People ask, what a Daddy Dom is Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dominant. His choice is to be a Daddy Dom, this does not mean incest (as has been said in the past by ignorant people) rather a Daddy Dom is One who cares for, nurtures, shapes, and molds his baby girl into the image He thinks she should become. He sees in her someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He often times believes more in her, than she believes in herself.
His love for his baby girl goes without question. He loves her as much for whom she is, as for what she will become with His guidance. She is ...... His prized possession. a Daddy's eyes will light up when she comes into a room and take great pride in her success's. After all, He helped to create her. She holds the tenderest part of His heart and has greatest power to hurt Him.
This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his lilgirl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given Him and takes great pains to increase its value. It is extremely important to Him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with Him.
He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, His discipline is more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the lilgirl to really trust, she must know He means what He says. If His lilgirl is going to be the best she can possibly be He must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and His knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.
If He does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If His submissive finds that she can manipulate Him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.
This takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in His arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.
A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to His submissive...acceptance. She is safe in His arms because He knows her, everything about her, and He still loves her. When she goes to Him she knows that this Man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To Him she is and always will be beautiful.
A Daddy Dom and a Sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their sub missive’s masochism. This balance is necessary to many lilgirls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.
I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of Male authority figure in the sub missive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/lilgirl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants crave.
Perhaps a Daddy Dom is something only a lilgirl can understand.
My Ideal Person: A woman that desires a Daddy Dominant without the drama of online head games, she must need a leader and partner that appreciates the fact that Daddy does not need to have a leash on his little girl.
Openly communicates her desires with her Daddy without reservations since she knows that Daddy cannot read minds.
there's a reason why a lot of people with low self-esteem are drawn to
this lifestyle, and why the mental institutions are full of people who
went too far here. there's no way to tell the sociopath sadists from
the safe players just by looking around here. however, the more
aggressive and intolerant the reaction you get when you question them,
the more you might want to be suspicious of the nature of their beast.
The Dominants Creed
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Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the
?Knowledge that the gift she gives him is the
greatest of all.
?He is demanding and?takes full advantage of
the power
?Given to him, but knows how to share the
pleasure that
?Comes from that precious gift.
?He is in control of himself first and foremost,
so that he
?May control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant,
?He can cause his sub to cry real tears.? As
the consummate
?Lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without
ever
?Stepping out of character.
?In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the
roles behind,
?To be a supportive friend and partner, never
forgetting that
?This is still a loving relationship between two
caring
?Individuals. He is quick to understand the differences
?Between fantasy and reality.? He would
never ask a
?Submissive to put him before her career, or
family, just to
?To win his sub missive?s mind, body and soul, he
knows he
?Must first win her trust. He will show his submissive
?Humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that
?His guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and
deserving
?Of her attention, that this is a man she can
learn from, and
?Trust his direction.
?He is romantic enough to be protective and
chivalrous.?
?When called upon, he will fight for his ladies'
honor.? He
?Proves to her that he is someone she can lean
on, and
?Depend on.
?He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a
chauvinist, yet
?Modern enough to respect his woman.? Quick
to point out
?The differences between them, he also knows
there is no
?Inferiority in those differences.
?When it comes time to teach his submissive her
lessons of
?Obedience, he is a strong and unyielding
professor. He will
?Accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection
from his
?Student.? Never does he use discipline
without good reason.
?When he does, it is always with a knowledgeable
and
?Careful hand.
?He is a careful guide, with safety always his
main concern.?
?He knows how to use pain to extend the bounds of
?Pleasure.? He is a mentor who can bring her
to the edges of
?Her envelope, and gently show her the inner
courage to
?Reach new heights.
?He is always open to communication and
discussion,
?Always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient,
?Taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing
that as her
?Trust of him grows, so will they?
?He never has to demand ritual behavior by
her. She
?Responds to him out the want of pleasing
him.? Compliance
?Comes from the wanting to please, not the fear
of
?Punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and
?Body, and never violates the trust given to him.
?He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the
absurdities
?Of life.? Courageous enough to accept
assistance. Open
?Minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to
?Grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little
?Help from rope, paddle, and blindfold. He understands that
?Each partner gains most from pleasuring the
other. And
?Both of them know that love is the only binding
that truly
?Holds.
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So I find this test on how Submissive or Dominant you are.
The Are you Dominant or submissive Test
Your result for The Are you Dominant or submissive Test ...
The Master
You scored ###
DOM
DOM DOM -- You are DEFINITELY dominant. You control the relationship,
and your partner, and you like it. You don't like being left out of the
loop most of the time, and you're very certain of your expectations in
your relationship(s) with your partner(s). Find yourself a good little
slave girl, and you're definitely good to go!
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Thought of the day,
If not having a photo posted on your
profile indicates you are a phony, how does one with a photo validate
your profile?
