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Male Submissive, 26, London
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Male Dominant, 37, LONDON
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Female Dominant, 25, ALAMEDA, California
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About alondraj
Submission is the ultimate gift, meant to be cherished and well cared for. A sub isn't a door mat or a mindless doll, just as it's the Dom's job to teach, nurture, and love it is the sub's job to question, learn and grow.
I first got into BDSM at the age of 15, only a month after my birthday in fact. I don't remember ever being unaware of the lifestyle, in fact I had (and still have) the belief that everyone is dominant or submissive in a relationship. Although this belief was initially aimed towards vanilla relationships and was more along the lines of 'this person is the decision maker' than about true power transference.
My initiation into the lifestyle came at the hands of a friend of a friend whom I took an interest in one night after long discussion. Up until that point I had always been the decision maker and the aggressor in sex, so when the guy asked to take me home and tie me up I was a bit thrown. After some internal debate I agreed figuring the worst that could happen was bad sex (I already knew this person so figured it was safe to play). The sex turned out to be anything but bad and my first experience with bondage flipped a switch inside me.
My relationship with my first play partner was more educational than play oriented. Our libidos were ill matched so the sex was infrequent at best. However I learned more about me than I knew was possible. For the first time in my life I knew what it was to feel safe, bound and helpless equaled comfort for to the point that I took to binding myself with bondage tape before sleeping.
That relationship ending but my search for self in BDSM did not. Since that time I have been a collared sub, a 24/7 slave, a play partner.
In time this would become a complete relationship whereby He also seeks His best friend, confidante, lover and slave. It would encompass the usual activities of a relationship.... dating, dining out, weekends away and socializing. He would understand the woman she is, as well as the slave He desires and knows that the two are not mutually exclusive... Do you have a great sense of the ridiculous? love to burst into song or laughter just because... enjoy driving for no reason listening to tunes or maybe must holding hands and chatting? Looking for kink is one thing, but finding the One that clicks on more than just the kink level is really the basis of a great relationship-to-be, don't you think? *grins*
This is who she is rather than what she does.... there is no off switch... This is how she needs to live... love and be loved....
As honored as she is by your attention, married or attached men are not who she would submit to since this is a relationship dynamic for her which allows her absolute access to her Master and not be the secret he hides.... |
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