...why do we label ourselfs..dom, sub or whatever...it starts to seem so ridiculous...i have so many reasons why I believe it is a bunch of garbage....leaving this entry up before I close my account.

To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.

"Yesterday is but a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision.  But a today well-lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of hope."

The New Year is here and this quote  pretty much sums up how I feel.......

 "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

I believe this has happened to most of us once in our lifetime:

 You're the one who broke my heart, you're the reason my world fell apart, you're the one who made me cry, yet I'm still in love with you and I don't know why.
Far too many times we fall in love with someone who doesn't love us back. And as much as you love & care for them, there is nothing you can do to change the way they feel. There is no greater hurt then the one of rejection. You put your heart and soul on the line only to have it torn apart. It is a hurt that only time can heal.

The happiest people don't have the best of everything.
They just make the best of everything that they have!!
Live simply . . . Love generously . . . Care deeply . . .Speak kindly . . .
The richest person is not the one who has the most, but the one who needs the least.

Trust your own instinct. Your mistakes might as well be your own, instead of someone else's. 


When I hear somebody sigh that Life is hard, I am always tempted to ask, Compared to what?

It's a new day... "This is the beginning of a new day. You have been given this day to use as you will. You can waste it or use it for good. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever; in its place is something that you have left behind...let it be something good." 

I watched the movie "The Notebook" (again) and was wondering if anyone on this site has seen it?
I only know of one Dom so far.....I am curious.
If so...what are your true feelings about it?

l have been writing someone for quite sometime now and must be sure before taking the next step to meet...therefore I am still leaving the doors open since I have not made any commitments.

I have come to realize I am a hopeless romantic..and maybe this or any other site I have joined is not for me.  I believe in fate
just like my Mother & Dad when they met. So I must have the faith that what is meant to be shall be.
We who use the term "sub" to describe ourselves is just a word..if you trully love someone you don't have to use any name.. for one can give their all without any attached to them it will come from love not from a name used to describe one. It is a feeling deep within. Feelings are emotions, and sensations, and they are different from thoughts, beliefs, interpretations, and convictions. These are just my thoughts and not inteneded to devalue anyone.

THIS HEARTFELT WRITING WAS SENT TO ME .. AND AS I READ ..I THINK.. IF ONLY!!!
 
~The Olive Tree~
A confused sub came before a wise Master who adored her. She felt that to submit to Him would mean she would open her heart to unbearable pain should He ever leave her. She hungered for Him and needed Him, but was ready to walk away in a panic. The gentle Master knelt her before Him and started a tale of love and devotion. As she looked up at Him His arms began to widen and open like a large tree stretches its branches to the sky. At that moment the Master appeared rooted to the floor and His impressive size towered above her like a giant tree. Then He began to speak........
 
I'm here for you, now and always no matter how far time and space takes us. Whether you walk away from Me today or you stay and serve Me I will not turn from you. I am as patient as time itself. I will take not from you unless you give freely and completely of yourself. But I give onto you regardless, for My love is unconditional. Like the olive tree that can both feed you and shade you I am there seemingly eternal to your short life on this earth. If you need My fruit to feed your hunger I will give you all the fruit you need. If your skin grows dry and loses its luster, the oil from My fruit will restore it and make it glisten. When you need comfort My leaves will gently caress your face with the slightest breeze.
When you need discipline My branches will correct you when the wind blows strong. If you just need My shade to protect you from the sun, My branches will shade and protect you. If you need warmth at night My fallen branches will fuel the fire to keep you warm and safe. If you need a refreshing breeze My leaves will fan and cool you. You are My gardener. When you submit to Me you tend that which keeps Me vibrant and full of life. When you kneel under Me and till the soil you give breath to My roots. When you water Me, My sap flows strong through Me and raises My limping branches.

When you soil yourself collecting fertilizer with your bare
hands you strengthen Me and humble Me with your devotion. Although My life will go on, life would not be the same without you. Your dedication and unconditional care for Me keeps Me vibrant and nutures My very core. The sustenance and protection I give you seems little reward for your servitude. Still the gardener serves the tree from her heart and the tree gives to her heart all that He can! I am planted firmly on the ground and cannot follow you if you walk away from Me. But be assured I will survive. One hundred years later and two of your lifetimes I will still be there waiting for you in the same spot to offer you all that I do now.
Stay with Me and be My gardener. You cannot get lost in Me for we are complemetary to each other. I am your devotion, and you give meaning to My existence. Apart we live life and survive, together we bloom eternally! As the Master finished His last words the sub cried herself to sleep at His feet. That night He stood planted there like 'The Olive Tree' offering her His unconditional love and protection as she would tend to Him with her devotion the next day and everyday thereafter.
 

Submissive’s Creed