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Transgender Submissive, 47, Cherry Hill, New Jersey
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Female Submissive, 21
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Female Submissive, 38, st louis, Missouri
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About AllInOurMinds
Im very interested in the whole idea of dominance and submission and am looking for people to talk about and explore it with. My aim is to find someone to discuss things with through messaging, email etc and see where that takes us. I'm not expecting to rush directly into something, but if I find the right person and we connect, who knows where it might lead?
For me, the most fascinating and alluring part of Ds is the psychological side of it rather than the physical. How it feels to have control over another, or to give control to them and how much pleasure we can draw just from thoughts of that and letting ourselves explore those aspects of our psyches, rather than just plunging straight into the physical.
I was previously listed as switch, but have now changed that to submissive as I'm seeking a dominant woman for a female-led relationship, and I'm hoping for a relationship with that deeper connection, not just a play partner. The key for me is the psychological and sensual side of it rather than the bluntly physical, and an extension of that is that seems to be that I respond to the person. So, the profiles of some dominant women leave me unmoved, while others make me want to explore that submissive side of me more, but I cant work out what thing it is thats distinctive about the ones I respond to...yet.
I've done a number of different jobs in my time and can share amusing stories from many of them if you should be interesting. I'm currently developing myself as a writer and have also been doing more travelling and thinking recently as I'm trying to work on myself. I love to walk and hike, and I'm also a regular (if slow) runner. I read a hell of a lot, and have a number of ever-growing number of TV shows that I should catch up on when I find the time.
So, I have revised this profile a couple of times, and no doubt will again as I try and find the words that capture the state of my mind and explain what Im looking for. Maybe if I understood that for myself itd help!
(Things that annoy me here - stripping apostrophes from words, and taking ages to approve edits of the profile. If youre wondering why Iv favourited you without any message, its because I found your profile interesting but couldnt message you while this was being approved, but wanted to have a reminder for when I can message again!) |
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So, this is working now, is it? This site is weird, but hopefully I can post somthing here without sending my profile off to limbo for another few years. Anyway, consider this an addition or replacement to what's in my profile, as appropriate:
Lockdown's given me a chance to think more about who I am and what I'm looking for and I'm interested in discovering more about Female Led Relationships (FLRs) and the women who lead them. It's the mental and psychological side of it that interests me more than the physical part of it. I want to know what it's like to give yourself to serve and follow another, and if I'm capable of that level of giving myself or devotion to another. When i read stories of submission and dominance, it's the mindset of the submissive that interests and arouses me, not the physical element. That doesn't mean I'm not interested in the physical side of submission and surrender, but it's not my primary interest.
I'm interested in finding someone to connect with for a relationship, but also friends and people who want to chat. I'm monogamous in relationships, I know people who are poly and it works for them, but I'm really not sure I could deal with the logistics of being involved with more than one person, let alone the emotional side of it.
What am I interested in most of all? Knowing things, learning new things and discovering things about the world, especially the people that fill it, and especially myself because even after all this time I still don't even come close to understanding everything that goes on in inside my mind. I definitely don't think I'll ever understand everyone else, or the world, but it's fun to try and understand as much as I can. I'd be happy getting to know someone here who makes me want to write and think more, to discuss and explore everything and anything together be it sexual or not. I don't really mind if you're next door (well, I know my neighbours, and it would be a bit of a surprise if you were) or on the other side of the world, if your interested in getting to know each other, I'm happy to fire interesting messages back and forth. |
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