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	A representation of my ideal relationship is the one between Morticia and Gomez Addams.? Read my journal posting of 10.23.13 (or 10.17.13, something is wrong with the dating and time on collarspace) to find out what I am looking for in a companion and read the rest of this profile to see how to get a response. I only reward good behavior and do not indulge punishment seeking disobedience. I am looking for a relationship not sessions or one time encounters. After careful introspection and quite a bit of searching for answers I have come to the conclusion that I am a dominant person. I was in a relationship where I was spoiled and cosseted but it was not enough. I did not come to life unless the situations were about control and willpower. As I delve more and more into this lifestyle I recognize different characteristics of myself that I kept away from the light, fearing that they were not traits I should exhibit. I see now that in order to truly be happy I should embrace all parts of me instead of just the things that are deemed socially or culturally acceptable. I am excited about this new leg of my journey through life. I already know that I will have to pace myself and listen to my own responses instead of summarily rejecting things out of hand because I am worried about appearances or it is outside of my comfort zone. Most of my relationships would be classified as female led. I have experience with corporal discipline although I prefer devious mental punishments. My fondest wish is that I would love to have two submissive yet strong males to be my personal guard dogs although this fantasy will probably never become reality. I once got into an argument with a partner of mine that accused me of trying to control him. I tried to explain to him that I don't want to force control on him rather I would wish for him to want to please me. In my future relationships I hope to forge a partnership with a companion where we can grow in this lifestyle. ? On a lighter note, I am fascinated by a variety of different things and I am somewhat open to new experiences. I love the Three Stooges, Sherlock Holmes and the smell of a clean house with freshly laundered sheets on the bed. I enjoy traveling, reading and cooking but I hate cleaning up. I love animals of all kinds from the cuddliest puppy and kitten to the sleekest snake and frog. In fact the only animals that I don't like are cockroaches, flies, earwigs and mosquitoes. I even think ants have their own charm. I wish I was more of a fashionista but I can't quite see spending all that money on something so fleeting. I mean on quality items that will last longer than a season, sure but $400 for some Chanel flip flops? I don't think so. Lately, my interests have turned to motorcycling, marksmanship and learning a foreign language. At some point in the next 5 years I also would like to get my pilot's license (the streets are getting too crowded).Well I think I have rambled on long enough. I do not mind you making the first move; however, in your message you must tell me your favorite movie, book or song. If I can think of anything else of significance to add I'll post a note. A P.S. Smoking is a hard limit for me; however I am not opposed to allowing the occasional cigar (semi-yearly) as long as proper protocol is observed. The unwarranted use of foul language is another hard limit. If you smash your finger in the car door you are allowed to curse. If you just sprinkle it liberally in conversation you will be disciplined. Cursing while being disciplined will result in double punishment ;-).

Thank you. To all of the s side of switches, submissives and slaves (did you notice that I put you guys lower?😊), thank you. Thank you for being the counterpoint to my dominance. Thank you for allowing my true nature to grow and mature. I still get a thrill each time an order is followed or an action is deferred. Thank you for putting me to sleep with gentle caresses and being open for me to pound away on with that new vibrating strap on. Thank you for being available for me to conduct my various experiments on with nothing more than a long suffering sigh. Thank you for your concern and compassion when I have the sniffles and I'm not feeling very dominant. Thank you for your service and anticipating my needs. Thank you for hanging in there and searching for dominants and jumping through all the hoops we put up (and set on fire). Thank you for not letting consent violations stop you from searching for a dominant that will value you. Thank you for not settling for vanilla because it's easy or convenient. Thank you to those s-types that are obedient. Thank you to those that look to improve themselves for the pleasure of their dominant. Thank you to the brats. Even though you're not my cup of tea I still appreciate you. Thank you for you being you which allows me to be me. Without anyone to follow leaders would just be people out for a stroll. This is my personal thank you. It is not meant to represent anyone else's dynamic or style of dominance. This flurry of writing activity is a thank you to those that subscribe to my profile. I felt guilty about the dearth of activity for people that believe I have something worth following. Thank you for excusing any spelling or grammatical errors and just viewing this in the spirit that it was meant. Thank you for reading the whole thing. A

I now revel in the feminine variations for certain terms. It is something I struggled with at first. I still lament the connotations attached to some words but I've learned to deal with them. Plus people that make judgements from surface observations are not who I want to associate with anyway.

My domination style is not for everyone and I'm okay with that because I am not looking to dominate everyone. I recognize that submission means different things to different people. I just hope to find someone(s) whose outlook matches mine.

Penetration =/= domination. To me this means that I can have conventional, insert penis into vagina style, sex with my submissive and still remain his dominant. It also means that my pet does not have to be penetrated anally or orally to be submissive to me. In fact, I want their submission to come from within not due to any outside equipment. I should not have to lock you in stocks with your ankles strapped to a spreader bar and fist you for you to feel submissive to me. Those activities should be a result of your submission not the causative factor.

I will fight the world for us. I will take on any and all comers. I will battle until I can not go on and then flip them off as my parting gesture. I will wage war for us. Blitz attacks, guerrilla warfare and open combat are all within my purview. I can be mercenary in my tactics and use strategy devised by Sun Tzu. I would wipe my ass with the Geneva Conventions and not blink an eye. I promise to stand with you against it all.

The one thing I will not do is fight you for us. I refuse to fight a war on two fronts.

I am looking for my complement. They must be between the ages of 21-45.

I believe in female supremacy as it relates to me. I do not think that all women are superior or that all men are inferior; I just know that I will be over my chosen companion. I want to be your source of pleasure and your greatest frustration. I want to be the one to make you smile and I also want to rejoice in your tears. I want to make you feel uncomfortable yet comforted. I want you to make me proud of you even as I strive my best to embarass you and make you blush.

I am looking for someone with an oral fixation and the skills to get the job done (for hours). Not just in one particular area but from head to toe. No dominants unless we are exchanging ideas on the best products to use, the easiest position for a sub to deep throat, tips and techniques, etc. I do not switch. No married men; I do not work around anyone else's schedule. I am not into race play.

I want a realistic relationship within a safe space so please be able to separate fantasy from reality. I might get creative with ginger but I will not make you eat almonds if you have a nut allergy. I will not put you in bondage or blindfold you if you have PTSD and can not handle such activities. I am not going to put you in a position to lose your job or custody of your children if you have them although even with those parameters there are lots of games we could play!

I am not here to facilitate your foray into homosexuality. Yes, there might be some flexible events in your future but I will remain the focus. I am not into feminization or sissification but I am willing to explore your kink and there might?be panties on your horizon. After any play we have I will still respect you in the morning and maybe even give you a cuddle.

Besides a man with an ingrained submissive nature, the most important quality that I seek is the ability to follow directions. I have already given two instructions and you have completed one. That means you are halfway to getting a response from me.

Bonus points if you can help me improve my marksmanship, know how to fold a fitted sheet or hone and sharpen kitchen knives.

I am a little bit of a nerd...

I know that once upon a time Superman did not fly and why Batman used a gun but very little after the Crisis of Infinite Earths.

I am a little bit of a geek...

I have been with the mission since TOS and I know where my towel is but I only liked the 9th doctor.

I am a little bit of a jock...

I can spot the difference between a zone defense and a blitz but getting sweaty and dirty is not my favorite.

I am a little bit of an adrenaline junkie...

I have skydived, driven in excess of 120 m.p.h. and played with tigers but I wear my seatbelt everytime.

I am a little bit of a hypocrite...

I am all about the animals and would never own a fur coat but I love the feel of fur and silk on my skin.

I am a little bit uncivilized...

I have temper that would enjoy flaying a man alive but I work on it and keep it in check every day.

I am a little bit of a stereotype...

I ski, travel, have command of the English language, have no children, eat healthily, but don't mess up my hair.

I am a little bit of a misanthrope...

I usually stay behind the scenes and I don't like very many people, but I think it is just the rude, ignorant ones.

I am a little bit of a renaissance woman...

I have degrees in psychology, business, and philosophy and can cook a meal from soup to nuts, change automotive brakes, recharge an air conditioning system, massage out kinks, clean, load and accurately fire a P226, but I know I have so much to learn.

I am a little bit dangerous...

I would tell you but...

I don't understand how individuals that profess a love for housework or serving as a butler can post pictures taken in dirty mirrors with unmade beds or piles of clothes in the background. How am I supposed to believe in your abilities to service me to a certain standard when you choose to post evidence to the contrary?