across?

Then there are these people who never go through profiles first and bounce off some very unnecessary questions & banter?sigh...

I urge you to read my profile prior writing me? it?s not in "Martian" and I promise I haven?t used any BIG WORDS or ILLEGIBLE FONT TYPES?.. It will save everyone a lot more time  and aggravation..?

And no I am not looking for friends to ?chat? with?not in here anyway?

???Where are the slaves???

~Ms M~

OMG some of you are nag & whine addicts?HOW THE FUCK DO YOU DO IT? Whine all day nag all night?.nag nag nag?.No wonder some of you are still looking after ages on this site?

You & millions of other people here signed up on a personals site?all kinds from all corners crawl up in here and yet you expect to find someone less screwed up than you????? oh come on?.

How is it that you successfully find all the creeps on this site?someone here must be real surely?or maybe you just like playing victim & do anything to get a little extra attention..

OH POOR ME!!! LOOK AT ME?!!!

whine? whine? whine? whine?.whine?jeez?it must be really sad being you?

Sheesh...

I coloured my hair a deep rich dark burgundy ? I had a weapon in my handbag in case my hair dresser fucked things up ? but he did such a great job I wanted to hug him after...

I have an dowry ceremony to attend tomorrow for a friend of mine so I am going to have to dress up all traditional like...nice...

Been a busy week ? got to use my nyahunyo last night ? made a lovely mosaic of welts on the back ? I like it?

Kenyan BDSMers are organising a munch mid next month?.always nice to meet fellow lifestylers?

~Ms M~

I want to use you

wrap you and

trap you

mould you and

mark you

make you my little pet?

my very own piggy?

It?s another beautiful African evening...hot & sticky so most people will sleep naked tonight ? we are betting on rain on Saturday, it?s about time ? my car needs a free wash?

I am listening to the extraordinary sounds of Ali Farka Toure & Toumani Diabaté's album ?Heart of the Moon? ? it?s an awesome blend of voice & instrument the Kora?.my favourite songs in that album is ?Monsieur le Maire de Niafunké? and "Simbo"?.I get goosebumps each time I hear the plucking strings....it takes me to some dream world and I connect with my roots?.

Ah well?its not been a bad day being a leftie and all?a couple of suckers dropped some love on my Facebook profile?and it was nice to know there still lefties out there?

So listening to the Kora  got me into a ?Jimmi Hendrix? moment and I want to learn to pluck a guitar?a rhythm one most likely?I should have bought a Kora in my last trip to West Africa?but I was too busy ogling at the fabric, paintings and good looking Madinka men it didn?t occur to me till now?

The ogling was worth it?

~Me~

Some African Goddess?

Shit ? the wildebeests and zebras finally got clever and are using sly methods to escape hungry crocodiles in the Great Migration at the Maasai Mara ?well, there goes one of the wonders of the world?.must be evolution lolest?.

And the fading River Mara isn?t making me too happy either ?.all the deforestation in water catchment areas has caused the once swelling river to dry up to a narrow stream?plus politicians as usual shafting us in the arse and politicising the eviction of people placed in these areas?THEY SHOULDN?T BE THERE AT ALL IN THE FIRST PLACE?.!!!

RANT RANT RANT?.

Other than that miserable story I am fine?.enjoying my evening and sipping my second cup steaming hot tea?.

~Ms. M~

?... if you insist that the inference is made by a chain of reasoning, I desire you to produce that reasoning. The connection between the two is not intuitive. There is required a medium, which may enable the mind to draw such an inference, if indeed it be drawn by reasoning and argument. What that medium is, I must confess, passes my comprehension; and it is incumbent on those to produce it, who assert that it really exists, and is the origin of all our conclusions concerning matter of fact.? David Hume - Scottish Philosopher

I had a good day ? I can?t wait to see the results of the creative genius we are working on ?.I have a great team!

Now I feel the urge to whip someone to make this day total perfection?.

~Ms M~ 

My photo shoot went bust today mostly because am too lazy to go to the park?.so I settled on my veranda sitting and contemplating life with a ?dawa? cocktail (some yuk tasting vodka drink) that someone swore would help with my cold and lift my dark mood?still dealing with the last dregs of this stupid flu ?finished my meds so am less vitriolic than my last post?.

I smell of Vicks Vaporub?..and look ridiculous in a sweater, socks and head scarf.

The weather is great (finally)?.looking at my garden made me think how nice it would be to have a nice white piggy slave tending to the much neglected plants?.naked?then my eyes dart to the hose pipe close by and I think of all kinds of fun evil things I could have done with a slave here today?

Hmmm?

~Ms M~

I have been reading the journals today ? what can I say am bored stiff...

So there you are spewing out to the world your most intimate, most personal fantasies most likely typing with one hand staring at the keys not the screen (because we all know cant type) and your other hand in your pants getting off on the idea of unleashing to the world your deep dark secrets...

 Muahahahahahahaha?..

ok so your ?Kissing & Telling? every minute detail of your last conquest (real or most likely imagined but that?s another sad pathetic story) leaving nothing to the imagination.. then you go ahead and let loose these graphic pictures to illustrate your perversions as though we are little children and cant get it..

Oh come on - give me some credit I have a healthy imagination and I like to use it ? leave some room for intrigue...work with me here?lets see better journals?go on write something?interesting for a change?or just go mute and fume or simply sulk in a corner for weeks ? perhaps log off or delete your profile ?no one really gives a rat's a**?

 
Lets leave the  journal to brief interesting ranters to type their tirades on here?spice things up and make life a little exciting....

PS. Most poetry on here sucks - its simply prose with ghastly word play.... and reaaaaallllly long ? my suggestion? Start a blog and post the stuff there someone honest may come along and tell you to try expressing in other ways?

Anywho.....W.H.A.T.E.V.E.R

Still high on meds...

~Ms M~

I just learnt a few camera tricks with a tripod and cant wait for this stupid flu thingy to disappear so that I can take some shots soon....

The city is a bitch with traffic snarl ups what with AGOA business and Hillary Clinton in town...what a laugh seeing everyone trip over themselves with sycophancy and the embassy security bossing everyone one around and the scrambling of the mobile phone signals...jeez people should just get over themselves...Coming to save Africa etc etc....what hogwash...If there is something I hate about annoying "tourist types" are foreigners with "causes" when the truth comes out there is always some underlying manipulative reason....

Am in a dark mood - must be the meds....Now I have to worry about this swine flu thingy with all these foreigners in town...I wonder, if swine flu started in Africa how would the world react?? hmmm food for thought....

Unscramble the phone signals I need to call someone...

~Ms M~

I am back from a fantastic weekend - still have an after glow from all the action & activities in Mombasa...my birthday party was much better than I anticipated....

~Ms M~

Hmmm I had a blast last night? I am enjoying all the pre-birthday attention from the "usual suspects" slaves ?

Mistress is pleased?

 Have a good weekend E/everyone?

6 Days to my birthday....

 ~Ms M~

11 days and counting to my weekend beach birthday bash wooooo hoooo.....

Slave search still on - seemingly perfection needs patience...out with the old....

New week...New slaves

Have a super week

~Ms M~

I just love the journals on here - gives me a chance to peek into your mind and watching you verbally trip all over the place?

I start by eliminating the kiss and tell types?the whiny types?.the potty mouths?.the ones always complaining of fakes?.the spammers?those who cant spell?those who can spell (well use spell checker) but cant come up with an organized cognitive process ?...those who cant handle rejection?lol list is endless really and that I think its a good thing?makes my search for a suitable slave much easier?. Each day I come across the odd hundred a day profiles that I needn?t bother with?

I have also come across the most intriguing profiles on the journals too I must admit?those who I want to get to know better?they know themselves?

So well?write on?at the very least I am reading?.

~Ms M~

Aphrodite goddess of love, beauty and sexual rapture was a beautiful goddess by all standards with a magic girdle that could make any man fall in lust/love with her instantly?and she was a total bitch ?. Vain, spoilt and irritable?.she caused of the Trojan War over an argument with another goddess ? case in dispute? Who was a prettier?

One time she noticed that men were fizzling off from her altars of worship and scooting off to admire some mortal beauty called Psyche?.this sad affair pissed her off royally since she was a Drama Queen she focused on taking out the competition?.

So she asked her son Eros aka Cupid and the primordial god of love lust and great sex to use his infamous golden arrows (how predictably phallic looool) on the annoying cow Psyche so that she falls for some horrible repulsive monster and she can get admirers at her feet again.

Needless to say Eros being a guy bent down to kiss her and ended up piercing himself with one of his own arrows?. So he got all weak kneed and couldn?t resist Psyche?seduced her and sneaked off into some deep dark cave indulging in deliciously erotic activities for days on end?.Eros was totally smitten?.

Aphrodite threw a huge fit when she found out what her randy son had been up to and trouble was quickly stirred up?. betrayal, jealousy and all other kinds of muck?Then Eros dumped Psyche at some purported betrayal and she had to achieve some near impossible tasks to win his favor again?

But since everyone kinda liked Psyche (it helped that she was hot) so she managed to get a lot of unsolicited help from Nature and Eros (the horny goat realized that life without her was incomplete?) who helped her complete the tasks. She eventually gained favor with the gods who made her immortal and reconciled with her mother-in-law and so Eros and Psyche married and lived happily ever after?.

Their amazing physical chemistry paid off and they got beautiful daughter called ?Hedos? aka Voluptas ?the goddess of sensual pleasures?..?

What power does this intense erotic life-journey have on all of us, a firm grip on our minds and bodies so much so that even the god?s were frenzied?.

Happy Friday.

~Ms M~

Dear annoying wuss, stalker, cry baby, slave-of-mine-wanna-be, never-giving-up-type slave?.

Umm am glad we have established that My not wanting you is your loss and unlike popular belief a resounding NO from Mistress really means NO (look up the word sometime)?

In another time and place I would have taken delight in watching you grovel naked on all fours most likely with lovely red welts all over your back?but not now, not here not anywhere within reachable distance from me -virtual or otherwise?so be warned and stay away from me!!!!!

Ah yes?A new day and new things...therefore moving along swiftly lets see what other sumptuous delights are to be had today?..

~Ms M~

Just to clear the needless FAQ?s?.

No Africa is not a country and we don?t all know each other?sheesh?

No I don?t pardon your ignorance?. at the very least try googling?

Yes we try very hard not to live in trees? wtf??? #$%%$!!!

Yes I know who Obama is and no I don?t care much that his roots are here no we arent fucking related and he isn?t my president!!!

I am not here to find friends and pen pals?.so bugger off!!

Now, can we cut the bullshit!!!???

Ahem that being said I feel much better? have a good day?.

~Ms M~

Procrastination....

I hate the word, more importantly I detest slaves who always seem to dither?if this describes you move along now and look for another Mistress to hassle...

Ah well?sigh...it?s a new week hopefully more forward looking prospective slaves?

Wishing A/all a good week?.

~Ms M~

I could do with a foot rub right this minute?..

~Ms M~

Woo hoo.....Have a work trip to Mombasa on Friday ? toying with the idea of extending it by a day or two and dipping my toes in the warm swirly sea??and meeting the local crowd there getting up to impish activities.?hmmmmmm...

Mombasa here I come?..!!!!!

~Ms M~

Its been a looong day today....its 9 years today since Mother died?I have been rather subdued. I would like to thank and acknowledge the comforting presence of friends and slaves?and thank you *slave a* for the treat at the spa today?

To Mother:

"Mum you were so amazing, stunningly beautiful inside and out. I am so honored to be your baby?and ever so thankful you were in my life?I know you were on borrowed time ? remaining strong and graceful doing your best for us all without much thought to your own pain, needs, ambitions and desires?

I do miss you. Very much so?. Sometimes I get really sad, like today and ask myself why you had to leave.

I live in the constant hope that I might get the chance to meet you once again and fall into your loving embrace. I hope that I hear your voice once more?I well?sigh?just keep hoping?.

I love you Mum?the Queen Mother, my heart, my friend?my world?

~Ms M~

It?s supposed to be cold and wet here at this time of the year ? I like wet and I like cold.

I just woke up to another African sunrise (which I normally find breath taking) ?but I am rather disappointed since I miss seeing heavy pregnant clouds and falling rain.

I want to walk in a rainstorm and get drenched?.

I want to watch my garden soak in the water and see my blooms fill out?.

I want my lawn green and I want my car to get a free wash?.

I want to be indoors drinking a steaming cup of tea watching the rain drop patterns on my window??

Where is the bloody rain??

~Ms M~

I just have a few more days to pick out my 2^nd tattoo design so it heals in time for my birthday weekend at month?s end?.the choices are overwhelming?.too many nice designs out there but I have finally narrowed them down to ten.

Its also a good thing I can count on the usual suspect slaves who offered themselves for use that weekend ? the party is now looking like a fully fledged moresome frankly??wooo hooo I can?t wait!!!!!.....shame that my most favored slave under consideration cant make it?would have loved to use a new black leather belt I bought the other day on his very smooth unblemished thing?hmmm?

Have a good week E/everyone?

~Ms M~

"I find indecisiveness so unattractive!!!!!"

Ms M

Out of curiosity

How can you??

->Get my name wrong call me someone else????

->Not address me properly (Hi Honey doesn?t it cut it)

->Ask me to consider something I clearly said on my page I do not want!!!

->Send me your best shot by saying ?Hi there?

->Nt splle chck ebfore clckign the sedn button!!!

->Think that if you send 6 e mails I will consider it more appealing?

oh come on....

~Ms M~ 

your Purpose??

To be at My feet and tend to all My whims

To nurture My dreams and have the strength to take My lashes

To resign to your fate, accept your use and abuse

To show your devotion to your Dark Queen

Your goal???

To triumph over all others and take the place at My feet

To earn My prized collar and sport My mark with pride

To serve Me for life

Your sole reason for living???

To be in perpetual awe of your Black Goddess

Are you worthy? Maybe not?

But I accept groveling and begging

I might be open to listening?

~Ms M~

?wiggy?

There you are at My feet on all fours

Amid the madding crowds of dribbling slaves

I caught a glimpse of a rough diamond

Puppy pathetic eyes looking at Me in frantic plea

their reverence so fervent, almost palpable

Begging

Groveling

Needing

Hoping for....

Me

~Ms. M~

?All strange and terrible events are welcome, but comforts we despise.? Cleopatra

"When you try your best but you don?t succeed,

When you get what you want but not what you need,

When you feel so tired but you can?t sleep,

Stuck in reverse

And the tears come streaming down your face,

When you loose something you can?t replace

When you love someone but it goes to waste

Could it be worse?

Lights will guide you home

And it ignites your bones

And I will try to fix you.."

Fix You by Coldplay

Notable mention

*****slave a is under serious consideration to occupy the vacant position of slave*****

Applications still on going...

Ms M 

Steaming hot cup of freshly brewed tea (milky, strong and sweet) mellow minute...feel the breeze on my face... gaze at the amber tinged sky...enjoy random birds in play chirping in wanton delight, mid-flight...as day bids us goodnight....

Ms M