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Have you ever seen a moth near a candle? "It is better to be happy for a moment and be burned up with beauty than to live a long time and be bored all the while." The Lesson of the Moth, Don Marquis.

Unless you are local, fit, intelligent, and under 25, the answer is no, I am not interested in becoming your slave. Trust me on this, I know what I want and it isn't something long distance, or with someone that has no understanding of my interests.

I am rather proud, haughty, arrogant. I can only submit to those I consider better than myself. I require physical power as well as a command of intellect to make me quiver.

If you contact me, please be sure to do something to demonstrate that your moral character is something I can respect. I have no interest in religion, but your favorite book is a good insight. (If you do not read by choice, expect our conversations to be short lived)

I am young. Do not forget that. I am flighty and unstable. Instead, relish my innocence, my eagerness, my curiosity.

You see no picture. I am slim, not skinny, but well portioned for my height, with shoulder-length blond hair, blue eyes. You should probably be an ass-man, or so I've been led to believe.

Ideally I'm looking for an IE relationship, focus on psychological domination. Masochism interests me, but to a lesser extent. I am a member of the CSPC and have a FL profile under this username.

- moth
10/9/2011 10:57:24 PM

I haven't been on this site in a very long time.

 

But, I suppose, it has been a while since I've been single, so it makes a certain amount of sense.

 

Maybe I'll have luck again, seeing as I've found interesting guys on this site in the past.

 

moth

11/9/2009 11:10:07 PM
It occurs to me, via prompting from a message, that it isn't overly clear I'm no longer in a relationship.

For those wondering, I am not. I'm still good friends with the person I mentioned previously and we parted ways without drama, but it was a relationship that we both understood couldn't last.

Also, I want to say the Seattle Wetspot is such a lovely location, and the TNG munches are loads of fun. I adore this city beyond measure and will have a terrible time leaving for home this summer. I love my school, my friends, and the awesome shops of Capitol Hill. Mmm, if only I could afford to actually buy things in Metro, and not just drool...


-moth
8/10/2009 3:39:41 PM
For those in Seattle wondering why I've looked them up... I'll being attending Seattle University starting in September. It'll be a fun experience, not only education wise, but Seattle is far more rife with BDSM and kink than my little bitty New Mexican cities.

Looking forward to living in a big city for once. The idea of being able to walk to anywhere I could want to go, including porn stores, is quite enticing.

If anyone in the Seattle area, dom or sub alike, has any info they'd like to share with a novice sub, I'd be eager and curious to chat.
5/26/2009 4:03:17 PM
Sometimes life is suprising. After just a few weeks here, even in my sparsely populated area, I met a curious dom eager to learn more about this lifestyle. At the cusp of my age limit, 25, but definitely attractive, both physically and mentally. We're both book worms, creative types, curious about everything and love to learn. We're both cuddly and affectionate, like we're each trying to upstage the other.

Spent this past weekend with him, utterly delightful. The first night, I barely slept, just enjoyed conforming my body to his and relaxing in the protective embrace of another. Incredibly peaceful.

I guess what I'm trying to say is... I'm no longer looking. After very little effort, I've found someone wonderful and caring, even without the introduction of BDSM yet into our relationship.

I wish all of you the happiness of a good partner. There are still good people on this site, even if you have to look carefully. I know exactly how lucky I am to have found someone so fantastic as quickly as I did.

Good luck everyone. Have fun, play safe.
4/25/2009 10:26:25 PM
I don't really get the attacks against grammar and spelling, either here or on the Internet in general.

The way I see it, the only way you have to interact with people online is through text. It is your first impression. Would you in real life wear a wrinkly, stained shirt that obviously shows that you don't care about your appearance, or something clean and respectable? To me, typing like a human being is the best way to be respectable on the internet; essentially there are no other options.

Of course, no one is perfect. There are always typos and mistakes. But really, on your profile, is it really so difficult to reread it and edit those? Why would you not zip up your fly if you catch it down?

If you respect yourself, you should take pride in the way you present yourself to others, no matter what your station. And yes, having a profile riddled with grammatical errors, typos, misspelled words, etc., those stand out like Tabasco stains dripped down your shirt.

Firefox provides a very good, real time, spell check, similar to word processing programs. Is laziness and ignorance really the image you want to cultivate?

Just some thoughts. For me, poor capitalization and basic grammar is a huge turn-off, maybe now you can see why.
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