so, my ex gf has wallet raped me.  i guess i am supposed to like it.  :-D

i have been contacting a lot of Mistresses lately and they all seem fake.  i think i will go back to being an observer for a while.  

maybe it's time to make a voice greeting  

Anyone else finding that their computer locks up on certain profiles ever time you go to them? I have a new computer and it is happening.  Very weird!!

i work in a call center.  i can just imagine taking a call from a Mistress who decides to take advantage of the situation not knowing I am a sub but knowing She has control of the situation and tells me She wants to dominate me right there.  Not sure how it would go but think it could be shocking and fun at the same time.  :-D

Anyone ever sat at their desk at work and wanted to masturbate but couldn't because well, you're at work?  

Here's my theory about the "fake" pics some of the women post here.  At least the women in the pics are real so they are actually out there somewhere.  :-D

Wow!  2 Mistresses in 1 day actually chatted with me w/o mentioning any expectations?  I'm shocked!!  

There is a Domme here who has a pic of a CHILD, whom I assume is hers, as her profile pic.  What's up with that?   Just my opinion but this site is no place to post a pic of a child.  

so, i've given 2 Domme's money as they have asked.  Now, neither are talking to me.  I would have thought they would continue to talk to me.  Still trying to understand fin dom, i guess  

There is a scammer posting various profiles with a pic of a STUNNING woman.  Too bad She is not real.  :-(

i have no idea where this came from but i just thought this.  "Submission is liberating"  Think about it.  

So, this site has not become a source of comedy for me.  Last night, I posted that I was attracting scammers again and right after I posted it, I got an e-mail from a scammer!  lolol

Hmmmm i seem to be attracting scammers again.  thrilling!!

i USE to hate the idea of fin dom but now, i sort of get off on it.  very odd!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aprapSEUHvc&feature=related

  Pretty "hot" smoking fetish clip.....and from youtube, no less.  :-D

i would give anything....almost...to worship a Woman's feet right now  :D

Got a mew computer.  Can get back on cam now  :-D

so, this Female friend, who definitely has a Dominant side, told me She has a kidnap fantasy.  Then, She told me i would go too easily!  lol

here is a somewhat serious question.  what percentage of men out there wear a chastity device or ladies underwear on a regular basis while in public?

am finding myself getting turned on by getting kicked in the balls.  

going to the dentist today.  the Ultimate BDSM experience  hehehe

A local Mistress i know once told me She wanted to tie me down and beat me.  For some reason, i can't get that out of my head  :-D

2 Gay guys viewing me tonight?  Whats up with that?

Looking for a Mistress to take control of my cock cuz Lord knows i have no control

i love how i can look at pics w/o actually having to go into a profile  

its pretty sad when i am not on the site for a few days and then come back and it is the same faces.   we need some new blood here.   :-D

Talking to a "Mistress" who has to be a guy.  What is wrong with people?

i was just soaking in the tub and "slightly" kicked myself in the balls. i hate to say it but it stirred an interest  :-D

Why would someone Admire you without ever contacting you?  I just don't get that here.  

Woke up just a few minutes ago with an almost hypnotizing desire to find a FinDom.  Never had this strong a feeling before.  

i've aware of this lifestyle for 30 years.  30 years!!  i have a friend who i met online who is a Lifestyle Dominatrix and phone sex operator so i think i have a fair amount of knowledge about the lifestyle.  Yet, i have never had a r/t session with a Mistress.  i really have to change that and soon!!

think i might need a Key Holder cuz i am playing with myself way too much.  

When will these people learn?  A "Mistress" here from Ghana, Alabama.  Really?  I really hate scammers although they are fun to mess with sometimes.  lol  

Never thought it would be this hard.....to find a Mistress

looking at Mistress profiles and seeing how hard i can get before i need to cum.  boy, i lead such an exciting life. lol

Looking for a Mistress to teach me about Ladies underwear.  

Thinking it might be time to close this profile

is having the urge to serve a Young Mistress

New pic.....finallly

Just heard and ad for "stroke rehab."  It made me laugh  :-D

Yet another chick playing games with me.  Think i might have to turn gay.  OK, maybe not.  

i love how the Mistresses here bitch about the fake sub/slaves.  What about the fake Mistresses, scammers, etc.  And no, i am not talking about the FinDoms.   

not really a bdsm topic here but do you think that friends sleeping together(no sex), even once, changes that friendship forever?   Need opinions.  

I think my New Years resolution for this site will be to either change my pic, add a video and/or voice greeting or quit the site completely. LOL

Merry Christmas!!  Now, if only i could get a Mistress under my tree  :-D

Visited a profile of a Mistress who is the most local to me i have seen so far yesterday and today got an e-mail from Her thanking me for the view but saying She was not my type.  i guess i did not realize that viewing a page meant i was interested in Her?  i was actually more interested, at least preliminarily, in that She was actually close to me.  

been getting into the financial domination and erotic hypnosis videos on youtube lately and don't know whether to submit or laugh sometimes.  

Huge Book Sale!!   https://www.facebook.com/events/151253544981062/

thinking about exploring my bi side.  

tired and horny again tonight.  trying to decide whether i should take care of it before or after i go to bed  

still getting over a breakup.  She was sub to her lovers, whom She cheated on me with because i did not satisfy Her sexually but She totally Dominated me, especially over these last few years 

if i'm here, you know i'm horny or just plain bored.  lol

Whoa!  Just saw a pic of a male sub as i was signing out who might just be uglier than i.  Unbelievable!!

should a sub male ever be bored?  well, i am right now.  

i really need a new pic here but hate getting my pic taken!

some of the SEXIEST, most appealing Mistresses are just way too far away.  Frustrating as hell!!

i think i think way too much

Obviously, i am bored to tears but i just had a thought.  What is the most Dominating accent??  Anyone have an opinion??

my ex took the handcuffs.....both sets!!  what a clepto!!!

trying to get up the nerve to do a video greeting  :-D

It's amazing how i see the same Dommes over and over here.  Would love to see some new Women!!

Going through a breakup. Would much rather have a Mistress torturing and humiliating me to tears.  

so, i was sitting at work today minding my own business and all of the sudden i had the strongest urge to worship feet because i saw one of my Female coworkers idly playing with her sandal.  Disappointed it happened at work.  :-(

having a lot of sub women view my page lately.   probably scammers.  very strange.  

how about domination through facebook, twitter, or any other social network?  that way all of your friends could see on your wall what your Mistress is telling you to do.  

i could really see how some Sadistic Queen could make total use of this heat in tormenting Her sub/slave.  Just thinking out loud here...

i wonder if Pippa Middleton is Dom or sub?  hehe

this is getting way too hard.....figuratively and literally

i'm starting to wish my cock was locked up in chastity.  

Was just looking at a profile of a Mistress who has a few pics that look as if they are taken from the prospective of a kneeling sub.  What a turn on!!  Trouble is, now what am i going to do about it!  

is relatively new to texting but just came up with a fantasy of having his Mistress text him a command and then having to send Her pics to prove that it was done. 

Is it me or does it seem like there are only a handful of Mistresses on this site.   i keep seeing the same ones over and over.   Getting boring

The REALLY Hot Mistresses are too damn far away!!

Hard here and no Mistress to make fun of it.  Ahhhhh the agony of it all. 

One of the new Spammers er Mistresses here is from Malaysia, Kentucky. You have to admit thats pretty damn funny.  lol

Just read a VERY hot profile.  Now, my head is spinning.  i want to masturbate but shouldn't.  this is terrible but in a good way. 

i love how people, both Dom and sub alike, bitch that this site sucks yet they are still here!!  i don't think its perfect either but, i think i am here more for the entertainment of it than anything at this point.  Still waiting for a Mistress to prove me wrong. 

Would be into wearing Women's panties but have absolutely no idea what size is right for me.  :-D

Looking for a Humiliatrix

had computer problems so i haven't been on here in a while and boy, do i need a spanking  :-D

i begged a Mistress to give me an assignment and then asked Her a question to complete the assignment the best way possible.  She scoffed at this.  i don't get it.  i was just trying to do the best job possible for Her.

The following essay is a work in progress and will be edited from time to time:

Why i want to Serve Women
For as long as i have been alive, it has been ingrained in me to put Women on a pedestal. My grandfather, an accomplished pharmacist, did everything for my Grandmother. When he was not working, he cooked, cleaned, and drove her everywhere She wanted to go. He even wound Her watch for Her! he humbly did all of this with a smile on his face, a willingness to serve, and never a complaint.

My Mother, much the same way as Her Mother, is Dominant over my father, who as a doctor, is another very accomplished man. My father's servitude to my Mother is not as all incompassing as my grandfather's servitude to my Grandmother was but, everyone knows who is in charge between them. Similar to my grandfather, my father goes about his submissiveness to my Mother with a smile on his face, a willingness to serve, and never a complaint.

Both of these men have shown me that it is not only right but essential that the man serve Women. i have even found that when i am at work, i work harder to impress my Female Supervisors than i do the male ones.

When i became aware of FemDom, i knew that was the right place for me because i want to live a life similar to my father and grandfather.

This is probably weird but if you had asked me before i started learning about the lifestyle, i would have probably told you that being called a name such as pet, bitch boy, slut, slave, puppet, or dog would do absolutely nothing for me but i have to admit that everytime i am called a name like that now i can just feel the submissiveness growing inside me.   One Goddess called me "little eddie."(my name is ed in case you haven't figured that out yet.)  Normally, i would tell you flat out that i hate that but i totally and willingly accepted it when She did it which felt strange at first but i knew that it was the right thing because She wanted it that way.  The journey continues........