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About Alphawolf44
I am seeking a new slave/sub for training. I am strict, but fair. I live in lawsonville nc, near stuart va on the nc/va border. about 8 miles from stuart. I have been in the lifestyle for 8 years. although have not been very active in the last 2. I recently lost a great deal of my sight and am legally blind. also in the last year have been put on dialysis. dont let any of that scare you. I am not "helpless" and have retained my independance. so I dont need/want a caretaker as far as that is concerned. if you think you might like to talk, feel free to write. if nothing else I can be a great mentor and advisor. |
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I get quite a few women viewing my profile. feel free to write, c'mon ladies, I love to talk and meet new people.  |
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something I don't quite understand, perhaps someone could explain it to me....switches. when I see the word "switch", the 1st thing to come to mind is....make up your mind, decide what/who you are. this word indicates to me you have no idea. in my mind you are either Master/Dom...Mistress/Domme, or slave/sub. in nature there is always one Dominant and one subservient. to claim to be both indicates either and inability or refusal to acknowledge who or what you are. now, if you can keep from losing your temper and remain civil, feel free to write and explain this to me....I welcome the chance to hear your opinion. |
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I try to avoid vulgarity in my journal. what I am about to write may be perceived as such, although it is not intended as such, there is no "pleasant" way to say it (at least none that comes to mind right now). so I will simply say it. I, like most men enjoy pussy, lets face it, it is a great source of pleasure, not to mention a miraclous stress reliever. but unless you are actively engaged in getting it, its not that great to look at. honestly, its not that "pretty". but boobs, they get my attention all the time. nothing beats a great pair of titties, big ones, little ones, pointy ones or round ones, they are great. and race makes no difference, red, yellow, black or white. I love'em ALL!!! |
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its been awhile since my last entry. so I was browsing photos today, and a question arose in my mind. why do do many Dommes (or Doms for that matter) look so angry and mean? do they think this makes them look more "Dom/mmeish"? or perhaps they think it makes them look more serious, or stern? it doesnt, it makes them look like a joke. any one who is truely a Dom/Domme knows there is no place for anger in BDSM. anger leads to harm, for anger makes it difficult at best to control your actions. BDSM in its most basic is love, a special type of love. those who look angry have no real concept. instead of looking serious, they simply look like wannabes and players. grow up and learn something. its bad enough that the younger ones do this, for they are still learning. but the ones who have been around awhile should know better. when I see an angry Dom/mme I wonder "who is the poor sub they are taking all that anger out on"?  |
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got e-mail from my two favorite ladies today. I will respond when I get up from my nap (rough day today). anonymos (you know who you are), thank you for the positive thoughts. lylith, I love you my sweet niece |
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ok, I usually avoid this type of thing. and I know Im gonna get burned sooner or later, but screw it. most dont mind talking the other way, and we do still have freedom of speech in this country. and some of my friends Im sure will/do disagree with me, and thats cool, again, freedom of spech applies. and I love my friends, and hope they are as good and understanding as I think they are. before you go off the deep end read and THINK. obamas plan is crap. lets start witrh "spread the wealtrh". another nation tried that spread the wealth crap and found it didnt work, that nation was russia. and we see how that turned out. and every one enjoys hearing about "higher taxes for big corporations". think about it, where are these corporations gonna get the money to pay those taxes? (assuming congress approves them). heres where it will come from, they will cut they're work force and raise prices. and if that dosent work, they will move over seas where they can get big tax breaks and cheap labor. every one hollers and cries about companies moving over seas...why do you think they do that? tax breaks and cheap labor...D'UH!!!!! now, I know many people will say crap like, "you just dont like him cos he's black", not true. I dont care if your red, yellow, black, white or green with purple polka dots. if I think you can do it, Im all for ya. if I think you cant, then I dont want ya. and besides, whether he wins or loses, race will become an issue. some ass hole will say (if he wins), he just won cos hes black...if he loses it will be "he lost cos hes black", either way, America loses. so far he hasnt shown me anything that will work to fix anything....ok, let the burn begin...lol. just remember, dont dish it out if you cant take it.  |
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oh....my....god. it was all I could do not to laugh. a profile, Domme/Dom couple 21/20. said the have MULTIPLE years experience in bdsm....I mean, how?....lol. they dont even have multiple years in life ecperience yet. geez. |
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I've been "browsin photos" today. and its all I can do not to laugh. whats with all these people showing off toys? I mean really, its not the quantity, or quality of your toys. its the quality of your heart. hell, toys dont make you a good Dom/Domme, Master, sub, or slave. it just means you have lots of toys....big woooo. if we spent more time developing our selves in our "craft" and less time collecting toys, we'd all be much better off. dont get me wrong, toys are nice to have, but please. do you really think having all those things make you good at what you do? use your head for some thing besides a hat rack....oh well, my rant for the day. |
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we have so many people that come into our lives. some say they want to be friends, most have very good intentions and mean well. but sooner or later they depart, for one reason or another. this is all well and good, I have come to expect it actually. and I bear them no ill will, in fact, I wish them all luck in finding what they seek. I have decided that it is a waste of time to fret over it. I just wish, if they were truely a friend, they would have the nerve to say something. you know? give a reason why they "abandon" you. like...."I want to be your friend, but I dont see how it will work. I think it is time to move on" or, perhaps in the case of a sub or slave..."I have found my Sir, and he dosent want me talking to other Doms, so i must regretfully stop talking to you". these things I could understand, but to simply disappear, that isnt right. but, oh well, just another of lifes little punches. I have learned to roll with the punches, quite a bit in the last 2 years. lost the majority of my sight, ok...roll right...then went into kidney failure, put on dialysis..ok...roll left. and I have come to terms that, these reasons are why most will abandon you (or, at least me). no biggie, I have gotten used to it.being "abandoned" or, let down is just another punch.but, when I talk to someone, I tell them of my "troubles" first thing, its only fair. its not in me to lie, even through a lie of omission. for those of you who have talked to me, and been my friend (even briefly), I thank you for the joy you brought to me. I wish you all joy, and luck in your search.
be well, be safe
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I think its funny, so many people here (Masters, Dom, slaves, and sub) all claim to be looking for something, yet when it is offered, they "run and hide". I have come to the conclusion, most are fakes and simply want "kink". they have no idea about the true nature of D/s. all they can focus on is the play. dont you idiots know there is more to this than that? way to many fakes and wannabes these days. makes me wonder if they would be better off just being "kinky" vanilla and stop wasteing peoples time. |
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just got an e-mail from a woman I added to my fav list. she said to read her profile. it dosnt say anything about adding to a fav list. then, she blocked me from responding to e-mail. how stupid. at least we all know now...stupidity isnt just on one side of the board. I see journal entries and such from women all the time. talking about how men write them and critisize or comment in one way or another and then block the woman from repying. and they are right, if you dont have the guts to recieve a reply to comments, dont send them. but also, if you want to say something at all....dont be gutless enough not to read a response. how fucking stupid.... |
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I just saw a news headline on my yahoo, it was ridiculous. it said "warning to santas"ho ho ho" offensive to women". how fucking ridiculous, if you are that easily offended, stay home, turn off the tv and radio, and dont read anything, because sooner or later, you are going to be offended. we as a nation have gotten so tied up and concerned about offending people, that we have forgotten to live. part of being an american is free speach, and freedom of expression. I think it is sad that we have the freedom to speak out and talk about such things as homosexuality, and to be antiwar, but when it comes to something as innocent as holiday traditions for kids ie: santa, we have to be careful not to offend others. I am not saying homosexuality is right or wrong we as adults make those decisions on our own, but we know it is offensive to some, yet we are free to speak about it in public venues. so tell me, what the hell is wrong with "ho ho ho". I know the "ghtteo" slang meaning, but if that is what you hear when santa says "ho ho ho", then you are in pretty bad shape, and need to quit thinking about it. or perhaps if it offends you, you are a ho. and I know there is idiot out there, who will just have to write me and explain it to me, if you must, go for it. but regardless of whether you do or not. its rediculous. lets get real. that comes from a time from before there were "ho's". are we gonna get so stupid and foolish that we have to rewrite all of our stories to make them fit todays sensitivities? are we going to rewrite our history? rewriteing it wont change it. we already rewrite things as it is, the meaning of names, the meaning of latin words. where/when does it stop? |
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hmmmm. recived an e-mail from a young lady I was e-mailing back and forth with. she sounded angry and I could not figure out why. but looking at my journal entries, I noticed one from 2 or 3 weeks back. about a sub who was supposed to e-mail me a number to call her. she didnt do it and I was ranting on about it. I know I'm not supposed to mention names, but gig, if you thought this journal entry was about you, it wasnt. it was dealing with a sub who contacted me before we were talking. so if you thought it was you, relax. nothing negative has been aimed at you. if any one was to ask me about you, I would tell them you are a sweet, hard working woman. and that you deserve some happiness and joy in your life. and I truley hope you find it.
be well, be safe, and above all, good luck
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ok, if your gonna contact me and ask to talk. please respond to e-mails. |
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wondering what goes through people's mind's. I was talking with a sub near me, for several week's. we made arrangement's to share phone number's and call on a certain date. then she didnt follow through. she ignored e-mail's reminding her that we were going to call. it's like she just dropped of the face of the earth. I know she still comes to the site, I even know she read the e-mail I sent. I mean, did she change her mind, or what? she could at least say something. I mean, c'mon people, we're adult's, let's act like it. if you change your mind or something, have the damn gut's to say something, dont just disappear. |
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posted a pic. it's not the best. and I have lost weight since it was taken christmas 06. will get a better one soon |
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just wondering. when people come to this site, it is assumed they are here to chat and eventually meet other's, (unless they have otherwise indicated so). I have tried to chat with some and they dont respond. I understand that if invited to dhat, you may not be interested, and that is all well and good.
but a little common courtesy is not out of the question. if you dont want to chat, at least have the courtesy or good manner's to say so. if nothing else a quik message, such as, " thank you for the invitation, but i am not interested at this time".
I dont care who you are, Master or slave
Domme or slave
Dom or sub
a little common courtesy is not uncalled for. |
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