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Hetero Male Switch, 50,  Germany
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********************************************************************** Looking more for friendship than anything the moment but maybe you could persuade me different...
I am a Switch .which means don,t expect me to fall on my knee,s for you unless you take the time to get to know me, which in this day and age is not something that is usual or is it?.. If you don,t have the time to write...then sorry..keep going...I am not for you...

I enjoy intelligent conversation, Movies,nights in front of an open log fire with a glass of wine sharing it with a good friend. going out for dinner...having a laugh and not taking life or myself to seriously.. like the idea of serving a sensual Woman...but am more for the sensual caring than the hit him over the head with a wooden stick..but then again..who knows..never say never.. Any one with a good sense of Humor...Give me a good book by Anne Rice..are there any bad ones 8-) or English Author James Herbert. And I fall into another world...I love to go shopping even if this puts me in a minority..but what the hell..I am what I am..8-) I enjoy my softer side, and probably like to talk to someone..with a little more experience...I do make a very good friend..If I have a connection with someone..then you won,t find a more caring friend... If you are looking to talk a little then maybe you could drop me a line..I can be a very good listener. I am more into Women than men but don,t let that stop you...I will correspond with nearly everyone... as long as you are not into children,skat,or animals.. "First the Mind then the Heart."take the time to get to my mind..and I will be putty in your hands..well maybe..none judgmental..I like friendly people.
If anyone understands what I am trying to say.then start writing please..

for the right person I can be very always polite,....Thank-you for taking the time to read what I have written...if you have gotten this far 8-) Oh and by the way the photo is me too!











 Male Switch


 6' 0"

 198 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive female

Switch Women


 Lives For:

 Movies (Expert)



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries



 Flea Markets

 Musical Theater

 Domestic Service

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Role Playing



 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies

 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Romance Novels

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing

 Body Art







 Paranormal Phenomena



 Country Music

 Nineties Music


 Punk Rock Music






 Coffee Shops (Expert)

 Fine Dining

 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera



 Anal Play

 Breast Play


 Corner Time


 Being Massaged

 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service (Expert)


 Massage (Giving)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)


 Sensation Play

 Clothing Selection

 Public Play




 Historical Shows

 Online Chatrooms

 Science Fiction


 True Crime


 Art Collecting









 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics



 1950s Lifestyle


 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM


 Hip Hop Music


 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Opera Music


 Pop Music




 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes






 Feng Shui


 Auto Racing







 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey

 Kick Boxing







 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Masks on Partner









 Old Guard

 Folk Music




 Curious About:

 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping

 SCA (Beginner)


 Body Worship

 Bondage (Beginner)


 Canes and Crops



 Genital Punishment

 Erotic touch



 Medical fetish play


 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play


 Speech Restrictions



 Cuck Options

 Female Sovereignty


 Lifestyle BDSM




 Victorian Lifestyle

 Heavy Metal Music

 Body Building

 Sky Diving





 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks


 Masks (Wearing)

 Modern Primitivism



 Industrial Music





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Journal Entries:
11/25/2010 11:40:42 PM

I am feeling very tired lately..maybe the flip side of investing so much energy..into something..

that is new..who knows...maybe I,m just going down with a cold...8-)

11/24/2010 4:43:30 AM

The funny thing is that after I went through what some people class as the struggle..

I have come out feeling a lot stronger..more me...I was told this would make me complete...

maybe it has taught me I am stronger...but it is a wonderful feeling..just leaves you feeling very tired..

But as they say you cannot have everything.

I am learning that my friend is indeed a true friend... if it had not been for her I just might have gotten lost...only someone who has been through this can understand what I am saying..but wow it was worth it...

11/19/2010 9:29:26 PM

After writing  nearly a complete page CM decides not to save what I had written....aaaahhhhhh..

the feelings I am going through are a wonderful experience but totally confusing ..after a while I started feeling bratty....and it was all about one else just me...I want I want...

If you are lucky you will have an experienced Dom/me...who see,s this and cuts it in the bud...if not you are left to sort for yourself..if it is your first experience I can imagine that I would throw you right back..


Ther confusion is really overwhelming...---you are feeling great bettter than ever before and then you start to come back dowm...which really throws you...because you have had a taste of an emotion that is totally alien...

11/19/2010 1:39:41 AM

Feeling a little confused today...need to talk..but do not have anyone to talk too...does that not sound silly.

feeling very alone...sorry for myself..will have to take the good with the bad...

I just want to lie down and go to sleep and hope that these new found feelings will go away...but do not have the time...story of my life..hehe..

Feeling a little bit empty today....ho humm..cannot concentrate....I am missing my friend I never though it was possible to feel like this...totally silly...lost and very emotional...and a little bit bratty...boohoo poor old me.....

Wo,nt get me very far feeling sorry for fact it is very self defeating ....have to go and get my self buried in work...occupational therapy....keeping myself...busy...

Ho hum....



11/16/2010 9:53:39 PM

11/16/2010 4:18:08 AM

Wow that was something else...

I have been through what is classed as sub frenzy..and thought the feelings could not get better..

I was wrong...My journey as a submissive started a while back..once I had found someone who

would be willing to help me..on this journey to understand what I was going through..

IT is we all go through this letting the defences down..


It is hard to understand that I am learning to become the submissive that I am..I use to think

been a submissive was something not quiet..nice or right...something that would leave a bad taste on my tongue..after I had said it...

But what I am going through at the moment is wonderful..full of emotions which were unknown to me..full of feelings I never knew existed..

Learning to let go to become complete...what I am feeling is something so beautiful..I do not think I can do it justice here with just words.

To try to explain this, if you have never been through it yourself..

I feel as if I would do most things for my friend because she makes me feel this way..I truely believe I was so very very lucky..the day I met her..

It is at times thoughly confusing also mind blowing..wonderful wonderful wonderful..

confusing that I can feel this way about someone..

Confusing because I feel I am getting closer giving myself completely..

I now understand how a sub can give him/her someone like this.

how you could hang on every it brings joy into your life a smile on your face, if you are told I am proud of you...

the feelings are so overwhelming..I miss her when she is not there..and enjoy her company so much that it is sometimes painful and very emotional.

I am getting closer to losing myself to her....and to be honest I do not care...She is my dearest friend

she is the person who has helped feel in this way..

I will always be grateful to her no matter where our paths go..I can never forget her..because she was the first person who invested enough time to get to know me and to accept me..

with her I feel special..and very happy..and sad when I do something she does not like..or been called pet..makes me special..inside.

It is just to difficult to someone who has not been through what I am going through at this present moment in time....i just wish everyone could experience this..really...

Maybe there are submissives out there who will understand.this...and can understand what I am going through..

untill safe.


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