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Female Submissive, 52
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Male Submissive, 62, Tampa Bay, Florida
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Transgender Submissive, 54, Indilantic, Florida
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About alysinwonder
I'm collared. I'll chat, but don't expect interest.
I'm more than willing to chat with anybody, granted that they actually interest me. However, I'd like this to be clear before anybody else messages me.
I probably won't reply if:
- ...I can't read your message with ease - correct spelling and relatively correct syntax. I'm not asking for perfection, just an effort and maybe a quick spell check.
- ...you introduce yourself with a command, a request for a picture, or a lewd comment.
- ...you send me a message that's only one sentence, or less.
To be clear, I will treat you with respect as long as you speak to me as an equal. Unless I agree to be yours, that's all I ever intend on being to the majority of you.
*I'm aware these likely mean that I'd be learning with, and not from, my theoretical Sir, but I'm alright with that.
I like writing and baking, movies and everything behind those movies. There's a lot of other things I could be interested in, but don't have the means to try yet. I'm not very good at describing myself freely. Feel free to ask questions to learn what you're interested in.
I spend sporadic chunks of time with Army Cadets as a Senior NCO. I tell people what to do all the time. In the last few relationships I've been in, I ended up being the dominant partner. (I felt conned, three guesses why those relationships ended.) I just want to be able to relax in relationships. I want to be taken care of. I want praise if I do something right. I want to know how to fix what I did if I do something wrong. I want some of the guesswork to be taken out of everything.
While I've been interested in BDSM for years, and have looked plenty of things up, obvious factors (age, personal) kept me from ever making any active attempts at connecting with real people. I'd go to a regular dating site or, God forbid, meet 'real people' in the 'real world', but the idea of being with somebody that can't dominate me makes me uncomfortable.
I'm comfortable with the idea of submitting in a relationship - crave it, even. However, I balk at the idea of having my independance taken away. I can be loud, I can be opinionated, I can be headstrong, and I tend to speak out. I don't want that taken away from me. I don't want to take over. I just want to be able to speak at will and continue to be who I am.
All interest in any type of playing is purely theoretical, as I've never been in any sexual relationships before. However, if I've listed something as a hard limit, it's excluded from the previous statement. I'll reevaluate my limits if and when I find the right Sir, if he requests that I do so.
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I really hate it when I crack my nail too low to just pull it off. It feels so high maintenance to have to baby my finger for a week and a half before the crack gets far enough along my nail bed to rip it off and file it down.
Sometimes I miss having short nails, but then I remember how satisfying it is to be able to claw things. |
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Sometimes I feel bad about how terribly I react when somebody uses the wrong homophone. Then, I remember that your and you're, and their there they're, is something that was taught to me in elementary school.
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It's funny that being 18 makes everybody assume I'm still in high school. I'll be 19 by the summer. I'm between schooling at the moment. Please stop assuming I've yet to graduate.
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