almostacougar

I have a terrible memory. Like, executive-function-issues level of terrible memory. I forget stuff about my best friend and she teases me about it. I ALSO have mild face-blindness. As in, someone came up to me at a party, in the context of texting me the day before that they would be at this party, and said hello to me. I said hello back and flirted with him because I was attracted, but he could tell I did not recognize him. He was like, "it's me, the person you are expecting to meet up with." Doh. What makes this worse is that I had slept with him a few times the year before. At least I'm consistent in my attraction!

All this to say: if we have interacted in the past and I don't remember, don't take it personally. 

The upside of this is that I'm dead-honest. It would be impossible for me to keep track of lies, and I'm generally a person of high integrity anyway. I'm also very consistent with my sense of self, my desires, and my values. So even if I'm "meeting you again for the first time," you will have a sense of continuity. 

Here's my new profile while the mods on this esteemed and contemporary website make decisions: 

Back online-ish. Secondary profile, IYKYK, but I had a stalker on the other one and it got annoying. 

Fairly busy, very selective. Seeking local to SF Bay Area, although I travel internationally so if I reach out to you, I have plans to be in your city. 

I am a heavily-Domme leaning switch. A good match for a switch who likes to be a service Top when they are allowed to be in control. 

I also like submissives, slaves, and painsluts. If I trust that you are genuinely a masochist, I can be a serious sadist... as in, careful what you wish for. 

I am not a sexual or romantic match with a Dom, or Domme for that matter, unless you are trying out your sub side. Dom folks curious about switching seem to gravitate towards me, which is flattering, and it's fun to flip you. But I do not seem to get into the mindset of being submissive in any meaningful sense of the word, and thus we will likely eventually make each other unhappy. Friendship and co-Domming people can work spendidly though. 

Anyway

Be good.