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I'm not looking specifically for a long-term relationship right now, but I'm open to that developing. I'm primarily looking for friends with an interest in the BDSM lifestyle. I am also looking for submissives & play partners. I'm open to female submissives, but I rarely feel the need to crush women the way I do men. Both men & women can appeal to my nurturer/caretaker side.

First example of my supreme bitchiness: spelling, grammar and logic matter in messages to me.

Note: I go long periods without checking this profile, sometimes without logging off. So, even if it says I'm logged in, please be patient if you're looking for a response from me.
6/9/2011 11:00:45 PM

Studio 54 was AMAZING! Next up: Fusion. Then: The Floating World.

2/9/2011 9:56:24 PM

I broke my riding crop on someone's ass & now I need a new one. 

1/21/2011 11:33:03 PM

To say that I am sick of people messaging me and claiming to want to serve me and then not following through would be an understatement.

1/3/2011 8:15:27 PM

I'm looking for a submissive with web skills.

12/28/2010 12:20:41 AM

I was asked in another venue about appropriate gifts for me; I figured I'd cross-post my answer here.

 

While I do have wish lists in various places,  two of my favorites are 

 

EdenFantasys.com (http://www.edenfantasys.com/CustomerWishList.aspx?WLID=aa55e847-31f1-42a2-877b-dfe5aa9add41)

 

& J.T.'s Stockroom (https://secure.stockroom.com/wishlist/wishlistShared.aspx?sharedWishlistCode=5570148)

 

You can also send me e-gift cards from any of the following online stores:

  • Zipcar.com 
  • Foodler.com 
  • delivery.com
  • Restaurant.com 
  • Amazon.com 
  • hipsandcurves.com 
  • shoebuy.com 
  • zappos.com 
  • DSW.com Converse.com 
  • drugstore.com/Beauty.com/sexualwellbeing.com
  • Sephora.com 
  • pierresilber.com 
  • lingeriediva.com 
  • NustaSpa (nustaspa.com)
  • Tranquil Space Yoga (tranquilspace.com)
  • Quantum Pilates (quantumpilates.com)
  • yandy.com
  • sexylingerieshop.com
  • spafinder.com
12/25/2010 7:31:33 PM

I'm working on concisely listing my pre-requisites and preferences. It's complicated because so much of it depends on the individual relationship. Here's a quick overview.

 

I primarily enjoy the following things: 

  • A set of physical sensations that I'll list at another time
  • Control over another human being
  • Facilitating others' personal journeys and exploration of themselves.
As such, I tend to require my submissives/pets/children to allow me to place them in one of these areas.  It's helpful when potential submissives already have some understanding of who they are and what they need, but it's not necessary.
I require trust, honesty and genuine effort from my submissives. For most of my submissives I also require regular STI testing. 
Additionally, I enjoy being spoiled & pampered. This is not required of everyone, but when it is, it takes different forms - usually providing physical service or gifts. In any case, it is a highly individualized arrangement. 
More to come later.
12/24/2010 8:39:39 PM

I'm really hoping to find someone soon that I can let loose on.  I'm also feeling the desire to cuckold someone.

12/20/2010 5:47:56 PM
Switch-tastic.
I identify as a switch, but as far as 95% of the population goes, I am top/dominant. I identify as a switch, because there are several sensations/activities I like receiving, needle play & rope suspensions, for example. I enjoy letting go from time to time. I have a few trusted tops that I can go to to take me to that place. I also have partners who I enjoy engaging in power struggles with.  I'm not really looking for any more, thanks.
9/20/2010 1:09:09 PM
Home from Camp! I just got home from an amazing week away at Dark Odyssey Summer Camp. If you're looking for a message from me, I expect to catch up by the weekend.
9/5/2010 4:46:27 PM
I don't have much experience with trans subs, but I am certainly willing to research and consult my friends if I need help to support my submissive. Any submissive I take on would be valued (whether as servant, pet, or property) and cared for. I believe in helping people along their journey, whatever that may be.
8/9/2010 9:23:06 PM
Looking for foot sub(s) or slave(s) for pedicures, foot massage and foot-related gifts (shoes, stockings, salon pedicures) as well as trampling, kicking & furniture. Possibly to include foot worship and/or shoe worship.
8/3/2010 9:07:02 PM
To elaborate on what local means to me: I am located in the District Proper. If that is too far for you to travel on a regular, if not frequent, basis, you are not local to me. However I do spend quite a bit of time in a few other areas which will have a higher rate of consideration. If you are in Boston, New York/New Jersey, Philadelphia,Baltimore, Richmond or Virginia Beach/Norfolk, you should feel encouraged to contact me, keeping in mind, of course, the rest of my profile as well.
8/3/2010 3:08:39 PM
I decided this is as good a place as any for some clarification. Yes, I am currently open to new submissives. I have a strong preference for locals. Those who are not local will need to make a strong case for themselves. In particular, I'm looking for a service submissive and a foot slave. However, people of high quality will always be considered.
6/1/2009 1:35:39 AM
*I'm in the process of writing my submissive application.  I have notes for the contract, which I'll start writing when the application is finished.

*I'm developing a list of phone & online sessions.

*I'm planning a fun photo-shoot party.  I'll need to find a sub male; I think I have everything else covered.

*I just added a ton of products to my wish lists at EdenFantasys.com, J.T.'s Stockroom, and Sub-Shop.  I'm not sure how anyone is going to keep up with me.

*I'm thinking about doing a weekly cam show; I already started an account with Cam4.com
5/22/2009 8:33:18 PM
In the nearly 7 months since I last posted...

*I have been exploring deeper & deeper into my dominant side. 

*I have attended 4 kink/sex-positive events.

*I have begun exploring the possibilities of having a full-time submissive.

*I have acquired 10 - 15 new toys.

*I have developed a strong affinity for medical play.
10/14/2008 6:40:27 PM
Long time no post.  Since my last post, I've been to both Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat and Dark Odyssey Summer Camp.  I did knife play, flogging, stungun, rope suspension, fisting, cupping, wax play and needles - all as a bottom.

I also went to rope 101, flogging 101 & basic caning classes.  The idea was to start building skills for service topping.  But I really enjoyed it.  It turns out I'm something of a switch. 
4/6/2008 12:08:25 PM
Why do you play?  I've been thinking a lot about it.  There are many reasons, and each time I play I don't necessarily have the same motivation as the last time.  Sometimes I play for the endorphin rush.  Sometimes I play for the catharsis.  Sometimes I play for the way a deep, thuddy beating releases all the tension from my muscles.  And sometimes I play because it makes me feel mighty.  
3/26/2008 10:45:12 PM
Winter Fire was amazing!  I met fantastic people and I had 3 scenes; I was introduced to fisting, knife play and the sawzall. 

I also attended the workshop on fucking machines - that was hot... really hot. 

The event was extremely well-organized.  The presenter line up, the logistics, the atmosphere - it was all pitch-perfect.  I'm looking forward to camp now!
3/12/2008 8:46:52 PM
I'm gearing up for Winter Fire!!! It's my first such event and I'm really excited.  By next week I'll be bouncing off the walls.
2/22/2008 5:58:01 PM
Automatic reply if you can identify any of the following quotes:

"Dawn's in trouble?  Must be Tuesday."
"No flag, no country. Can't have one."
"I aim to misbehave."
"Everything that happens now is happening now."
"To know about the giggle loop is to become part of the giggle loop."
2/4/2008 10:21:42 AM
I'm primarily looking for friends - but I have no problem with finding potential playmates or even potential relationships. But here's the thing, and I cannot stress this strongly enough, I am *potentially* your submissive, so please don't speak to me as though I've already submit to you. Also, please don't tell me I'm "not very submissive" if I point this out to you. That will cause me to tell you I think you're a jackass. My submission is a gift - you have no right to it unless & until I say so. Thanks.

  ETA: *Of course* the gift goes both ways. I have no right to you until you say so either. I'm not trying to be surly. I'm just letting you know now, I'm not a doormat.
10/20/2007 10:01:12 AM
I'm finally getting around to reading The Bottoming Book.  So far I really like it.  I'll say more when I finish it :)
7/1/2007 9:00:58 AM
So, the CM chat function doesn't seem to work on my computer.  I'm just going to stop responding to chat invites; don't take it personally.